People in general are picky about the wrong things, but it seems to change as they get older too.
I see lots of vain, younger people. Looks are super important, more so than personality and then they complain all they meet are jerks.
Yet everyone can be as picky as they want, they just lower their potential dating pool from 100% to 20% then whine about how there is no out there that wants them.
It also bugs me when someone rejects someone, but then later on goes back to them to make a move. Like you were interested in me before, you interested now? I've ran through all the bad boys/girls that I wanted and ready to settle down.
Personal experience here, this man rejected me... told me he was not and never would be interested in me, I worked out and lost a lot of weight then awhile later he was like, "wow you lost a lot of weight, you want to go out?" but "I thought you said you weren't interested in me and never would be?"
Nope, no thanks... so yeah, be choosey as much as you want but people need to realize, they are essentially choosing to be single, if they reduce their potential data pool to such low numbers, they have a better chance of winning the lottery.
@Chthou95 There are both men and women who are picky, men are just a bit simpler. We value looks (incl youth) and personality, regardless of our age.
Women are more complicated, they value looks and personalities well, but have additional values and consequently looks and personality means slightly less.
You may thinking of men beating less picky when it comes down to casual sex, and this is true, but not when to comes to dating and marriage.
I notice that whenever men point out a true issue about women then many girls often respond with “oh people are picky” vs admitting that is a true problem with women. They conveniently use the word “people” to avoid responsibility.
Now of course you will find exceptions either way. But it’s unnerving how many women can’t own up to this behavior.
From an evolution standpoint there are legitimate reasons a woman is picky. She can get pregnant and can get stuck with the baby. She wants a man that can provide and protect her. But it’s counterintuitive how many women are attracted to men who will most likely like do neither at the end of the day (e. g. tall asshole f boys).
@blueonblack22 I've also notice this type of behavior over on purplepilldebate subreddit. The woman there never admit to their own faults and either project their own behavior back onto men or try to play the equality game and state men also do it as well.
@Lookingforthetruth this is never going to change. Reason being the female brain is wired differently. Most women will only seemingly own up to a fault if there some sort of benefit for them doing so (e. g. the don’t want the guy the upset to leave them). Not because it is right thing to do benefit or not.
From an evolutionary perspective women are more selfish and picky for survival purposes. There was a time in history they had to be to protect both themselves and the baby. Modern society has made that no longer necessary though but it’s one of the reasons they want to “have their cake and eat it too”.
But honestly we are just wasting keystrokes trying to convince them otherwise. Sure it feels good to ventilate but they are hardwired that way. Yes it’s bullshit and not only harms men but ultimately harms women in the long run (when men fail women ultimately fail).
The best thing men can do is not give attention and benefits to women who don’t deserve it. This is hard on our part because we have been brainwashed to do the contrary. But it’s the only way we can fight back. Arguing logic will just go in one ear and out the other.
@CubsterShura What men has options? Only the small percentage of high value men which most men aren't. And men need to bring a lot more to the table just to be loved. Women have a higher criteria that most men can't meet. That love will always be conditional
@CubsterShura This always shows that men and women aren't the same nor do we view the world the same way. Women say their standards are fine and easy for men to meet while men think the opposite. And the only reason women think men have high unnatainable standards is because that's what feminism and society has taught women and to think they're oppressed
@CubsterShura how is it exactly “women are expected to do things that are very unattainable”
If you are talking about at least staying in shape and not being obese then that’s not just an issue of beauty but health as well. That isn’t “unattainable”. Maybe difficult for some more than others but not impossible condition to improve. It’s about self discipline and exercise science.
@blueonblack22 You care about women to not be obese because you care about their health? Cool story bro. Totally believable.
@CubsterShura so it’s “healthy” to be morbidly obese? Sound argument sis. Totally logical.
Funny how during the pandemic the number one comorbidity to covid-19 deaths was obesity. That inconvenient fact got downplayed by the liberal mass media of course. Facts don’t matter I guess if you might hurt someone’s feelings or encourage them to change their habits to save their lives.
@blueonblack22 "so it’s “healthy” to be morbidly obese? Sound argument sis. Totally logical."
I never said that. You don't get to speak of logic when you are outright straw-manning yourself.
@CubsterShura because a healthy looking woman is subconsciously appears more fertile to a man hence that’s why she’s more attractive. I never said I expected women to be anorexic or some nonsense. But there is a reason why men are not as attracted to overweight women.
But being overweight is something CAN change. Women wanting tall men is something men can NOT change. It’s almost completely determined by genetics.
I’m 6ft by the way. But I do think the female obsession with height is quite ridiculous.
@blueonblack22 You are the first person to bring up obesity, not me. From the very beginning, your mind went to that the moment you read 'unattainable standards' as if that's the only thing that I meant. When unattainable standards are way way more than that, everything from self-maintenance to lifestyle especially after having a child. You think you are being all logical when you're being the total opposite. Still blabbering on about health and weight, it shows your own obsession with this topic more than anything else.
I don't even know what was your point in plugging your height. I've dated men taller than you and as short as my own height and those in between, and I'm only 5'2". Both the tall and short guy were unhinged assholes, the former a conceited narcissist with a superiority complex the latter an insecure prick with a victim mentality. The short guy is someone I went to high school with and I never even noticed how tall (or short) he is although I saw him every day in school, the tall guy I only noticed because I met him through a mutual friend who told me before I saw him that he is really tall. Y'all need to take your heights less seriously, it's the guys in between who were not weird about their height.
Health is more than how much fat you have in your body. I'm the least active person I know and I naturally have an hourglass figure with a normal BMI. It doesn't mean that I'm healthy I am actually losing weight rapidly as I am on medicines that severely suppress my appetite, no one is coming and telling me that I need to eat more and exercise because they are concerned about my health although I am visibly more sickly and lethargic these days. I am not going to believe one bit that you would tell me that if you were around, I walk by plenty of men like you every day and if you lot cared to do that you would've done that already plus you already proved with your first thought being obesity what your mind really focuses on.
@CubsterShura alright about the obesity subject. You have to understand that BBW women are often shaming and blaming men nowadays for not wanting to date them. The entire “body positivity” movement is really based on that. Like it’s possible to shame someone into changing their physical attraction preferences. That’s literally impossible. That’s why I went off on that. 9 out 10 times I encounter a woman who says something along the lines of “unattainable” it usually has something to with her body type.
But the other issues you brought up are a deeper discussion.
@blueonblack22 Being a BBW is a choice that reflects a woman's lifestyle and has direct impact on her health and that of her kids. Yet, many of the things women have preference for in men have no bearing on whether he would make good partner or not.
@Lookingforthetruth exactly.
Honestly the deeper issue on all of this is respect. If a woman wants to chase assholes and/or feel attracted or unattracted to things a man has no control over than fine. It might be unfair and stupid but fine.
But about 80-90% of the male frustration nowadays has more to do with HOW women reject men vs. the rejection in itself.
Many women see no problem being rude to men they reject. This includes: being nasty to him, mocking and laughing at him, ghosting him and last but not least friéndzoning him (worst one of all in my opinion). A mature man can handle rejection. But when a woman disrespects a well meaning man she’s not attracted to it does a lot more damage than she realizes. Especially if it happens to him often.
It's not only about height. Women are also picky when it comes to income and status.
Overall, women value 3 things in men:
1. Look (Height, face, race)
2. Money (cash, material possession)
3. Status (job status, popularity, social connections, how well liked you are)
Each woman will prioritize one trait more than the other when seeking a partner and these traits might change importance as a woman gets older. For example, a lot of women start prioritizing money/stability more over looks as they get older and need to focus on starting a family.
Now, how does this relate back to your question. Women by in large are naturally hypergamous and want to date a man they feel inferior to. Some of this manifest in minority women, who exclusively date only white guys because they see such men as superior to them. Other times, this manifest as women wanting to only date men who make more money than them. Sometimes, having a strong social media presence and being an influencer/more popular than said girl can land you the girl.
https://www.youtube.com/embed/Ps9qVIh_rFIExample, birdylovesit above is a very attracive cam girl who got with the twitch gamer due to his high social media influence and money that came from his career. This guy physically is no different from the many guys that jerk off to her on chaturbate.
The problem with hypergamy though it often results in women going after men that other women also have their eyes set on. This in turn give these guys insane dating power, which they use to pump and dump women. And the girls then go on social media complaining about men abusing them.
https://www.youtube.com/embed/lj_HpxT4iXchttps://www.youtube.com/embed/WSR2i3cJ08sThe problem with modern day women is that they have gotten a distorted outlook on what they can get due to the following factors at play:
1. Society and female friends telling them that they are perfect and should only accept the best and not settle for anything else.
2. Male simps who constantly give them compliments on social media that they are 9/10+ beauties and bad bitches.
3. Attractive and wealthy men who are messaging these girls in the DM in the hopes of easy lays.
4. No penalties for engaging in promiscuous sex or unhinged hypergamy by society.
So a lot of women don't really have a good grasp of their actual worth in dating when it comes to LTR and shoot their shots for men far above them. A lot of them apply standards for partners that they don't even have.
For example, a girl whose skinny fat and has a shit diet expects a guy who works out at the gym and is well built for a boyfriend. She thinks they are on equal terms due to all her male simps telling her on social media that she is perfect.
In general (always exceptions both ways) women without a doubt are much more pickier than men. Why else do they shit test? Why do piece of shit gold diggers still exist in western countries?
There was a time in history where women had to be picky. Their sexuality was the only true power they had had prior to modern society, women’s rights, legal protection for women and birth control. They acted picky to protect themselves and their children. Through evolution this got hard coded on their brains.
But nowadays lots of their pickiness is unnecessary and self sabotaging in the modern world. Also the fact many of them are more attracted to “challenge” (assholes, violent men, etc.) is counterintuitive to their so called survival instincts they have. Those guys will be a danger to the woman and more likely to abandon her if she gets pregnant. Yet they turn lots of them on (and don’t deny that ladies).
All in all women are not going to change. No amount of logic and fact will ever correct their subconscious thinking when it comes to what they want to date vs reject.
BUT there is still one advantage men have over women in the modern world: women NEED attention. Men like attention but we it’s not a basic necessity to our existence.
If men could be tougher and have the self discipline and self respect to deny attention to women who don’t deserve it then this is one thing that drives women nuts. But too many idiot guys keep following tick tock videos, follow IG models, buy OG fans, kiss hot girls asses, etc. If we could turn off the attention spigot it would force women to change.
Height: Yes, definitely. Especially the girls who are very short but still will only date the top 10% of men who are over 6'
But "picky" about everything else? That's too vague to be answerable.
I voted 'yes' because you specified height.
Well it's height for women and weight for men in my experience.
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I think most girls prefer guys a little taller than them and most guys are taller than women. A lot of girls will also go for a guy the same height as them. I've met very short guys with amazing women. Their personalities were top notch.
Some women are and others not as much. Who really cares men have preferences and standards too. Everyone is different. So if someone isn’t into you. Simply move on
Nothing wrong with having standards as long as the person's standards don't exceed their own qualities.
For example, if she wants a tall man, she shouldn't be fat, if she wants someone loyal/exclusive she also needs to be loyal/exclusive (no promiscuous past, no contact with any ex, no provocative or revealing pictures posted online for attention), if she wants someone that provides for her (house, food, utilities, etc.) Then she needs to do all domestic chores if he is the sole provider.
The problem is when people expect a lot from a partner and they don't bring nearly as much to the relationship themselves.
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Everyone has the right to set their own standards, it just restricts their own options.
Women are allowed to be picky about anything including height or income or whatever.
Men are allowed to be picky about anything including size, or even looks.
It just boils down to what the individual perceives as realistic, and that may be different from what everyone else thinks is realistic.
You really think they are hating on you? Nah man they hating on me.
lets try this again. People are not salty. They could care less about downvoting you. They are downvoting me.
Im picky about his face (shape of nose, look of the teeth, height of the forehead), his current/future goals, his habits (if he smokes AT ALL and how often he drinks), and his past number of sex partners. Because if I’m not into his face, I’m not into him. If our goals ain't on the same page then we ain't gone work. And if he’s sexually given himself to too many girls, especially outside of a relationship, then I can’t look at him without thinking of him as easy and being somewhat disgusted.
And as for height, the majority of dudes at my elementary and high school were 5’7/5’8 so thats what im used to. I can only recall a few 6 foot with the tallest 3 being 6’3/6’4/6’5. And two of them were brozoned. Thats too tall for me. My crushes were 5’7. My exes were 5’7-6’2 with the shortest being 5’6 (something that slick was a turnoff but he was just so cute). When i got to college, majority of dudes were like 6’4-6’7 due to basketball. That was some scary shit. But my crushes still were mainly 5’8. Short to me for a guy is 5’5 and under 🤷♀️
So i’ll date anyone 5’7-6’2 with rare exceptions for 5’6 and 6’3. Nothing shorter, nothing taller
Nope, guys can go and also be picky... or what I call having standards and personal preferences... I wish guys would have standards like some few men have tho cause sometimes it feels like guys would take anything that even looks at them, have legs and a whole (if you know what I mean) tbh... I appreciate men with standards.
So is height an important standard or a successful long term relationship?
I see height as a preference. I would like to have a man that is taller than me but I wouldn't reject someone for not being the "perfect" height lol
That always makes me wonder... women (however many there are) who are picky with height and make it public may be doing so in terms of vengeance, and not because they're actually attracted to height.
Also, I also think that those types of women lack confidence and care more than men regarding how the couple is perceived in public.
Because I think women are more insecure than men, they care more about their partner being significantly taller than they are. Moreso than vice versa. I think they care more about seeming "feminine" (smaller) in public than men care about seeming more "masculine" (bigger) in public.
*Notice I placed "masculine" and "feminine" in quotations. That is because I think society has a false idea of what it means to be feminine. Especially masculine. "Masculinity" is not about lack of size. It's about looking like a male, boyish or manly.
@Asad1ONE1 Women care more about what other people think. They want a partner to make their friends jealous and who will look good for the gram.
Not necessarily. My frustration was often that women always lied about the importance of things like height, weight, attractiveness, and other things. I was around before the internet and women always said aloud, “Looks don’t matter!”. It was a universal calling song of mateable women.
Of course it is a lie and it always has been. Boys these days whine, but they have it easy by comparison. At least women are being honest about they’re preferences now. However few and far between women who value personality and charm over physical traits might be, at least you can avoid the riff raff more effectively these days! Ell oh ell!
Absolutely when it comes to body height, whether a guy owns a property or rents and does he earn 100K a year etc.
C'mon ladies 🚺... enough with the unrealistic expectations. You are killing the dating scene by thinking you can get the "Chad's" as many of you think you're a solid 10 when you are not!! By Chad's I mean the players who do not want to commit.
The decent men out there are the one's who are bypassed because of this so no wonder many of us have totally checked out.
Food for thought 🤔
Bruh men are way more picky than women. You have to be thick, but not fat. Skinny but not anorexic. Use makeup but not too much. I could go on forever. I'm not picky about height. Men are usually insecure about it and that's unattractive. If you're a short king, pull it off.
Many short kings do pull it off. Women all over the dating apps want a man who is a protector, a provider, a man who is romantic, a man who they can have a family with and at the end of all that if they say, "if you aren't six foot tall then keep moving" Men aren't the ones who are insecure it's the women thinking majority of men are over 6 feet.
I prefer men taller than I am. That’s not to say they have to be 6 feet tall, but I am 5’8” and if I wear heels, much taller. And the only reason why I have that preference is because I don’t wanna feel like a giant next to somebody. On the other hand, I was married to a guy shorter than me (now Ex) by 2 inches. So it wasn’t a dealbreaker and I just didn’t wear heels for years. Now that I’m back in the dating scene, I do intentionally look for guys taller than me but if I happen to like someone who is my height or shorter, it’s all good. I just don’t want to feel like a Sasquatch next to a man. 😉
Several curious thoughts come to mind:
1. If women want to be shorter than their male partners, why wear elevated heels?
2. If you don't want to feel like sasquatch, might I suggest depilatory crea... oh you must mean...
3. Apparently for "mini-ex" it was a dealbreaker :)
@HighlyQuestionable 1) I don’t wear heels if the guy is my height or shorter…but I LIKE wearing them. 2) nope - it’s bare 3) that wasn’t the reason we broke up.
Seriously, though, I understand high heels are painful and injurious. Thats not good.
Maybe not directly just height. But yes, I think that most women today simply do not know what constitutes a quality man as many of them have had no good male role models in thier life. So they fall back on thier biology which is almost always a bad plan. So many have to learn the hard way. Some women learn fast, some learn slow, and some... simply never learn.
It's never about just height.
Tell me about it. I'm 6'5". 😂
Yeah I am 5'7 ... that's tall dude.
There is realistic expectations and there is fantasy.
For example, women expect their dream man to be over 6 feet and makes 150k a year. It's borderline fantasy because there would be only a fraction of available men within that pool. You could be looking at 1 men for every 50 women.
On the other hand, every man would, at some point, dreamed of their smoking hot fantasy girl. But they are all grounded enough to know to hope for girls within their own league even if they would always randomly taking shots just in case a hot girl is actually interested.
I think it's hard to have any standards. They're all picky to someone, looks and personality based. I think when most people look to date others, preferences and standards can be ruthless. But if you fall in love with someone, things like height stop mattering. That's what lots of people don't understand. The 'picky' things aren't actually that important. You just think they are, until you meet the right kind of person for you.
It's kind of weird that some women's ideal height comes out to 6 feet exactly and not some other number but realistically most wouldn't even be able to tell if a guy is 6 feet and not more like 5'11 or something. I think it's just because 6ft is a nice round number and theirs a term for this, but I forgot what it was called. I also don't have an issue with having a preference for height as most women aren't as obsessed with it in my experience.
There's nothing wrong about having standards for who you wanna be with but at least be practical, reasonable and realistic with them.
Otherwise your just gonna set yourself up for constant disappointment and or die alone or be with someone you don't wanna be with because you don't wanna be alone.
Most women don't care about height. That is another delusion men invented to help them to come to terms with their failures with women.
I cannot disagree.
@Asad1ONE1 LOL
They’re WOMEN, they deserve to have what they want. They’re not just gonna let any simpleton in. Women will the one affected by pregnancy and child-birth, NOT YOU.
This has been the case for millennia. Only now the p0rn-addicts want to complain.
' You ' not getting the women you want, is YOUR FAULT.
Im not repeating this sh-T again. The female lioness 'even' .. she finds a suitable partner with a huge mane to mate with. This is biology. You not having a HUGE mane 🦁 is nobody’s fault but yours. You blaming women as a whole shows exactly what the problem is, and that’s men like 'YOU'. Watch the following video.
https://www.youtube.com/embed/L6Ec7SYo7_kThe rule is simple. If a guy is 179,99 cm and below he is undateable. It's not being picky and it's nothing personal kiddo, go and play with someone else. lol
And if women aren't 110 pounds they too are undateable. That is our rule.
@Justforthelols2 You're 350 pounds I would worry about yourself.
Nah men are just as picky if not more about pointless things like weight/body shape on a woman
Men are picky but that's not the question.
Yeah who knows really lol
People who are picky, should be picky about things that can change. Pubic hair (so don't get laser removed), weight, hair color. All those things aren't that expensive or hard to change. Height and dick size can't. Technically boob size can, but it requires surgery. So if you are picky based on things that can't change, that's a problem
I don't understand why men get so pressed about that. A lot of women don't care about height. Just date them.
Trust me I know because I have dated them.
Funny. The guys vote yes, we vote no. If you go after the girl who finds height important, doesn't that mean she isn't right for you anyway even if you have the height?
Yes exactly. Can't tell you how many tall guys find it unactractive to hear a woman say all the things she want's in a man but throw all those out the window if he is under 6 foot. lol
In their place I would feel lucky that I dodged a bullet.
You know who goes around claiming women are obsessed with height? Men who are insecure about their height.
Well that is true. I tell guys this all the time.
I think girls rejected me for my height. My height is 5 ft 7 inches but my profile looks good on all other parameters. I am more successful than taller men. I still don't understand, my height is good or bad. Are they jealous of my success? I am a good looking guy, I have done my MBA with distinction. I have worked in an IT sector for few years. My friends said that, "you are really a sharp man, you can make more money". So I decided to quit my job and I became a full time share trader. I bought a house and a car on my own easily ( no loans). For which, I got pats on my back from my friends, relatives, neighbors and even my foes appreciated my work. I am not lucky in love though. Most of my friends are married and have kids. Girls just rejected me without even understanding the real me. I already have what I wanted but my life is incomplete without a wonderful companion. Where is my soulmate❤️ ?
I'm 5'7 and been rejected thousands of times. I have never once said it was my height because I believe no matter what was behind the rejection that I will not or should not be everyone's cup of tea and it's arrogant to think I should be. I think for many of us who have challenges it's a numbers game. You need to take twice the amount of at bats as most do. Maybe 10x more, either way you need to give more people a chance to like you then most.
I agree, but I am disappointed with the rejections. I can't focus on my career if I keep looking for true love. I want to start a family, the clock is ticking.
*Some girls said they want a guy with 9 to 5 good permanent job. They don't trust stock market. I can make enough money to feed ourselves.
You can be disappointed that is fine but think of rejection this way. I myself would rather be rejected and understood then ambiguous in my actions. People feel the sting of rejection due to the ambiguity of showing their intentions.
The sting of rejection comes from not giving it your all. Wondering if you should of said this or done that. If you just go in and put it all on the line and still get rejected then so be it. Because in the end you will never be everyone's cup of tea but at least they had the chance to make a good decision and reject you because they were confused about what you are about.
'because they were not confused'
I understand, rejections are part of my life. I am worried that I am going to remain single all my life. I will be left alone in the end.
Stop doing that. You get what you put out into the universe. Instead say everyday today is the day I might meet someone.
😊😃☺️I am glad you said that. Thanks for giving me hope! Yes, today I might meet someone special.
The "Female Delusion Calculator" is a term sometimes used in online discussions, typically within dating and relationship contexts. It refers to a concept or tool that supposedly calculates how "realistic" a woman's dating standards are by comparing her expectations with actual statistics on traits like income, height, or other demographics of men in a specific region. Often rooted in social media debates about dating preferences, these calculators can be controversial. Critics argue that such tools oversimplify complex personal preferences and reinforce negative stereotypes, while others claim they highlight mismatches in dating expectations and realities.
The picky is often an alpha widow with higher standards than she is actually able to bag and marry.
Once they get to see ole pair-ee (Paris), they don't want to go back to the sticks and have to consider an okie from the schokie. Especially a short, bald and poor one to groom up.
I few years ago while waiting in a doctors lounge I made the mistake of pickup up one of those woman gossip mags.
A total sack of shit it was, but what I found funny was that there was an article linking guys height with penis sizes, and their ability to earn.
If this is the sort bullshit, women are telling each other then no wonder they are struggling!
People have the right to have whatever standards they want to.
True. If a guy doesn't want a woman who is fat is that okay?
Absolutely, but that doesn’t mean he should be a ass about it, a bigot, or harass people if they are fat. Lol if you don’t like want to be with a fat person the don’t.
No no no guys aren't asses about it. They simply state they want someone who isn't fat and YOU all go crazy and call him an ass for even saying it. stop the cap
Lol i didn’t say all them were asses, just saying that they shouldn’t be. If they aren’t, then there isn’t a problem if you aren’t being a dick.
Empathy shouldn’t be difficult
That's fair that they are picky about Height, But they are too picky about a Guys low Confidence.
They think Guys with higher Confidence seem to be less likely to Cheat or break their heart when it is pretty much the opposite so they are doing it to themselves.
Let me ask you a question Coach. Would you date a fat chick?
It's okay to have standards.
Agree. If a woman list's a bunch of qualities they want in a man but at the end of that list but if you aren't over 6 foot go pound sand then that is just them having a preference. If we list a bunch of stuff but at the end say but you have to weight 115 pounds we are then A holes and unrealistic. lol
Women destroy their chances of a good relationship by being picky about things that really don't matter.
Its' true. I have seen so many profiles saying they want a good man, a protector, a provider, someone who is faithful, who is godly and at the end if you aren't over 6 feet keep moving. Shouldn't it be if you aren't the things above keep moving? Not height. 100 percent.
Women always make things a lot more restrictive than they need to be. That way, they can pretend that they're being really selective although in Truth they aren't. The only things they're being selective about are things that nobody can really control effectively like height or eye color.
I think women tend to be picky about things that ultimately have no effect on the relationship.
Yeah, a lot of them are like that in some way. They are also hypocritical about it because they expect guys to prefer a certain look.
Certainly not all of them do so, but a sizeable amount of them that makes the trend noticeable.
Im a guy, and I was pretty picky when it came to my dating life. I dont think this is a female centric phenomenon
Oh - I am quite tall (6 foot1 or so) and regularly find relatively short girls sexy/adorably cute. Entirely hoping the one who calls herself Darcy won't mind my height (or higher body mass than hers - it isn't meant to intimidate her - as long as she uses my body for herself by being physical with me/to kiss and embrace and hold me)
Height is so important to women and they just can't admit it.
They call it a preference but lets be real it's a non negotiable for many.
m D.- never been that insecure to feel inadequate about sizes
Ill say this every person has a preference. Having a preference doesn't mean your picky. If your being picky I will say your also being unrealistic and indecisive of what you want.
If you're picky you're actually DECISIVE and know what you want
The one thing I have noticed in 43 years being alone is that there it too much emphasis placed on things that are not necessary for love. I know that whatever women want I do not have it. I do my best to walk in life being accepting of this. All I have is love and respect and sadly that doesn't seem to be very valuable to most these days.
Lol skewed poll. More guys voting A and more Girls voting B. ... It's definitely a cycle..
Not necessarily. If she desires a man to be 6ft tall but finds a man that is 5'9 and she rejects him just because of 3 inches difference then that's stupid on her part.
I think people should have what they want in a partner, even physically. But of course, that person does have to actually exist for that to happen.
I'm a legit short ass most women I know are as tall or taller than me and I've never had an issue, I think it mainly comes down to how you act around women and the way you treat them.
Where’s the option for them being picky about the right things? Lol. I’m picky, I pick a guy whose Christian, moral, hardworking; and holds the same values as me… it’s just my luck that he’s also 6’6 😉 lol for real though I’ve pursued guys who are 5’4…. Height really isn’t as big of a deal as most guys think it is.
People are usually picky about the wrong thing. short guys need to get over it. We all have reasons why we aren’t as attractive as we could be
Went undecided. I do see a lot or height requirements from chicks. But I still think “meeting the right person” is subconscious or neurological. If they can dissuade themselves of their height demands.
The main thing is that everyone has their own preferences and that is totally fine
Most people are picky. Nothing wrong with that, but some are so picky that they limit themselves out of any realistic chance of finding someone.
Women are as shallow as a spoon.
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This delusion calculator will show you how insanely ridiculous women are.
I can't blame a woman for rejecting a guy cause of his height. Same with a guy rejecting a women for being too short/tall.
That's because they aren't dealing with humans, but with photos.
Well, they certainly like my Height
Are you happy about that?
Anything else you want her to like about you besides height? What is the most important quality you want a woman to see in YOU.
Well that takes time. How would you feel if she just dated you because you were tall?
Women aren’t picky about character trait’s because they don’t really care to get to know a guy
Ahhh its about to be world war 3 in the comments section by women regarding this question lol.
Omfg not this dumb fucking height question for the 18 billionth time jesus fucking christ. If i see one more god damn height question I'm going to scream
I don't think women know what they want except just more.
The women are dwarfs.
Of course but hey let them complain and cry later on about being single
Any guy under 5"9 don't deserve a girlfriend
Well I guess you'll be single for the rest of your life.
Only if I was 5"7🤐
You're under 5'9 so sorry
im 6"3
LOL you wish
im actually am 6"3 why would I lie
@Justforthelols2 how do you know what he looks like?
it happens all the time that's why. Thanks for the comments though.
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