I have a really good boyfriend in the sense that he treats me well and stuff like that. He’s not perfect but neither am I. He always buys me stuff even when I don’t ask him to.
The other day he showed up to my house with cookies because he said he wanted to bake them for me which was rlly nice and he had to be somewhere else so I appreciated it.
On Christmas or my birthday or valentines he’ll give me rlly nice gifts like expensive perfume and purses but I give him nice stuff too like jewelry.
Whenever we go out he’ll always pay and he’s shown up on my doorstep before and surprised me with flowers and cookies and stuff.
I really do appreciate it and I’m super grateful and always say thankful but I think he holds it over my head sometimes. I grew up spoiled and I have no problem getting things from my dad but I think mt boyfriend thinks I’m taking advantage of him when he offers to do everything.
Also I took him on a family vacation with my family last week and he didn’t have to buy anything. I still haven’t met his family after almost 2 years. I drive on all of our dates. Frequently he’ll be like “I buy you food and really nice things” which is so annoying because it’s like he holds it against me. For example the other day we went out and he bought me lunch and I took home leftovers and he said “I hope you finished that food because money doesn’t grow on trees” and he was serious lol.
Also I haven’t met his parents and we’ve been dating almost 2 years. I’ve met his mom because she used to work with us but that’s it. He’ll always claim that he “planned” something or for me to meet them and then the day that I’ll be supposed to meet them flies by and he doesn’t say anything.
I am ambitious and a college student and my family likes him but thinks I can do better. Is it weird that I haven’t met his parents? Also he gets freaked out when I talk about getting married one day and doesn’t wanna talk about it even though I never mentioned marrying him.
The other day he showed up to my house with cookies because he said he wanted to bake them for me which was rlly nice and he had to be somewhere else so I appreciated it.
On Christmas or my birthday or valentines he’ll give me rlly nice gifts like expensive perfume and purses but I give him nice stuff too like jewelry.
Whenever we go out he’ll always pay and he’s shown up on my doorstep before and surprised me with flowers and cookies and stuff.
I really do appreciate it and I’m super grateful and always say thankful but I think he holds it over my head sometimes. I grew up spoiled and I have no problem getting things from my dad but I think mt boyfriend thinks I’m taking advantage of him when he offers to do everything.
Also I took him on a family vacation with my family last week and he didn’t have to buy anything. I still haven’t met his family after almost 2 years. I drive on all of our dates. Frequently he’ll be like “I buy you food and really nice things” which is so annoying because it’s like he holds it against me. For example the other day we went out and he bought me lunch and I took home leftovers and he said “I hope you finished that food because money doesn’t grow on trees” and he was serious lol.
Also I haven’t met his parents and we’ve been dating almost 2 years. I’ve met his mom because she used to work with us but that’s it. He’ll always claim that he “planned” something or for me to meet them and then the day that I’ll be supposed to meet them flies by and he doesn’t say anything.
I am ambitious and a college student and my family likes him but thinks I can do better. Is it weird that I haven’t met his parents? Also he gets freaked out when I talk about getting married one day and doesn’t wanna talk about it even though I never mentioned marrying him.
