Actually, I’m not talking about actually DATING anyone during teenhood—I’m talking about just being liked by the opposite sex when you’re in high school and/or junior high. Boys didn’t like me during those years, and after I got out of high school I remained frustrated about it. But then somewhat recently someone told me that normally when people get out of high school they “move on from ‘whether or not they were liked by the opposite sex in high school / junior high’, because that’s basically ‘kiddie’ stuff to them at that point”. But as you can probably tell by now, I DIDN’T move on from that when I got out of high school—but I don’t know anyone ELSE who didn’t. So HOW COME I don’t know anyone else who didn’t move on from that after high school?
How come I don’t know anyone else who didn’t “move on” from “teen dating” like I didn’t?
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You have bought in on the idea that Success is gaged by Beauty, Boys, and Bed. People who take your course do so at the cost of growth and development. This is odd for a 30 year old
“This is odd for a 30 year old.” Actually, I’m over it. The situation now is that it caused problems for me that I don’t see other people having. So now I’m wondering why I don’t know anyone else who didn’t “move on” from that thing after high school like I didn’t.
Okay, I know no one "stuck" as you described and i have lived in Asia too...
What does living in Asia have to do with it?
I had a friend who also stayed stucked in those things, so you aren't that alone with this but yeah I don't think it's a good thing... she became pretty bitter but also she is naturally more a pessimistic person overall.
Honestly it doesn't matter what happened in high school, it's sooo in the past and more important is how you re doing now.
It's better to life in the present and not in the past...