Recently I've been going to the gym with my best friend which is a guy and his girlfriend to focus on myself and work out, but I havnt told my boyfriend that I go to the gym, only bc I feel that I need time without him sometimes but also him also and I don't want to ask bc I feel like he's gunna feel obligated to go with me everytime he doesn't want to, and a side note I go with my bestfriend which is a guy and also a brother to me only bc there creepy people at the gym and also his girlfriend bc I love her and i have a girl to talk to, but is it wrong to not tell my boyfriend I'm going, but I also am ashamed of telling him bc he would think I want attention from males but in reality I'm trying to make our relationship stronger but also work on my mental health/ and what I mean by making our relationship stronger is I've been going through low self esteem and confidence and it's been taking a toll on our relationship.
Is it wrong of me?
