Is it wrong of me?

[Beccaasaar]

Recently I've been going to the gym with my best friend which is a guy and his girlfriend to focus on myself and work out, but I havnt told my boyfriend that I go to the gym, only bc I feel that I need time without him sometimes but also him also and I don't want to ask bc I feel like he's gunna feel obligated to go with me everytime he doesn't want to, and a side note I go with my bestfriend which is a guy and also a brother to me only bc there creepy people at the gym and also his girlfriend bc I love her and i have a girl to talk to, but is it wrong to not tell my boyfriend I'm going, but I also am ashamed of telling him bc he would think I want attention from males but in reality I'm trying to make our relationship stronger but also work on my mental health/ and what I mean by making our relationship stronger is I've been going through low self esteem and confidence and it's been taking a toll on our relationship.

[Mansearching]

You shouldn't have to tell him anything. If he asks where you going, then tell him you're going to the gym with blank and blank. If he gets upset then that's his problem not yours. Be honest if he asks. If your not then he will think your stepping out on him. Or if he's home and you're leaving for the gym, then say, I'm going to the gym be back later.

Honesty is best in any relationship

[Guy13]

I hear you. I’m even worse though. I go with no one. I don’t want anyone that I know around me. Mental health time is important so that I show up well in the rest of life.

[boggboss]

If u feel like u are hiding it then yes its wrong would it be a issue if it just came up that your boyfriend was going gym with a female friend and he didn't tell u

[Makeushiver]

I think you would be better off soliciting input in the matter of ethics to a tavern at closing time instead of GaG

[pethouse]

It’s gonna cause suspicion when he finds out js

[Randalama]

Dunno but that's one fantastic run on sentence.

[Beccaasaar]

Thanks hahaha

[KrakenAttackin]

Someone is looking for strange.

[Beccaasaar]

Thanks