Before deciding whether to break up with your long distance boyfriend, it's important to try and get in touch with him to make sure he is safe and okay. If he has been missing for a significant amount of time, you might want to consider contacting his family or local authorities to check on his whereabouts.
Assuming he is safe and just not responding to your messages, it's important to have an honest conversation with him when he does reach back to understand what happened and express your concerns. It's possible that he had a lapse in judgment and got carried away with drinking, but it's important to establish boundaries and communicate your expectations for the relationship moving forward.
Breaking up with someone should not be a hasty decision made based on one incident, especially if you had a strong and positive relationship before. However, if this type of behavior is a pattern and goes against your values and what you want in a relationship, then it might be time to reevaluate the relationship and consider ending it. Ultimately, the decision to break up or continue the relationship should be based on your values, needs, and priorities.
Ummmmmm. He's long distance? Then how is he MIA? He's been gone for a little over a day. That is NOT MIA particularly after a Saturday night of drinking.
As to break up with him... huh? You posted this on Monday morning. 36 hours and you're going to break up with him because you haven't heard from him -- in a long distance relationship. That doesn't' seem a little extreme to you?
Well, if it was me, and things were good otherwise, I wouldn't assume the worst and breakup as my first course of action. First, I'd reach out to any mutual contacts and make sure nothing happened or a well-being check.
It's Monday. You should check with him because something probably happened. I don't see this a reason to break up with someone.
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This is why I had reservations on long distance relationships. You don't hear from them and expect the worst. If it's as good as you say it was, with just this one thing, where you haven't heard from him in a while, try to contact him later and see if you can get in touch with him. If not hearing from someone for a few days makes you uneasy, then you might not be having it as good as you claim.
I've never had a ldr. So its hard to say. He might be in jail or hospital. So gonna have to wait, i guess.
WTF? He might be in a hospital or something. Or even maybe dead. What's with the girls these days? Find out what happened first. Jesus Christ!
Unless he was in the hospital, then yeah, probably. Dude ain't really in the relationship.
Somebody got laid…
Could you be more specific than drugs? Very different reactions
u It’s been over 48 hours you better call the family
If you don't hear from him after 48 hours, ask the police to do a welfare check.
Did you sex it up? If so he could be a hit it and quit it guy.
Sure. You don’t seem to trust him so end it
Sounds like it
Do what you feel I say…
just break up with him
Go to the police. Don't you care about him?
I'll never understand LDR
he might just be lost
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