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Rejection hurts. Hurt is a consequence. So, yeah, rejection hurts. Sometimes earned. Sometimes that's just the way it is.
My point is that every guy can't say yes to every girl and every girl can't say yes to every guy. That just doesn't work.
I really do not personally feel it, but my approach is different from most guys I know. If I see a girl who catches my fancy and she seems single, I cold approach. If I get shot down, not a big deal because there is another girl as interesting at the next table, or around the next corner. But I see your point. A guy might invest a lot of time and energy into one specific lady and then get shot down. That does have consequences.
Nobody is obligated to say yes to every ugly person who asks them out lol.
Of course rejection hurts. But you gotta learn how to properly deal with your emotions. There’s no reason to get mad or and violent towards a woman just because she said no to you. You’re making it sound like that’s a valid excuse to
Yes, it does. That's why I don't accept it.
You don't have to accept rejection.
That's the problem; most people just accept it.
And if you choose to accept it, you certainly don't have to accept that it was because you're unworthy of them.
Rejection is part of life. Often incels don't look at why they are rejected and attempt to do something about it. I was rejected by the hottest girl in school way before she was even a cheerleader/athlete/prom queen/, home coming Queen, model etc. We grew up together and she thought she could do better, she couldn't.
Yeah and the cruel State of affairs as to how it's always been is that women will never have to deal with close to the amount of rejection that men have to deal with, and it's a fact that too much rejection can take a toll on one's psyche and mental and emotional health, it's possible that if women had to deal with as much rejection as men did, it's possible there might have been already a woman that has committed violence or a massacre due to being angry and upset to over rejection from men but since the State of affairs dictate that women don't have to stick their neck out like men do is why that hasn't happened yet
Rejection has consequences, of course.
But rejection has consequences for everyone, male or female.
Females don’t experience rejection the same way as males though; not generally.
Everyone wants to experience love. It’s our own expectations that get in the way. Expectation is the mother of resentment.
Examine your resentment and discover the expectations that created it. Work way through you own self worth from there. If i can do it, anyone can.
Um…? Nope. You cannot blame this on women. Bad attitudes, “character flaws” (I can only imagine what is covered under that umbrella), and incipient rage have consequences. Of course, women don’t want to date you if you are a bubbling cauldron of rage just beneath the surface.
Haha so you're basically saying: " hey ladies, im warning you that you will duffer dire consequences if you all continue to reject me. So you better go out on a date with me before I murder you all"
Sounds so pathetic. Im gonna tell you that Saying such a thing will not make women date you. It just makes you look like a angry lunatic mass shooter
Actually this is true.
@es20490446e
Go ahead shoot up some girls. I can garuantee nobody would ever want to date you again for the rest of their lives
Maybe you understood my comment upside down.
only those who feel entitled without being worthy... will feel rejected to the point of becoming an incel
blaming women as superficial is just another excuse to deny the troublesome lack of self-esteem
I don't care what the incels say. They are always whining. They said I desired a man that only a VS model could attract. The interesting thing is that man messaged me something and made my whole life golden 😍❤. I also never wanted to look like a skeleton. If my favourite man thinks I'm worthy of his kind words then I don't need anyone else's approval.
I haven't been angry at rejection. It's important to know what you want. I wasn't what anyone wanted for a very long time. I was disappointed and never felt like it'll ever happen. If the opportunity arises where I can go out and potentially have a relationship, I'm going to try best.
I believe rejection only has consequences for the person that is being rejected. The only thing for the other person is not getting the experience of the person they reject it and you can always go back and ask or try but it happens to everybody
Women shouldn’t be obligated to date someone they aren’t attracted to so that guy doesn’t turn into an incel. Honestly the only times I’ve seen dudes get repeatedly rejected is when they go out of their way to only approach supermodel women. If a guy isn’t conveniently attractive and he only tries to date super good looking women and keeps getting rejected then that’s on him
Yes the consequence that you reject that person and any relationship of any kind. It's no reason to go all bonkers. That just a confirmation that they made the right choice, and you are incapable of being in a relationship.
I always used to joke about how I was good at handling rejection because I had a lot of practice. The truth is, it still hurt.
Yes but the truth is woman and men want both good looks and personality if you don't have both I feel like your more likely to get rejected harsh truth
Only reason women get mad they don't think a guy is attractive... reject on looks alone. That isn't right.
This is a very small part of a larger conversation. I find that most women find most men unattractive in some way or form and I think a large part is because women have socioeconomically surpassed men so I think we have to catch men up.
Humans are social animals. Rejection leads to exclusion. Exclusion leads to darkness. Darkness can lead anywhere.
@es20490446e. HAHAHA!😝
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