Guys, what would go through your mind if a girl 30 years younger than you wanted to go out with you?

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Would you be weirded out? Disgusted? Suspicious? Or would you actually not blink an eye and just start contemplating whether you are attracted to her and want to go out with her or not?

OfMiceandMen · Accepted Answer

If it were me, it would likely catch me by surprise (turn a bright shade of red) and be looking for the punch-line? However, if she was serious, I may consider it. As long as she was okay with just being friends at first and working on that part of the relationship.

In addition, I wouldn't want her wasting a lot of time on me, after all she would be much younger and I would be concerned she isn't doing things she wants/needs to at her age. I would not want to be holding her back in any way and regret spending time with me.

That being said, as long as the two of them get along and were happy, who cares what other people think. Life is too short to keep trying different relationships and not get anywhere, so if something real can evolve from two people with that age difference, I say let them try.

CoffeeKiller · Accepted Answer

Well, she wouldn't have born since I am under 30. But i get it if i was 50 and she was 20. What would go on in my mind is that is she a gold digger? What she sees in me that she can't see in other 20 year olds? Or is she joking? She has a dare to go out with oldest guy she can see in the club? Maybe its a short term attraction which will wane away soon. What would her parents think? What if I say yes and she laughs and says you wish old man or something of that sort?

Basically everything negative since its rare to fall in love with a 30 year older guy than you especially for girls who are having variety of options to choose from.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Is this REALLY just a hpothetical question or is there an older guy who has gained your attention?

Avicenna · Answer

I‘m thinking she wants a sugar daddy unless she shows otherwise. But I sometimes date women that age.

TheorionMage · Answer

I will be 72 this October, so per YOUR scenario she'd be 40-ish. I'm still somewhat 'spritely' but maturity offers an unhurried foreplay approach... wherein the journey is AT LEAST as 'pleasurable' as its conclusion and ENOUGH life experience to make it WORTH the journey!

One of my most cherished memories is when the seven yr old daughter of a close friend sweetly asked her mother if my 32 yr old self could "lay down and take a nap with her'. Lest you think she was SO naieve as to not understand her 'euphomism'. When her mother said: 'No'... the little girl then asked, if her mother could 'take a nap' with me. Left to their OWN natural inclinations, even pre-teen children actively seek tactile physical stimulation pleasuring cuddling borne from those with greater life experience.

Human animals learn but one of two ways: the immediacy of firsthand life experience or by visual or aural observation story-recounting which spurs their imaginative fantasies. Such are the roots of concupscient purient voyeurism of 'pornography' and Puritan-based society's stringent prohibitions of juvenile exposure to potentially-physical pleasuring~ "GOD forbid" that little ones cum and learn that physical intimacy CAN provide purposes that DO NOT a priori result in conception. That can be BOTH physically 'safe' and pleasuring. The Polynesian culture pre-missionary-conversion, celebrated their OWN version of 'first communion' of children typically at age seven. Read the documented sociological Huna studies of Maxwell Freedom Long among the Hawaiian geriatric generations: "The Secret Science Behind Miracles" ;)

nolabels · Answer

A few years ago, I was meeting professionally with a lovely young woman who was 36 years younger than myself.

I was undergoing a medical treatment a few times a week over several months.

She'd get me set up, then, as I was required to be monitored, we'd sit and talk.

I fell in love with her.

Love, not lust.

She indicated the same emotions. We were both already attached to others, so it wasn't to be for us.

If we both hadn't been attached already, I could have seen our relationship going somewhere.

It depends on who the person is, at any age.

SCARRED · Answer

hi

it would depend on lot's of things

i'm not a spring chicken now

I'm 65 and not in great shape, and not doing really lots of hiking beach trips. and would have to find someone with same likes and interests too. some one that i could love,

and trust and that my family would love too. have had a couple of relationships.

that did not workout rignt un-married no kids and i'm a dog uncle too.

no Golddiggers down to union members raised in a union family.

and like to vote the way i want too

clampfan101 · Answer

As long as nothing sexual comes up, I see no reason to freak out in the least. Plus she’d be less than 10 years old. It’s not uncommon for kids to have little crushes on adults. If a little girl actually asked me out, I’d say something like "No, thank you. I’m way too old for someone your age." It would be embarrassing, but cute.

StormChaser838 · Answer

that means she would be 13 years old, I mean that's not a question I can answer? No 13 year old child will ask a man of 43 to go out with her. Lets try 20 years. I always like to talk with my female companion, as a fellow person and if she is too small, even though she may be 18+ it may become a problem.

RavVid · Answer

I have to project into the future with an age gap that large! Minimum requirement at all times is that the girl is legal.

I don't think I would blink an eye on the fundamentals per se. Most likely I would think she needs some love and take a paternal attitude as though she was a daughter.

mgall · Answer

If she's a Western or American women, absolutely not, nor would I recommend them to any man except maybe guys like AOC"s sad little boyfriend. Otherwise no problem. Sorry to sound so down on them, I'm 65. I've seen way to much in my life to think otherwise.

NathanDavis · Answer

I'll get back to this question... in 30 or 40 years from now...

abc3643 · Answer

That would be nice, but I'd think she's a bit looney and need to get her vision tested. I also think she'd have a daddy fetish.

AdithyaR · Answer

Well considering my current age, this person wouldn't even exist.
But if suppose I'm 50 or 60 and a woman that young approached me I would definitely see red flags. My first thought would be why she isn't pursuing guys her own age and I'd be definitely creeped out.

Phoenix98 · Answer

I Wouldn’t pay it any heed since she’d be one years old but I’d be impressed that she could form complete sentences at such a young age.

Jerre · Answer

If she was attractive to me, I would definitely want to take her out. I have dated girls 18 and up. I may be 51, but age is just a number. I can give them a good as time as any20-30 year old could.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

My biggest concern is, is she another gold digger?

Anonymous · Answer

Obviously that isn't possible right now but if I was much older, the thought "she might just be using me for access to money" might cross my mind but I wouldn't assume that's the case. I'd be more optimistic but aware of the possibilities. I'm more accepting if large age gap relationships (both ways) than most people, so I'm not of the opinion it's wrong or always just one person using the other for money or something.

MrShaun · Answer

I can understand your attraction and, honestly wouldn't mind going out with you. My wife may not like it though.

ShiftingMonke · Answer

Definitely disgust, and I would avoid that person. Even if I was older, that age gap is gross.

Lliam · Answer

If I was single, I'd take her up on it. What the hell, why not? I believe in taking advantage of opportunities when they arise.

Anonymous · Answer

She's playing games. Young women do that with older men 😆😆😆 I never take advances by women under 30 seriously.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Most girls now days could be 30 years younger then me cause I just turned age 55 but it would be fine with me I like younger girls but legal age.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Very suspicious; she’d have to be really special to persuade me.

Charliefretz329 · Answer

At my age I would think it an immature crush cause she’d be 10. I’d put no serious thought into it cause she’d be a kid thinking like a kid. If 10 years down the road she was still infatuated with me and I was available I might be more interested

Angelo75 · Answer

I'd be very suspicious initially and try to find out honestly WHY she'd want that. I don't want to end up with a heartbreak.

Lynx122 · Answer

She would be turning 3 soon so I'd be like no drink your milk :D

HaveNoName · Answer

As long as she is WELL above my daughter's age, any such suggestion, only if I find her attractive, will be flattering. However, limits of a married man take over.

BuckD · Answer

I would keep my eye on my wallet, but take her up on her offer.

Wade12345 · Answer

I would need to explain to the 12 years old that I'm her father...

slatyb · Answer

I would be very flattered. I have rarely been hit on by considerably younger women.

loveslongnails · Answer

At my age, that would be silly. LOL Ask me again when I'm 55 and a 25 yr old wants to go out with me. I'll probably say "fuck yes!"

standardguy · Answer

well if I was the person who asked her to have a date it would be fine but if she would have asked me to date her I would think that she wants to exploit me financiarily or something worse.

exitseven · Answer

I guess I would be creeper out a little. I have a daughter older than that.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Weirded out is the wrong word... I just wouldn't be interested.

nudetru · Answer

ya 11 not for me but a 60 fucken right I'd get with 30. and woman at sixty can and do look great allover.. so if I was 30 sure.. ya sugar momma

LiamJHayden · Answer

Currently impossible, but if I were 60 and a 30 year old wanted to date me I'd be flattered and confused.

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

Hm first I would have to imagine to be like 50. Would be weird a bit and think immediately of her looking for a sugar daddy

Anonymous · Answer

The only thing keeping men from admitting that we all would date 16-20 year old females is angry, fat, middle-aged women who no one wants pushing social shame about it because no one wants their nasty ass.

Mayo503 · Answer

Suspicious…..  why on hell would a young woman want to do that for? The way of the world …? But for me it’s a no

kinggeorge007 · Answer

30 years is a bit big number. I would be suspicious.

DarkLegacy · Answer

I obviously would be if she was below 25 and would not think twice.

Guardian45 · Answer

I DON'T date women who are NOT legally adults. To be frank, I tend not to like women under 25-ish. After that it's a matter of compatibility.

nawtee_me · Answer

I don't see age as long as she is legal. I don't care if she is 45 years younger than me if we hit it off...

Anonymous · Answer

I have gone 25 years older so far but not 30.

lancecantee · Answer

... mmm maybe 15 at the most. Prefer less than 10.

NostalgiaSenpi · Answer

Considering, she'd only be two, it would probably just adorable. I'd laugh it off.

AimeeKyle · Answer

If I were single, I would go for it…. why not?

Likes2drive · Answer

Probably flattered but curious if she is serious

Sabretooth · Answer

Poor choice, on her part. She'll miss out on the important parts of a relationship. It would be very shallow and empty.

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

I’d be questioning my state of being and mind. I just became half of that

ThomasDavid1989 · Answer

My moms friend, is married to a guy 20 years older than her. He's on his last leg though

Tstrbrainer · Answer

That's not gonna happen for some time as they aren't born yet lol

CubaPirate · Answer

I'd be pleasantly surprised and quite flattered

Ohmyimgood29 · Answer

I would do it but when she sees I only have a 2 inch penis it would be over.

rickyjaramillo · Answer

Give her a little bit of fun phone and I see where it takes us

ImageNotUploaded · Answer

A girl 30 years younger then me not even born yet lol I'd definitely feel disturbed.

jjj101010 · Answer

Nope. I wouldn’t mind as long as she was old enough

SnowedIn · Answer

I'd be flattered.

JamesRandiDebates · Answer

I would be surprised that a 2 year old could talk.

BCA6010 · Answer

She'd have to be an infant, so no...

Adam1978 · Answer

I would ignore that kid.

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