What would you do if your boyfriend/girlfriend never wanted to take a photo with you?

[coachTanthony]

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For those who say good I hate photos are you not seeing it could be a red flag that they have someone else in their life? Or don't want to be seen with you on social media? God HELLLLLLO

[Bgurl2_0]

It all depends. Were they fine with taking photos before? Were they never fine with taking photos to begin with? Are there other signs I need to be watching out for? See, not every guy likes to take pictures and post them on social media. It’s actually healthy that they don’t because from what I’ve witnessed and went through; when you constantly post about your boyfriend/girlfriend, it leads to the relationship ending. I don’t know why it does, it just does. Tbh, I personally don’t care if my boyfriend doesn’t post about me or hands me gifts and stuff because I’d rather him show me affection through his actions physically than artificially if you get what I mean.

[Cynicaldreamer]

Sounds like we'd get along great!
No, I'm serious; I hate pictures, especially selfies and am very insecure about my looks. I get that some people don't like pictures or like posting them online-

As long as he spends time with me, I don't see the issue. Now if he's okay taking pictures but doesn't want me in said pictures with him, then we'd have an issue! Because I'd assume he's ashamed of me or how I look.

[Guy13]

Looking back now, when I realized what “no photos” was I then realized why the Netflix and Chill, never go out on dates, and even not on Valentines cause I good stood up because of his/her work, and all those Things add up…He/She made me feel so insecure and all I wanted was to be validated as his/hers not meant to be loved 😭 .

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[ShadezMcgee]

I mean, I would respect her wishes at the end of the day, but I find it odd that she wouldn't want to. Feel like not doing that would show that they don't view the relationship as something important or worth remembering

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

I’m that person, I hate the way I look in photos, unphotogenic here

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

To your update no because I never put my relationship online and neither did my husband… we weren’t into all that social media and I’m still not.

[coachTanthony]

Then this doesn't apply. It's that simple. There are always one off's in life I know.

[red324]

I'd be worried because then they show their friends and they put their two cents in based off of how I look. It's sad how easily swayed they can be. This happened to me once when I met this one girls friend who was like 13 years younger than her. I was pissed when she took the opinion of a 19 year old. really? It's like first off what's a girl that's 30 doing hanging out with a 19 year old anyways? She was trying to save her basically. One of her projects sort of.

[OlderAndWiser]

I would have very sharp suspicions of such a partner.

[AviatorTom]

I'd find a new girlfriend. She obviously doesn't respect me.

[DizzyDesii]

Im usually the one that never wants to take a photo. They often get one “couple’s” picture out of me the entire relationship. Not even exaggerating. I hate taking pics. If i HAVE to a take pic, i rather it be a selfie where i can control the camera and take 80 before keeping 1 or 2 and deleting the rest

[coachTanthony]

Seems like many people on GAG don't like taking photos lol Not sure what the correlation is maybe just a coinky dink.

[DizzyDesii]

I just dont feel photogenic. I’ll do a video or make a gif with them before i do a picture. But like i said when others take a pic, they keep the pic you hate most. When you take your own pic, you can take as many as you want and delete the majority until you find at least one good shot

[Anemone978]

Considering I only had one real boyfriend... I never had this problem he used to love taking pictures of me and us and usually I looked ugly as fuck and hated them.. but never had someone not let me take a photo of them... even my buddy JP let me take pictures with him when he had a girlfriend so seems strange to me.. if he isn't hiding something...

[Moist_Gums]

I'd be a little sad. I would understand if they felt they weren't photogenic. However, I want some pics just to personally have and keep track off throughout the years.

For holidays or special events at the very least. I personally regret now that I'm older that I didn't take as many pics growing up because of my insecurities

[Jdjfjcjj]

Never wanted to take a photo with you or never wanted to take a photo at all? One I can chalk up to the other person feeling non photogenic and accept, the other I would not, regardless if by doing so, it might hurt their brand. (Ex. Celebrity who following is made up primarily of single dudes)

[annabananna]

It depends on what I felt like the reason was. If I felt like it was because he didn’t want to be seen with a girl it would make me feel like he didn’t want to get serious but if it was because he felt unphotogenic I would be ok with it. If he posted pics with others and not me I would feel some kind of way.

[TacosRAwesome]

Depends on whether it's a general dislike for photos or I guess being embarrassed by me. I don't like taking photos and basically have to force myself to take pictures so someone like me and doesn't take my photos is different than someone who posts everyday and doesn't.

[sixsixsix]

I think I would like one good picture together lol I don't know my favorite picture I don't even like to look at because it's me and my ex and as much as I always lived the picture and even though I left her I am mad at her and kind of live her but I kind I hate her also

[Orion76]

Yes of course I understand and I hate pictures too but still feels like shit especially if they take pictures Occasionally I’m I not worthy of an an exception?

[OfMiceandMen]

Last time I look my ass was too big, so she and I would get along just fine if not fond of photos.

[nudetru]

Cause its likely you your self has got it covered.. n overstepping is not his style.. your near dayly image is likely stupendously well documented ... eye sight n memory not in any disarray.. probably rather puzzled as to why you"d Question his cogniton.. when despite dye and a ponny tale n lipstick its still you desguises n costumes.. never fooled me not once

[hotwheelz78]

Mine was that way for a long time, and it REALLY bothered me too... Come to find out she just had a home situation such that she had to hide me from everyone. Not that she has stood up for herself more, she's more inclined to have pics with me.. But yeah, I'd DEFINITELY ask why my partner doesn't want pics with me.. Is it that they don't want them with ME? Or just don't want their pics taken at all? But I'd feel very confused and disappointed...

[gopackers2002]

So I’d like 1 or 2 like a post online to make it official or something like that. But I don’t want my face like all over her social media because I don’t like pictures too much. If she didn’t take pictures of us or post anything I’d start getting suspicious and ask if she’s hiding a man or someone.

[CrimsonAngel09]

That's just fine with me, never been a fan of having my picture taken.

[SpanishRose]

I wouldn't care, some people don't like their picture taken so I guess it's up to the individual.

[Sparkie460]

I hate being in pictures anyway so it wouldn't bother me. I break mirrors just by looking at them. Can you imagine what would happen to the phone or camera if I looked at it

[NostalgiaSenpi]

I don't take pictures, so it would be fine.

[Nigjt]

If one of my Woman didn't want or would not take a photo with me that I say is a very very big red flag so I do agree with u 100 % an I'd break up with that Woman for real.
God Bless

[Anonymous]

I loath having my photo taken, I personally have never budged on the subject its a boundary for me and I am very consistent.

[Opinion Owner]

You updated your question so to add to my previous point they can call it whatever colored flag they please, I have never posted any photos of myself or allowed others to take or post pictures of me. I feel actions speak louder than words if I never have allowed for it or done so myself then there is an authenticity to my words/feelings towards the subject (I am not hiding them or my current relationship status).

[jamesgoldman]

Be happy I'm not exactly photogenic, think I've taken 3 photos of myself in 5 years

[Pacquet]

I wouldn’t mind. Honestly most of the couple photos on Instagram are insufferable, I much rather a candid moment captured by a third party. I’m not particularly photogenic so I could understand if she wasn’t either.

[Anonymous]

I’ve had two boyfriends in my life, long term. Both didn’t like a picture. Seems normal to me on that experience but over all it’s very strange and alarming

[Manuel2]

Asked who are they agraid off. They may have a pass that will shock you

[RavVid]

I am one of those people who dislikes having my photo taken and am not interested in social media.

[AdithyaR]

Awesome! I hate getting my pic taken too. The only time i click pics when I cook something cool and it looks great.
I hate actually being in a picture or taking pics of others.

[TheeTrybrid]

Criminal offensive side eyen👀, I'll automatically think that you're cheating cuz why not? U don't want not one single picture of us together? Absolutely not 😂 u will be updated to single effective immediately

[Crmolon]

I just broke up with a guy after a year and a half no pics. It did play into my decision making, amongst a number of other issues also.

[XHopelessRomanticX]

I would respect his wishes. I don’t like having my picture taken either.

[StormChaser838]

may be he is from the mob, and is scared the pic will get him wacked.

[BrickBiggems]

I would be concerned and question if they are being faithful in our relationship.

[Freyke]

I'll post a question "she doesn't want to take pictures, why?" Kidding. I'll ask her and have her take one anyway.

[magiusX26]

speaking as in this hypothetical, be a little concerned but not overly so, depending on how shy/camera shy she is/was.

[TrillXHippy]

1. She’s not gonna hold my face like that and that’s a promise 2. I don’t even like taking pictures of myself so there’s no way that she’ll ever get the chance

[Sam2021]

Red flaggg boi byeee 👋🏼

[coachTanthony]

I agree

[iron_ninjs]

I don't take photos selfies often, so there'd be no problem.

[helbigarthur]

I hate having my picture taken and I'm a photographer I'll take photos of you but won't of myself some guys are like that don't look to into it

[Anonymous]

I hate taking selfies pic unless it’s an even or smth

[art84]

I hate taking photos so would not bother me.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

I’d whip out some paper and pencils and get to drawing

[NathanDavis]

my ex didn't even have socials... perfect

[anantmann9057]

obvious choice would be asking her why, if answer will jot be satisfactory nice meeting you girl have a good life

[LovingJo]

Wonder why they're even with me in the first place

[Anonymous]

I’d feel sad. I like collecting memories. And keep it private

[ElGato31]

I would be the happiest.

[WowwGirl]

I'm guilty of that myself

[hismave]

That looks like a red flag man

[Walt832]

🤭🤭Screw that brujería 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.

[spartan55]

Be relieved.

[SolitarySolace]

What girlfriend? Relationships are bullshit

[coachTanthony]

Bullshit in what way? You can't get one? what?

[SolitarySolace]

Don’t want one. Women cheat constantly. They’re selfish. Careless. Constantly attention seeking. Everything is made to be about them and I’m fucking sick of it.

[coachTanthony]

Wow yes stay home bro lol

[SolitarySolace]

If only I had a stay at home job I would

[Agape93]

Fine by me

[dreamstar72]

Don’t really care I hate my photo being taken also

[xJayleenx]

I would feel bad

[msc545]

I would do nothing - that is their choice.

[MarkHrdman]

you're gay

[Cheerfull009]

Kick on his/her ass and quit

[misogynistic_pig]

Idgaf

[invalid1]

I will be sad

[Ms_Facesitter]

RECORD :)