That too. I mean. An example would be our next door neighbors. My wife and I have been friends with them for years but distanced ourselves from them after last year. They conned her mother out of the four bedroom house she still lived in after her husband died. Convinced her to sign over power of attorney to them and sold her house with the promise that they would convert their garage into a fully kitted out granny flat to meet some of her mobility issues. When the sale of the house went through they took the money and put her in a crooked home. Like who does that? Lovely woman too and when her husband died they were left money and her parents always helped them out financially.
Every guy knows this or should know this. If you waste one date on a free meal, it’s not the end of the world. I would give it a shot because sometimes the dates you don’t expect to go anywhere turn into long term relationships.
Is a free meal this important? Like you’re gonna get all dressed up hair make up the whole thing sit through dinner for a few hours talking to guy you’ve no interest in all for a free meal? What’s in the food that makes that worth it?
Got cha! I’m going through this right now I’m trying so hard to build up the courage to ask a girl to prom and I know she’s going to say yes a mutual friend her really good friend, already told me she’ll say yes if I ask, and I’m still scared and nervous to the point I can’t sleep at night. You girls have no clue how nerve wracking it is to ask a girl out. To say yes put him through that and just use it for a free meal is kinda cold 🥶.. but maybe if just given the chance maybe you can change her mind and get her interested
And women don't consider themselves privileged for being women 😂 instead they cry about not being equal to men. Yet they get special privileges all the time that men don't.
Exploitation of men by women are very common , either in form of meals , or help in house , studies. Men do have an intention , right , whether it's just sex or relationship but that's ambiguous. As a guy you don't know her intention but women are always clear about which men to use for free and which are to give everything for free.
I dated a girl that was a lush. She drank White Russians and they were expensive. It was a long time ago but I remember seeing a bar tab one night and almost pee my pants.
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i've bought girls free drinks before and i'd assume some were just using me and it didn't really bother me much to be honest , but most were pretty good looking too so at least i got to spend some time with them at the bar
I am not angry at the women. Just disappointed in my brothers. If that perfentage is true it's because there are men out there who fall for it and let these cheap women take their money.
It's just another reason to either go dutch on dates or do coffee dates or walks in the park. Obviously, you cannot trust a woman you don't know. She could just be after a free meal, and my time and money are worth more than that.
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I've been on dates that turned out to be foodie calls. Doesn't take long to realise, I just go cold, and finish the date as soon as I can
Did they order expensive meals?
No, I never bring a first date to an expensive restaurant. That's a more 2nd date kind of a thing, when we already have an interest on each other.
First date for me is drinks, pizza or italian (the latter only if I have hopes on the girl).
Unless I either know the girl or the chat on Tinder or whatever was really good and she sounds promising, then I go for something nicer.
I have never gone on a date just for the free meal. Usually I pay my own way. Always have always will.
I've offered to pay on a date and he's has refused. I don't like the guy to pay because I feel like he's expecting sexual favor in return
Plenty of women with boyfriend's or husbands go out to get a free meal and if they like him who knows.
Yikes
It's amazing what people will do if they think no one will find out.
Disgusting not amazing
That too. I mean. An example would be our next door neighbors. My wife and I have been friends with them for years but distanced ourselves from them after last year. They conned her mother out of the four bedroom house she still lived in after her husband died. Convinced her to sign over power of attorney to them and sold her house with the promise that they would convert their garage into a fully kitted out granny flat to meet some of her mobility issues. When the sale of the house went through they took the money and put her in a crooked home. Like who does that? Lovely woman too and when her husband died they were left money and her parents always helped them out financially.
Every guy knows this or should know this. If you waste one date on a free meal, it’s not the end of the world. I would give it a shot because sometimes the dates you don’t expect to go anywhere turn into long term relationships.
Even worse. Having a long term relationship with a foodie call.
@marish01 Oh, there’s a term for that kind of guy.
Is a free meal this important? Like you’re gonna get all dressed up hair make up the whole thing sit through dinner for a few hours talking to guy you’ve no interest in all for a free meal? What’s in the food that makes that worth it?
To such women it's an accomplishment.
Got cha! I’m going through this right now I’m trying so hard to build up the courage to ask a girl to prom and I know she’s going to say yes a mutual friend her really good friend, already told me she’ll say yes if I ask, and I’m still scared and nervous to the point I can’t sleep at night. You girls have no clue how nerve wracking it is to ask a girl out. To say yes put him through that and just use it for a free meal is kinda cold 🥶.. but maybe if just given the chance maybe you can change her mind and get her interested
@baseball_del_tuono just ask her. No fear dude. Look her in the eyes and ask her.
Foodie Calls are another reason to not date women.
MGTOW monk for 22 years.
And women don't consider themselves privileged for being women 😂 instead they cry about not being equal to men. Yet they get special privileges all the time that men don't.
Yes. Even if they earn more than the men they date.
Exploitation of men by women are very common , either in form of meals , or help in house , studies. Men do have an intention , right , whether it's just sex or relationship but that's ambiguous. As a guy you don't know her intention but women are always clear about which men to use for free and which are to give everything for free.
That’s sad..!
So men is a walking food pantry nowadays
We feel bad that women are viewed as sex objects now we also feel bad that men are viewed as free meal objects
I dated a girl that was a lush. She drank White Russians and they were expensive. It was a long time ago but I remember seeing a bar tab one night and almost pee my pants.
i've bought girls free drinks before and i'd assume some were just using me and it didn't really bother me much to be honest , but most were pretty good looking too so at least i got to spend some time with them at the bar
I am not angry at the women. Just disappointed in my brothers. If that perfentage is true it's because there are men out there who fall for it and let these cheap women take their money.
I've never done it. I see no problem with it though considering a much higher percentage of me men go on dates for cheap sex.
take the hoe to mcdonalds and get her the dollar menu
What if she is obese?
that's why they have chicken sandwiches and salads on the dollar menu which is what i gave a few fat chicks a couple of times when they were hungry
Lol did they not say their obesity was caused by hormones?
as much as i'd love for someone to spoil me, i pay for my own shit.
Long as she gives it up. Trade goods for services… it’s only fair
I’ve totally done this before. I get teasy/flirty, get asked out, eat, and then at least give the guy a goodnight kiss and take my leftovers with me.
It's just another reason to either go dutch on dates or do coffee dates or walks in the park. Obviously, you cannot trust a woman you don't know. She could just be after a free meal, and my time and money are worth more than that.
Hell no I would never go on a foodie date. Not gonna let some woman take advantage of me.