My boyfriend hasn't been responding to my messages and left me on read. He hasn't responded to my friend messages either. She texted him to ask was he okay and he didn't respond to her either. He hasn't talked to me in 2 days. Really 5 but he texted me a little on Sunday.
Boyfriend is MIA, should I keep texting?
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I don't see why you should keep texting. If he's not answering your last texts, or the ones sent by your friends... I don't see any real point to you texting more. If he didn't get the first ones... he won't get these either. But if he did get the first ones... why would more messages make him reply if he isn't already.
Obviously this is some bullshit. Obviously this is not ok for him to be doing. But I don't see any reason more texting on your part is called for. Wait and see whether this asshat decides to get back in touch with you at some point, or not. If he does. I'm sure curious what he's got to say for himself. Sorry this is happening to you. But I'd say the "ball is in his court." You've done all you can do. More texting won't matter (regardless of what's going on).
Why haven’t you called or just go to his house to check in? I don't know if his wellness comes into play, but if he’s seemingly fine like you see him online or whatever then I’d say he’s avoiding you. He knows of your friend as well so he isn’t responding to her either. Doesn’t sound like much of a boyfriend to me.
he stayed friends and communicated with her before i met him and when we broke up in the past and he still talked to her. He isn't online or on his socials but he is reading my text messages. I don't want to stalk him by going to his house and i dont want to call cause he's clearly reading my messages.
I feel like you’re approaching this as you would a guy you’re dating and not someone who is your boyfriend. Going to his house isn’t stalking, and the fact that you feel uncomfortable to do so just makes it seem even more like some dude you have a crush on. Even with calling him, why justify not doing that yet you’re ready and willing to keep texting? I don't know what the state of your relationship is but maybe it’s something that needs to be over. This is not normal couple behavior.
I would text him all the time and he would call me right away especially if there was an issue. He's been reading my messages which shows he sees im trying to contact him but is choosing to ignore me. I don't want to just pull up to his house to a guy who is choosing to ignore me. That'll make me look desperate.
It’s actually wouldn’t, you’re his girlfriend you have the right to stop by his house. What would make you look desperate is spamming him with texts on texts and he not respond to any of them. If you’re too prideful to call or stop by, then don’t do anything at all. Then when he finally gets around to calling you, unless there’s a verifiable justification for ignoring you for two days (which there’s probably not) then break up with him. This is too much headache to go through.