Guys, would you date and give a girl with 4 children a chance? (Page 3)
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Obviously not. I would steer well clear. I mean how may fathers do they have and why is she not with the father.
2 fathers. One in her early 20s when she was naive and twins with another with a narcissist who played her. Maybe I’ll just invest in some cats and call it a day. Dating is a gamble nowadays anyways.
No, I wouldn't. That's just too much. There would be very little time for us.
if i was still wiling to date, hell to. the naw. and if those children were by more than 1 father, even less of a chance.
not only is it a major turn off, its 4 or more huge red flags. sure plenty of us guys would have sex with you, next to none would take as a true monogamous girlfriend/wife. then there is your age working against you too. for many of us 30 is around our cut off point of maximum age, especially if we want to be a father, and that means biological father not just the guy paying for and raising children.
I wouldn't. Because it would be weird. She would be too mature for me. We are in different places in life. I am still a virgin.
Virgin at 36 years old?
Yes, ma'am.
Nope. No desire to raise someone else's kids.
A single mom to a guy is about as attractive as a homeless guy is to a man. Do you write a homeless guy off or give them a chance? Well expect the same from a guy towards you.
thanks for saying I’m equivalent to a homeless guy because I’m a single mom lol y’all sure know how to make a woman feel great when she’s been told multiple times that she will be alone because men can’t accept children that are not theirs. Understandable. So either stay alone with no companionship and if I do want to feel close to a man I have to open my legs or have companionship who is verbally abusive. I’m only good for a good tussle under the bedsheets or a verbal punching bag for a insecure man. men truly suck.
Did you even read what I wrote? I also said "do you write a homeless guy off or do you give them a chance"? It just means you have to work a little HARDER than your childless counterparts. If it make you feel any better this is kind of an epidemic with your gender anymore. But if you would just rather believe that "men just suck". Then I think we've found your problem.
This is an interesting question as I'm currently banging a 30 year old with 5 children. But what do you mean give her a chance of what?
i think she's expecting a real relationship up to marriage.
@magiusX26 What the advantage of a man taking on the responsibilityof 4 kids that aren't his?
Why would I want to spend my time raising another man's children in a relationship where I will always be a lower priority than your kids. There's no benefits for me.
Fuck no. Those kids are not my responsibility and i wouldn't just be dating a single mom of 4. Id be dating a single mom and helping her take care of her 4 kids. No single mothers please
Depends on how many sperm donors were involved and rather or not she was a widow.
Short answer. No chance