What are women's expectations of you the older you get? Do these things change depending on where you're at in life?

[poneglyphs]

Just wondering because this is probably the biggest issue with me when it comes to dating? Mostly because I don't have anything to my name besides my computer. 😕

I still don't own a car, drive, move out, have a good paying job and live independently.

[RealMarek]

If drug addicts who sit around playing video games and cheat on their girlfriends can get women (many such cases), you can too.

How about this: learn to build parts. There are online forums where you can learn to use equipment or you could take community college classes. Save up to get a 3d printer, a cnc machine, eventually a lathe. Or find an investor to help. $10-30k is enough to get started. Make parts that people need. You could make good money.

[RobT312]

The list gets longer as u get older especially if the goal is to have a family

[poneglyphs]

What do you mean by that?

[RobT312]

As you get older the expectations are higher ….. at 22 a woman expects u to have a good job so you can go on fun dates. By 28, she’d like to see u with a nice place to live, a car, more established, etc so when she does marry you she knows you can provide for kids too

[poneglyphs]

Oh, well I haven't really been doing anything like that at all 😕. So, will anyone date me if I don't hanw any of thoses things?

[RobT312]

I’m sure you can find a date, it just becomes a little more challenging

[poneglyphs]

Yeah, maybe, this is one of the reasons why I don't try and date because I feel like I have no material worth to anyone?

[RobT312]

Yes people have expectations in mind, but I wouldn’t worry about any of it. Go date

[poneglyphs]

I would if I could 😔

[RobT312]

Why can't u, it’s easy!

[poneglyphs]

Is it easy? I always had difficulty communicating with women and getting date's. That's why I stopped trying this year and hardly talk to anyone.

[RobT312]

Find a place where you can be comfortable talking and go for it.

[Anonymous]

I would expect a guy to have a good job, house and car by the time he is 25. That is more than enough time.

[poneglyphs]

Oh, really why do you think so?

[Anonymous]

Yeah you're going to need to up your game. You current situation is much more acceptable as a female than as a male.

[poneglyphs]

Why is better for women to hbe nothing rather than guys?

[Opinion Owner]

Because men and women are valued for different things. Sorry to break it to you dude, but as a man you are valued for your utility, and you have none.

[poneglyphs]

True, I have nothing that's why I'm worthless 😔

[Opinion Owner]

You're not worthless, you just need to up your game. You young for a man, plenty of time to grow.

[exitseven]

Yes, once I was out of college it would have been bad if I still lived with my mother.

[ThomasDavid1989]

younger girls just like that you're a jock. older women, want status

[poneglyphs]

So, do younger women look for muscle and older look for what you have?

[ThomasDavid1989]

yeah

[poneglyphs]

So, If I have nothing are women going to like me?

[ThomasDavid1989]

Nope