Will some girl eventually like me one day?

Xper 2 Age: 22

I'm almost 19 and have never had a girlfriend. I think that girls are a higher level than me and that they are superior to me. I have never been liked by a girl and if I liked the girl they didn't want to date me or always had a boyfriend. I'm shy, weird and strange. Girls never notice me in school. This year I'm going to college. I feel like girls there won't notice me too. I really hope one day that some girl will like me, but it seems impossible for me. I simply can't imagine some girl liking me. It feels impossible. Is there a hope for me?

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Truthatanycost Follow
Master Age: 110 , mho 36%

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'I think that girls are a higher level than me and that they are superior to me.'
'I'm shy, weird and strange. '
'I feel like girls there won't notice me too.'
'I simply can't imagine some girl liking me.'
''It feels impossible. '
'I feel like girls there won't notice me'
You become your thoughts and just in this short question, you've fed yourself all kinds of limiting and negative thoughts which eventually become subconscious beliefs. Therefore one shouldn't expect anything in life, other than the diet they feed their own mind. Change your thoughts / mindset, and change your life.

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exitseven Follow
Master Age: 55

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Look- I never thought I would have a girlfriend either when I was your age. Then it all sort of happened. when ypou get to college just try and be social and talk to everyone and make as many friends as you can. You will never get a better opportunity than when you are in college.

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- CSFan
  
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  I will never have a girlfriend even in college. Girls will not notice me there just like in high school. I can't communicate with people without being awkward. It's over for me. Sorry. I spend all my teenage years without having a girlfriend. Such a shame.
  
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- exitseven
  
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  It is not too late. Like I say, try and expand your social circle and make as many friends as you can. Sooner or later you will find somebody that you like
  
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- CSFan
  
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  I may find someone that I like, but the chances that they like me back are zero. Even if a girl told me that she likes me (girls usually never do that and it won't happen to me), I will not believe her.
  
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- exitseven
  
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  With a crappy attitude like that you won't get far. You have to stay positive. You are a good guy.
  
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- CSFan
  
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  How do you know I'm a good guy? My parents always tell me that I'm a horrible person. Girls always reject me and make fun of me. I think I need to stop talking to everyone. It will be better. Bye.
  
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Joker_ Follow
Master Age: 23

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no lol, and you'd be better off quickly realising that deceiving yourself into believing that there is hope for you is not the way to go. I would advise you to fix your incompetence as that will serve to mitigate how pathetic you are. Not being pathetic goes a long way

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- CSFan
  
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  Reported for harassment
  
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mb120101 Follow
Xper 6 Age: 24 , mho 33%

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you're not even 2 decades old , you're not old and alone. It might be unfortunate you haven't had a teen girlfriend, but girls change 100% when theyre older, for the better

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- CSFan
  
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  They will never like me, even if they are older.
  
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TheFlak38 Follow
Master Age: 35

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3.1K opinions shared on Dating topic.

If you struggle to find a girl then you're playing a rigged game. Just give up and enjoy everything else in life otherwise you'll be forever miserable. And I'm sorry to say this.

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- CSFan
  
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  I already gave up. I accepted that I will never feel the touch of a girl. It's over for me.
- TheFlak38
  
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  I'm really sorry man. This is the world today. I know dozens of men in real life like you.
- CSFan
  
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  It's okay. Girls have it easier. Thank you, feminism! At the moment most girls of my age are riding some guy's cock or smoke, get drunk and etc. Girls won. Sorry to you too.
slatyb Follow
Master Age: 52

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Get some counseling, build some self-esteem, and you'll be fine. It gets better.

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NostalgiaSenpi Follow
Explorer Age: 35

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Get yourself out of that mindset. You're in a feedback loop.

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- CSFan
  
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  Too late. I gave up on girls today forever. I will die a virgin and will not give a damn anymore. It's over. Some people never find love and will never find love. That's the ugly truth.
  
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Extraterrestrial1999 Follow
Yoda Age: 26

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You don't a girlfriend to be happy. Finding women that are attracted to you, can be very hard, but its not anything against you.

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AmeerX Follow
Guru Age: 33

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Tell your mom and she will find you a good girl to marry 👍

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LilyByte Follow
Xper 6 Age: 24

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Not with that attitude

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- CSFan
  
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  Too late. I already gave up on girls today forever. Now I'm going to live my life and die a virgin. Sorry to all, but not everyone is made for romantic love.
  
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- LilyByte
  
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  your only 19 lol
  
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Greenbins Follow
Xper 5 Age: 52

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I'm sure you will find someone some day.

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- CSFan
  
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  Not true. Girls are a higher level than me. I'm out of all girls' league. I have tried many times, nothing happened. Just humiliation. I'm also short.
  
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- Greenbins
  
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  I have a friend who is in his late 40's and just found the love of his life
  
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- CSFan
  
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  I don't want to meet my "love of my life" that late. I want to experience it while I'm still young. But dreams are free. I already spent my teenage years without having a girlfriend. I won't even have a prom date. It will be the same in college. It's OVER.
  
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- Greenbins
  
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  My point was you have lots of time
  . I think you are over thinking this way too much.. try and relax and it will happen
  
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- CSFan
  
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  How can it happen when I won't even ask a girl out anymore. I know what will happen if I ask a girl out. They will laugh at me. I have NEVER been liked by a girl.
  
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- Greenbins
  
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  It will almost never happen if you don't try I'm not very attractive at all.. so what I found what works for me is I have to become friends with them first.. if I just ask a girl out I always get rejected. ... when I become friends with them it upps my chance
  
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- CSFan
  
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  I don't want to become friends with girls. No girl will ever even want to be friends with me. I wonder who will bury me in 70 years.
  
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- Greenbins
  
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  I'm sorry but I think you are over reacting.
  
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Jmmmfi4 Follow
Master Age: 45

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2.9K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Probably not you can't trust them anyway

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- CSFan
  
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  You're right. Back in 10th grade one girl pretended to like me so much and I asked her many times if she's faking liking me and she said no many times. One day I asked her out and she said: "Please, stop it" and started laughing. I started crying and no one came to me. Since then I lost all my trust in girls. Even if a girl told me she likes me now I won't believe her.
  
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Sevenpointfive Follow
Master Age: 46

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2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

in TODAYS SOCIETY

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moviedude714 Follow
Master Age: 38

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Start worrying at 25

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- CSFan
  
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  Too late. I gave up on girls today forever. I will die a virgin and will not give a damn anymore. It's over. Some people never find love and will never find love. That's the ugly truth.
  
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