Men, how would you feel if the woman you wanted revealed on a date that she does not like nor want kids?

[Softlife808]

Thank god

I'd be disappointed and end the date then and there

Not sure

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Which one of you men selected, "Thank god?" LOL 🤣

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Wow a mod is posing as an anon to troll my post. Creepy

[OfMiceandMen]

I said, thank god. Don't get me wrong, I love children and wish I would have had more because I have lots of love to give.

I am at an age where most women would not be interested in me being a father. A father should be around for the majority of their kid's lives to teach them things. Let's face it, I am not getting any younger and I would feel bad if something ever happened to me and she had to raise the children alone.

A younger women would be better suited with someone who is younger/around their age, so they are less likely to be a widow at an early age.

[Fireguy17]

I would be fine with it since I could not have kids.
It sucked when I was younger, the women I was with said a first they were fine with it, but then the mother urge kicked in and that would be the end of it.
Without even knowing or asking it turns out my wife could not have kids either, both our 2nd marriages, and we/she was past the age to have kids anyway, so it worked out just fine.
I was dating one girl that had 3 girls, but then we just drifted apart, and way later I found out that she thought that I wanted to have kids, so since she had her tubes tied she could not have any more kids.
I found that out way too late.
I've always wondered what if...

[Jessica405]

In my case, my boyfriend was so relieved when I told him I never want kids. He doesn't either.

[Jessica405]

My choice! Thank god sid my b.

[Jessica405]

... said my boyfriend.

[Jessica405]

Hehe! If the mod was anon, you would not know they are a mod!

[AviatorTom]

That would be a problem with the number of potential athletes. In the general population, 99% of people are male and female, split roughly 50-50. That leaves only 1% for the "other" category, which means it might be difficult to get enough athletes in a specific sport.

What might be possible is to add an "Open" category, where anyone can compete, in addition to the traditional male and female sport categories.

[AviatorTom]

The above opinion was obviously (and mistakenly) put in the wrong question.

For this question, when I was younger, I wanted a family, so a woman not wanting kids would be a deal-breaker. At my age now, women of my age (and I) have grown kids and we don't want any more., so that would not be an issue.

[Avicenna]

That may not be a dealbreaker. I already have kids and she doesn't have to spend time with them.

[Softlife808]

Are your "kids" actually kids? Or are they adults

[Avicenna]

They're between the ages of 2 and 13

[Softlife808]

Oh God 🤦🏽‍♀️ eh

[Tyrael]

It depends what age she is and what stage of life she's at. Lots of women in their early to mid 20s go on about not wanting kids cause they've been fed a lot of crap about needing a career to be happy. Then they hit their early 30s and see reality and change their mind. So it would depend.

[Softlife808]

I wanted them in my early 20s but now that I see the reality of kids... like omg no..

[Tyrael]

I mean it's been obvious to me since I was a kid that kids are a pain in the ass, I still kinda want one though

[Softlife808]

Yeah I didn't see the reality until I started working for moms as a nanny and omg hell no 🤣.

[Tyrael]

I think it's fair to say it's different if it's your own kid lol. Your tolerance level will be higher. And you get to mould them as an individual, how exciting

[LickSmack]

Nothing against kids... But I don't think id be a great parent. I don't have a huge amount of patience. My interest in Patenting isn't high, my Love would shift to other things. That's crushing. And if something goes wrong... It could change their lives for the worse. I don't wanna ruin anyone's lives.

[Softlife808]

Neither do I

[Lliam]

I had girlfriends from the time I was16. I was interested in having kids.

My wife and I never had any and are glad.

So I picked 'A', "Thank god."

[Lliam]

*I "wasn't" interested in having kids*
Too much responsibility, drama and expense. I wanted to live my own life, not dedicate it to an ungrateful brat.

[Phoenix98]

Well then she did me a favor by revealing that information to me early so I don't have to waste my time and can now go and find someone who does like and want kids.

[Kaamraj]

In that case I would not consider her for marriage because I want children and I would make that very clear.

[exitseven]

I could have gone either way. I did not NOT want to have kids but it would not have been a dealbraker for me either.

[Jamie05rhs]

@exitseven But your kids turned out well! I'm sure you're proud of them.

[exitseven]

@Jamie05rhs Yes, they are all college graduates that have moved out on their own. My wife probably deserves all the credit. I am glad they did not turn out like me

[Jamie05rhs]

@exitseven Aww 🥰

[Anonymous]

I'm 68 and don't need children, so that would be okay, but I don't date women whose profile picture is a public restroom selfie.

[Opinion Owner]

The only thing that you know about me is that I am a 68 year old male. To make that statement on the basis of that limited information is incredibly ignorant. Arrogant. AND I'm sure that you are one of those who will continue to respond until you get the last word.

[Softlife808]

Get over it

[Softlife808]

@olderandwiser aren't you supposed to be a mod?

[Softlife808]

They @ girlsaskguys are a piece of Turkish shit

[HighValue]

I'd tell her that our long term life goals are incompatible and we shouldn't date anymore.

[Pegases]

I want kids, so I wouldn't be upset, It would just mean she's not for me.

[CuriousMufuxka]

Thank fuck! Granted she would most likely change her mind later on.. Girlies are famous for that shit.

[Softlife808]

Eh, nope. Since being a nanny and seen this moms lives omg. Kids are too much, they don't have common sense, they tear things up, then you see schools getting shot up by a transgendered. Like what is the world coming to

[CuriousMufuxka]

Good on you! Better not change later though..

[Softlife808]

No ill pass.. early 20s I wanted them but now after seeing the reality of it, no don't want them.

[TomMarks]

I wouldn’t end the date immediately, but I would not plan a lot else with her.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Not sure

[zagor]

Obviously it would depend on whether HE wanted kids.

[Softlife808]

Well you're "he" so your answer is?

[zagor]

I would be OK with that.

[zagor]

Just spent time with my oldest niece while her 2 y. o. was having a meltdown.

[Softlife808]

Yeah its a bit much. I initially wanted them in my early 20s but now after seeing the reality it's a no for me

[bolverk]

I'd be disappointed and let the relationship peter out.

[Twalli]

I can't procreate and if a girl and I change our minds later, adoption is always an option.

[Twalli]

I selected it, but obviously I'm not the only one.

[Softlife808]

Adoption is a great option so many kids need homes

[Twalli]

Yes, but only if you want to raise children. I actually support abortion until we get the number of kids in foster care far lower than it is.

[LiamJHayden]

Didn't want, fine. Didn't like? That would be a problem. I love kids.

[Juxtapose]

I don't want kids either and I sure as hell don't want to pass on my autism 👍

[PointTaken]

I've been with women who didn't want kids. Been with one that did but couldn't.

[Jamie05rhs]

That would be fantastic!

[NostalgiaSenpi]

I'd be fine with that.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I don't want kids either.

[Paulychicagoluv]

At this point in my life I wouldn't care

[Dreamclouds]

Would get up and leave without any doubt.

[GreekLorrd]

Hell no!

[Guardian45]

Relieved

[Danny_dan92]

I wouldn’t care

[Redstang88]

Perfect👌

[dinojames22]

No problem

[Neufd]

Leave immediately