Guys, which ones are green and red flag to you in dating/getting married? Why? (Page 2)
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Stay at home mom?
Green - when we had young kids. She can go back to work when they are in school. I didn't want a woman whose top priority is career and would stress the marriage for work. No work travel... no 60 hour weeks or no wedding.
Last name. Stop sign. Dead stop. No marriage. Too much of a feminist. She wants our kids to have multiple last names due do her argumentative feminist pride.
Debt - red flag, I wouldn't marry into debt.
1st is a "red flag" in the sense that we would not be compatible. My interest is in someone who shares my enthusiasm about science, engineering, technology
Others are fine.
#1 is most boring to me. I don't mind if she's willing to be a stay-at-home mom. I just don't find it very interesting if that's her goal in life.
Huge Student Debt - flashing red sign.
Own name - solid red sign
Stay at home mom - I'll give that amber
Green. She understands and wants a true family
Red. She's been significantly influenced by feminism.
Orange. That's a burden she's going to expect me to take on. It's not an easy thing to ask.
Red flags:
1- no blue ticks in messaging apps.
2- too competitive
3- people of faith
4- people you argue with on relationships 101 rules
5- people with opinions on everything
Green flags:
1- confident and secure, know what they want in life and sure about being in a relationship
2- adventurous in bed and don’t weaponize sex
3- logical conversationally
4- have teamwork spirit
5- mature in balancing between work and fun
I don’t do flags…. What I am comfortable with with one person I may not be comfortable with with another person. People are different, situations are different. There is not one size fits all when it comes to relationships
I definitely expect them to see the last name as a red flag
• she wants to be a stay at home mom
Red flag
• she wants to keep her last name and not use yours
Yellow flag
• she has a huge student debt
Yellow flag
Wants me to take her last name.
Huge debt.
Fights with her family.
Has multiple kids from different dads.
It is only the third one that seems like a problem.
They could all be green flags to me, especially stay at home mom!
1st. Its not feasible where i live. she's gonna have to work too.
2. Id prefer to compromise and keep both our last names but hers can come first with a dash.
3. Is not a red flag at all for me because I understand how crazy if an issue this is in our current society.
she wants to be a stay at home mom.
About debt, nothing comes in my head right now, but it could be a Red flag too.
Green, if she really want to make a home. Red if it is because she just wants a free ride.
Yellow, till I know her reasons
Red with a detour sign, unless she is starting a career that will allow for easy repayment.
Depends. None are red flags, but ALL would require a conversation and a compromise.
"She wants to be a stay at home mom" is a green flag. The other two situations are huge red flags for me.
Men should never get married.
Marriage ONLY benefits women and most end in divorce which is also initiated by women 85% of the time because even divorce only benefits women.
mexico is red and green but also has white. so does italy