If a girl got out of a bad relationship but needed space. Can she still like a guy?

[Anonymous]

If a girl got out of a bad relationship but needed space. Can she still like a guy?

[Justmeagain1]

Girls mostly want one thing when fresh out of a bad relationship- comfort. Be that in non sexual or sexual ways. They are often grieving loss, what was, what preconceived future was going to be like , hopes, aspirations of the relationship and the list goes on. Depends on the women. Then there’s the ones l who cannot think of anyone else - the ones that should have been wife’s but weren’t - they the scary ones- they often too far gone emotionally to commit to anything and could almost be considered loose cannons with no consistency.

[Asker]

thank you for your answer. Me and this girl spoke for literally two months straight everyday. I simply asked her to go out and grab and coffee or food and she changed up on me. Its been a month now and she has not said anything. When she see's me she looks down and can't look me in the face. I dont want her to think i was a "vulture" because i'am not like that. I actually never had a girlfriend before and take my time to find the right one. With this girl its odd because she kind of acts like a child. Her past relationship was very bad because and really hurt her and she opened up about her dad who left her mom and a really young age. I don't know if it's the trauma that made her this way or what but in a room full of people she always came to me type of thing. I sent her one or two texts and she doesn't respond. I don't know what to do here. Also i would like to add she had a boyfriend before we were talking but never once mentioned him but i could tell things were not going good.

[Wild_princess]

Give her some time probably she needs it... takes time to heal wounds

[Asker]

I got it. It's been a month now and she is still not really talkative. For reference she was in a relationship for 5 years

[Anonymous]

Probably not in a healthy way.