Would you date someone who had an ex for a roommate?

[coachTanthony]

[Anonymous]

Hell to the no-no-no! I would like to believe that I could trust my boyfriend living with an ex, but I'm also no fool. If they still consider themselves good enough to still be roommates without any issues, that shows me, that that relationship is still tight and can get even tighter if the circumstances are right, or someone's a little drunk, or the other person decides that because we are having a fight, it's their moment to swoop in and be their rock...and more. I don't want to have to think about that or deal with someone gas lighting me into thinking these things would or could never happen.

[DarkCarousel]

I wouldn’t. That seems like an extremely transitional phase of life for a person, and although I believe we are always changing, that seems too chaotic (or whatever a lesser degree of that is) for me to want to involve myself in.

[Leapfrog00]

No, when my ex girlfriend used to cheat on me, she would tell the guys she cheated on me with that I was an ex boyfriend living with her and nothing was going on, even though it was my house and I was taking care of her.

Seeing it flipped around like that, you can see if someone said they were living with an ex, that person might not be an ex but someone they are still with. People say thins like that so they can cheat more smoothly. My ex girlfriend is living proof!

[Avicenna]

HELL-NO.

A friend of mine is doing this right now (he's the ex roommate) and I keep telling him he needs to get out of there ASAP.

[1073sucks]

question twist: the guy asking the question is probably your roommate LOL 😂 trying to find out if it's good or not.

[Summeroflove]

Had a ex for a roommate? Do you mean lives with their ex? Lived with their ex? Was in a relationship with their roommate?

[Emelina]

Never, I am very territorial and knowing there's another woman living with me and my boyfriend that used to be his ex... Nah it wouldn't go through me not in a good way but in a terrible way. Dramas ahead.

[lightbulb27]

no, bad idea. the opportunity exists, it's good to learn the word "No". divide all decisions into hell yes or hell no, and it's easier to think.

[Adam1978]

Not a chance, if he still lives there they haven't broken up properly. And they need to fix that before starting dating again.

[ShadezMcgee]

All fun and games until you stay over, wake up to find your girlfriend/boyfriend not in bed with you but the bed is rocking two rooms down.

[Xoxocutekitty]

Heck no. We can date after they move out, pay their last rent, and not a day sooner.

[Red-Blaze]

Sure, if they can stay roommates they must have broken on agreement not a fight, so sould be fine

[Kelly6]

same with me

[DizzyDesii]

Quite possibly a situation i’m currently dealing with

[Nikki1989]

Depends on many, many factors. It is not that simple.

[Anonymous]

Oh HELL no! If she was hot I'd bang her, but I'm definitely not dating her exclusively. She's still going to be getting railed by her "ex." I'm fine fucking his girl but I'm not going to make her mine.

[MysticDevice]

I actually did. There were some issues but we worked it out

[NathanDavis]

yes... I had a girlfriend, while I was still was business partners with my ex-girlfriend... lol

she never had a worry at all about "business meetings"

[DextroShade]

Absolutely not, any contact with exes automatically puts her in the recreational use only category.

[Sasha0426]

I’m guessing single moms are out the question. Or do you mean you knock her up and leave her?

[DextroShade]

@Sasha0426 single mothers are recreational use only unless the guy is a single dad and she is a widow. I would never pay for some other dude's kids.

[Sasha0426]

Why does society hate single moms so much? I get some are bad, but they get a lot of hate more than single dads. Also, single dads are no better. I think both should get equal hate.

[razelove]

Nope, that sounds more so like a threesome situation.

[Smashingdoozy]

I did. And she was pregnant. It was fucking weird and he was toxic as hell.

[OlderAndWiser]

HUGE red flag. HUGE!

[EmmaMary]

No, absolutely not.

[RobT312]

Naw, doesn’t sound healthy

[Sparkie460]

That would be awkward

[RingOfFire]

HA! That would be no.

[TacosRAwesome]

Definitely not.

[LavLavLuv]

Of course.. I wouldn’t 💀

[SxcSierraa]

Never ever would I do that

[itsalyssaagain]

No way

[Jamie05rhs]

Fuck no.

[Kelly6]

yes sure

[msc545]

No way.

[KrakenAttackin]

Ha! Fuck no.

[In_Trance]

I would not

[Anonymous]

noseripopin! never.

[dudeinohio]

Nope

[rainbowww]

Hell no

[Anonymous]

Nope.