How do I confess to my guy friend who I already rejected?

[Anonymous]

At this point this guy has become one of the closet people to me. I didn’t know him as well when I originally rejected him and honestly I was at the time afraid of using him to get over someone else (which i’m pretty sure i would have done if i originally went with it.)

Now i’m completely over the other guy and I feel more ready to be in a relationship because i don’t think i was at all before. We talk everyday and go everywhere together. It screws with my mind when i remember we’re not together considering we act like it. Should i confess to him or leave it alone since i already rejected him before?

[Emanon25]

Tell him the truth that you weren’t ready that time.

[mommymommymommy]

You were never friends

[Asker]

If your partner isn’t also your best friend then what’s the point? Friendship and loving someone isn’t mutually exclusive.

[mommymommymommy]

My mom and dad aren't best friends, THEY WERE NEVER FRIENDS

[Asker]

My parents are best friends and very much in love and married. They’ve been married for 40 years now and we’re friends for 5 years before they started dating.

[Asker]

were*

[mommymommymommy]

Hence, that they were NEVER friends. FRIEND DONT MARRY

[Asker]

I don’t know why would wouldn’t marry your best friend? If you spouse isn’t your best friend then who is, they should be closer to you. it makes for the best relationships.

[mommymommymommy]

Because I'm not gay. My best friend is a guy, not a girl!