Seriously who told women this lie that a career , education and a lot of money would make them more attractive to men?

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A guy can be a 3 if he has a good career, education and a lot of money he can bed 9s and Dimes the most beautiful women in the world even if he is short fat and ugly and there are women who honestly believe it will have the same effect

bolverk · Accepted Answer

The Idea came from the Feminists who took what they found attractive in a man (they still want to be in a relationship with a man with all of those attributes even though they say they don't) and flipped the script around expecting men to want the same in a woman,
Where as if anything we find them to be a turn off especially when accompanied by the ‘Boss Babe’ attitude,
What men look for the most besides femininity, personality etc, in no particular order are;
Calmness
For the most part, drama queens are usually women. And dating a drama queen means lots of gossip, impulsive decisions, emotional conversations and drama in her life and yours.
Men prefer a woman who can stay calm and relaxed.
Cleanliness
Beauty is more than make-up and a fancy haircut. Men find women more attractive when they are neat and clean. Men find women who smell nice, who have clean hair and hydrated skin more attractive than a face perfectly covered in makeup.
Intelligence
My cousin once went out with an extremely attractive girl. They only went out once, and then he completely lost interest. I asked him what had happened, and he told me he could not date someone who didn’t even know the name of the country’s current vice president.
It might sound extreme, but it’s not. An intelligent woman shows ambition, awareness and personally knows the value of education.
Caring
Instinctively, men and women are attracted to people who could potentially look out for them if something were to happen in the future. Most women are born with that instinct already but few show it.
Creativity
In this case, creativity isn't a woman's ability to make crafts and recreate Pinterest projects. Rather, her ability to approach life in a new and exciting way is the type of creativity men are looking for. A man wants a wife who can help him figure out unique solutions to life's problems.
Discipline
Parenting is already a difficult job, but it's made even harder with a lack of discipline. Men are looking for a woman who will uphold the household's rules and help reinforce their children's good behaviours.
Loyalty
No human being on Earth wants to be betrayed. When a man meets a woman, he looks at the way she acts and respects the people she loves. If she speaks poorly about her friends or tells them she is sick so she can spend time with her boyfriend instead of going out with them, he may not believe she is a good match for him.
Friendliness
If you ask a man why he loves his wife, he might say how she makes friends with everyone or how she treats everyone with respect and kindness. Nothing is more seductive than humility and the ability to treat everyone with the same level of respect.
Genuine
In today’s world, it's easy to put up our picture perfect life on social media, but a real man is looking for a woman who is genuine. It's a difficult quality to find, but is extremely attractive once discovered.
Maturity
Maturity has nothing to do with the age of a person. Mental and emotional maturity is a quality all men are looking for because no one has time to date a childish woman.
Optimism
Nothing is more sexy than a person with the ability to see the glass half full, instead of half empty.
Punctuality
Nobody likes to wait around. Most men understand that most women take more time to get ready, but a woman who is punctual shows she respects everyone else's time.
The ability to let go
It's good to fight for what you want in life, but wisdom lies in our ability to know when it's time to let go of what we can not have.
Romantic
It makes sense that both men and woman are looking for a partner who is at least a little romantic. It's nice to feel like that spark will always be there because your partner is someone who likes to bring flowers home and plans romantic getaways.
Respectful
Respect for him and for others is a characteristic that all men find attractive.
Compassionate
It's easy to fall into the habit of always wanting or demanding more. When concentrating on our own needs, we forget to understand others. A compassionate woman is something all men are looking for.
Loving
No one wants to be in a relationship where they don't feel love.

RavVid · Accepted Answer

Intelligence, education and career is over-rated in a woman. It's the tits that count!

thatshydork · Accepted Answer

Would you prefer someone who’s uneducated and relies solely on you to provide for them? Because to me that just sounds like a nuisance. Plus just because you don’t like those things in someone doesn’t mean that others don’t. My parents have been happily married for over 30 years and my dad loves that my mom is highly educated and has a career of her own.

Jazzy54 · Accepted Answer

Feminism.

Avicenna · Answer

OK, men aren't monoliths. There is no way that every man is going to have the same opinion on this. Truth is, many men find that attractive and would date such a woman.

RolandCuthbert · Answer

No one. Back before you were a glimmer in your dad's eye. Women would get divorced but end up being devastated because they had no education or experience to enter the work force. So now instead of being forced to stay married to an abusive dude, if they so choose they can file for divorce and still be able to support themselves.

What is going on here? I thought Boebert, MTG and Palin were you guy's heroes.

https://people.com/politics/rep-lauren-boebert-files-for-divorce/

"I've always been faithful in my marriage, and I believe strongly in marriage, which makes this announcement that much more difficult," Boebert said

Seriously who told women this lie that a career , education and a lot of money would make them more attractive to men?

Potteplante · Answer

It's insane to me that there are still men out there that think everything women do in their lives is for men.

I'm not educated for men, I don't have a good job for men - I have it for ME. What I do in life is done for MY sake, MY happiness, MY well being - for my interest.

Sirenboobzilla · Answer

Who told you that that's what we believe? I certainly didn't work my ass off to impress any man, save for my dad.

Snakeyes7 · Answer

Feminism.

Because apparently working your ass off for a boss who yells at everyone is better than being a housewife married to someone you love and care about.

Not that women shouldn't follow their dreams but they have to realize that so many people can go to college at one time and when they take a spot, that means one less man doesn't get to go. If women weren't attracted to status, this wouldn't be a problem. However, they are, and in being that way, that means their dating pool will become smaller and smaller the higher up the ladder they climb and so do their own standards.

Men don't care about the status of women. They'd take an Applebee's waitress for all they care. If anything they would have the highest chance of success for any kind of status a man might have to form a relationship.

If a woman achieves high status and finds it difficult to date, she would either have to lower her standards or just learn to be happy being single.

mommymommymommy · Answer

My mom doesn't make a lot but she's college educated and works two jobs. My mom and dad have been married 35+

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

Even better question for you... why'd so many of them buy it? Haha like I care what you do for a living. I don't even care what I do for a living. I'm not defining myself or my love interests by a career.

zagor · Answer

Um, I think those things are their own attraction. And women who have those things can be more choosy because they're not dependent on a man for survival.

Paulalove98 · Answer

Family such as my dad told me that lie but I’m glad I realized it while I’m still young and am able to really achieve what I want rather than when I’m older and hit the wall.

ElianaS · Answer

I really like learning and I also enjoy taking care of people and I do try to help people but say if I get a college education in a career that’s meant to help people like a radiologist or a caregiver and I get a college education for it I could help someone in that position who may need help with the stuff that I learned with training in that field.

Kelly6 · Answer

Yes I agree with you,  I guess it’s another reason why women are not having kids

Dinklex3 · Answer

The girls doing this aren’t doing it so men can like them, they’re doing it because that’s what they want to do.

DextroShade · Answer

Feminists who don't care about or understand men at all spread these lies with the help of the media.

Blueeyes81 · Answer

People tend to think what characteristics they find attractive in the opposite sex apply to them as well. So if they find those things attractive then the reverse should apply as well.

Unit1 · Answer

They don't Believe that. They make sure they won't be homeless and starving.

Babygirl_S · Answer

It's a good thing then Indian men don't want illiterate wives who don't work. They favour highly educated ones. You can take the village girls.

Dela_99 · Answer

Its almost like we don’t care about looking attractive to you.

annabananna · Answer

Society

msc545 · Answer

Frminists told them.

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