Has anyone ever broken up and gotten back together? Cuz he/she was the one? I don’t know how I feel about the ‘if he’s meant to be he’ll come back, ?

[Anonymous]

[OlderAndWiser]

"Has anyone ever broken up and gotten back together?" Think about it. That's a silly question.

"Cuz he/she was the one?" Saying 'they are The One' doesn't make it true.

People reconcile but most reconciliations end for the same reason the relationship ended the first time around. If they were, indeed, The One, they would have stayed and worked on the conflict instead of running away.

"I don’t know how I feel about the ‘if he’s meant to be he’ll come back, ?" Expressing an idea as a truism doesn't make it true. What about, ‘if he’s meant to be, he wouldn't have left?"

[MementoMori777]

Personally I believe that if someone breaks up once, it wasn't meant to be, if they were really perfect for each other then they wouldn't have broken up in the first place so to believe someone is still the one meant to be after it didn't work once, it's like being persistent and I'm personally not the type to be persistent on the same thing and expect a different result.

[smashleyy]

I have a guy that attempts to come back once in awhile. The last time we seen eachother was last June and the last time he reached out was this past April. No changed behaviour, just looking for a ego boost. A guy coming back to you doesn’t mean much, unless the both of yous spent that time apart growing and bettering yourselves. If not your just asking for the same dead end cycle.

[provokeesmokee]

Personally I'm not one for this. I'm usually done with someone if I break up with them.

However, I would consider it if there were simply temporary circumstances keeping us from progressing. Or if we had parted amicably and whatever we parted for has been addressed (on both sides).

[DizzyDesii]

Me and almost any ex that i didn't cuss out got right back together anywhere between 6 hours and a few days 🤣 We were just that used to eachother. Slick addicted. Had to curse eachother out and say unforgivable things just to permanently stamp the “never going back”

[Finchie40]

No , I don’t take exes back period , if someone can walk away from a relationship, they will do it again , don’t waste your time with someone that can walk away from you period , if they truly valued you that wouldn’t of walked away period

[richardcory]

I broke up with my girlfriend (or actually she broke up with me), then later we got back together and ended up getting married.

Not the way to bet in general though

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

My ex and I broke up over 8 times and reconciled at all occasions before we finally broke up last August.

[itsalyssaagain]

I have before end each time it should’ve never happened. So I don’t recommend it unless it’s a very rare case of he’s the one. Most of the time a break up happens for a reason.

[comekitty]

I have never gotten back together with an ex. They're exes for a reason. 🙂

[dudeinohio]

I did. Once. Bad mistake. Dumped her later. Same issues that caused the initial breakup were still there.

[LiamJHayden]

Never. There is only one ex I would even consider. We ended it because she was moving 3000 miles away for school.

[Nikki1989]

No, once I am done, I am really done.

[BlackJeep]

Don't live life looking in the rearview mirror

[In_Trance]

I have not and don't buy into that thinking. What's done is done

[Anonymous]

No. But that doesn't mean I haven't felt that way. I've just never acted on that feeling.

[Spade_01]

If it's over for once, IT'S OVER FOREVER.

[MannMitAntworten]

Meant to be only makes for good fiction.

[Anonymous]

I never broken because I don't trust holes