No way would I take her back. she's shown that she'll monkey branch at the drop of a hat.
Why would I take her back just so she can do it again?
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Like you, my instinctive reaction would be 'you rejected me once, and I'm not giving you a second chance to do it again, so go fuck yourself.' I don't want to be anyone's backup plan and I don't want to think that my partner sees me as second-best, but. . .
Maybe (particularly for younger women) she doesn't know herself very well, got distracted by a guy who offered glitz and glamour, and she soon realized it was all smoke and mirrors, an optical illusion, not the real deal. And maybe THEN she realizes that the relationship she had with me WAS the real deal but she was just too stupid to see it at that time. And, maybe. . . if I give her a second chance. . . she will be ready to offer her commitment to me.
Of course, the odds are against a relationship like this working the second time, but if it doesn't work, you'll discover that fairly quicky and you won't have too much of an investment in her (unless you let other opportunities pass by in the meanwhile.)
So maybe the answer shouldn't be an automatic "no" but a challenge to the woman, "Tell me why this time will be different than the first time."
What does "seeing" imply here? Did you already have sex? Did she then have sex with the other guy later?
I think in an early phase of dating, before having any sex, it can make sense that she explores other candidates before deciding that you are the best. I would not mind if she arrives at that conclusion after a date with another guy.
Most likely not. If it happens after dating for only a couple of weeks, then I might consider it. She could just still be "playing the field". Anything longer than that I doubt it.
No fair enough if he dumped just because I might take him back but to dump me for another person no way.
You know your worth. If she didn't see that then thats her loss. The right one won't take you for granted like that.
Unlikely. They would have to convince me they really wanted to be with me, as opposed to merely not wanting to be alone.
No way this mean you're the second option and she would always dump you for someone she find better, this is literally the worse
No, absolutely not. Clearly they don’t care enough to stay with me. They’ll just do it again. And again. And again. Why give someone like that what they want?
nope, let the door hit you where the good lord split you and keep moving-
No way in hell. Why would I do such a thing as I'm already insulted completely?
I may be autistic but I'm not retarded. I'm not taking back some disloyal bitch.
Nope. That just means they'll always be looking for someone better.
No, they make their choice when they left me for someone else.
I typically don't no. Once you become option b, you will always be option b.
Coming from a girl — you shouldn’t.
Nope, Im not second choice.
Nope.
Nope.
Nope.
Only for recreation.
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