There are a number of guys who flirted with me, but then gone with other ladies. There wouldn't be a problem at all if they just left forever.
I don't want to feel like a spare part.
Maybe together with their boyfriend. I'm down to have good times. When I was a bachelor, maybe they could hook me up with a woman who suited me well.
I never minded the spare part/third wheel feeling, or a way to say is that I never got it.
Because if I'm a restaurant with a couple who is talking to each other more than me, I'm gonna sit at the bar anyway and make friends with some people and invite them to our table. And now I got more people to talk to.
u flirting is just flirting...
having a relationship implies a whole lot more
Absolutely not. Because I'd feel like their second choice or leftovers...
You weren't good enough to date or be with at first, but when the person they did go with failed, NOW they want you?
Yeah okay 🙄
I know a lot of people will say, "Maybe the timing was wrong..."
Nah. They could have taken the time to get to know you and flirt with you before committing to someone else.
Oof, that's a tough one. It depends. If it stung a lot at the time and they never gave a good explanation, I'd probably steer clear. But if it was a casual thing and time has passed, maybe! If they reach out with a genuine apology and seem to have their act together now, it could be worth a friendly chat to see if there's a spark. Just remember, you deserve someone who chooses you first!
Opinion
1Opinion
flirt, for me, is fun, so I don't take it personally... especially since I don't connect flirting with looking for a partner :D
Probably not unless they expressed consistent interest in me and not in the other people
m won't
I see no need
You can also add your opinion below!
Most Helpful Opinions