Im confused because you say you’re dating but not committed. So it depends on everyones individual definition of cheating. Is it cheating while you’re in the talking/dating stage? Or is it not. For me, I can be mad if i find out there's someone else while we’re talking/dating, but i can't feel as betrayed if we werent committed yet. It also depends on if we agreed to talk to solely eachother during the “just talking/dating” stage. If so then thats a certain level of commitment although not the same as being official boyfriend/girlfriend type commitment. Either way, i wouldn't “cheat” just because they did. That would make me no better
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Smh. Hoe dating culture is so complicated. Answers that it doesn't really matter what one whore does to another whore, because their "relationships" are not legitimate to begin with.
As long as you tell the person it is over then you aren't cheating.
Not sure, how telling the person you are breaking up with that you found someone else is really necessary?
There's no need to crush the person you're breaking up with, the fact you are moving on should be enough.
Besides, you don't want to count your chickens before they hatch with the new girl, considering she may not reciprocate the same thing after awhile.
Kind of embarrassing, if you leave one woman for another and tell the one your leaving that you found someone new and better, if the new girl bails.
Why would that be cheating? You ended it before you acted on it. And it doesn't even sound like you pursued it, she pursued you it sounds like. If your previous girlfriend had been alert the other woman wouldn't even have been able to get close.
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Cheating is a breach of trust that involves dishonesty and deceit. If you are in a non-committed relationship and you meet someone else who makes you feel more valued and loved, it is not cheating to pursue that person. It is important to be honest with your current partner and let them know that you have feelings for someone else. It may be painful for them, but it is better to end things respectfully rather than continuing a relationship that isn't fulfilling for both parties.
Not if your honest about your feelings the moment you realize them/tell her what happened and there was no physical contact with the girl you were dating first after the other girl
Moving on with someone better is NOT cheating. Why would anyone not want to improve their life?
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