Is it normal that most of the time I feel like we do not have fun with my boyfriend?

[experience]

We've been dating for a couple of months but most of the time I feel like we do not enjoy what we have been doing together. Is it normal to feel like this?

[midnightmoon05]

You have a picture of a baby on your profile. If it’s true, you are a single mom?
that would explain it. Not the kids fault…it just means he is not serious about you.

otherwise it’s not normal like others says.

[Leapfrog00]

Yeah, sometimes this happens. Try planning an activity you normally wouldn't do together, like hiking, miniature golf, video games, anything really.

If you find that's still boring, surprise him by doing something spontaneous. Either way, one if them always worked for me!

[Adam1978]

No at least one usually enjoy it otherwise why would you do it? Unless the other person is a complete party popper. There should be a interest from one or both to do it.

[provokeesmokee]

I don't know about "normal", but it's just my personal opinion you should actually like spending time with someone you're dating.

[weysally]

too many people associate sex with having fun, sex is only a bi product, its being together that counts, or having one space and then talking about what you both did to each other

[runnerboy]

I'm sure many couples have their ups and downs. I don't know the details but you have some ownership in the relationship also. Have you tried to do fun things with him? Have you talked with him about it? Is this about sex or everything else?

[boggboss]

Nope been with my partner for 6 years and we still have fun together

[Twalli]

Are you comfortable with each other? It's possible that you don't enjoy the activities because you are just enjoying being with him. The activities are merely a way to keep your relationship from becoming rote

[Paul09]

Then what's the point of being together. You are suppose to share interests and values and all that. Seems like you 2 are together because you are scared to be single.

[Bklynbadboy12]

That's not normal usually in the beginning everything is great. Have you tried talking to him about how you feel

[Anonymous]

That does not seem normal, because you just met so you both should be having lots of fun together.

[slatyb]

Normal? Forget normal. You aren't happy. End this.

[SnowedIn]

That's neither normal nor good.

[itsalyssaagain]

Means he’s boring lol.

[collie22]

Sorry that doesn't sound good

[Staximus]

No, get rid of him

[In_Trance]

If you don't have fun, what are you even doing?

[Danny_dan92]

Then break up