I've been dating a guy for about 8 months now. He's truly great- so kind, athletic, and incredibly intelligent, as well. To be brief, we have a LOT in common, I absolutely adore him and he makes me laugh like no other. My problem is that I don't feel like I make him happy. Sure, we get along great, but I feel like that's all it is to him, "getting along". I feel like the adoration in my relationship is a bit one sided; I spill my heart out to him sometimes and he responds with short things like "awwww thanks babe, love you too". I get that some people aren't as emotional, but I also notice differences in other's Snapchats and social media posts of him. He seems like he's enjoying himself more, and way more comfortable. He's never said that I DON'T make him happy, but he's never said that I do, either. I understand the logical comeback answer to this is easily "don't worry, if he wasn't happy he'd leave" or something like that, but this is a relatively new concern and I don't think it's gotten to that point yet. It breaks my heart to think about letting him go, but I feel like letting him stay with me is doing more harm than good. I want him to be as happy as he can & in a fulfilling relationship, but I don't feel like he is with me, which obviously makes it harder for me to feel fulfilled, too. Asking for advice, different points of view, and opinions!! Thanks!
I Don't Feel Like I Make My Boyfriend Happy?
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