he has feelings for someone else I knew that from the beginning bc he was on a break with her (April) We fall for each other/ sext etc. i am moving to his city. She is long distance.
He was on vacation. Now he's in town meets her again and tells me he feels horrible and can't lead me to a dead end but he has feelings for me but he can't give it his all if he is still stuck on someone else. He has stuff clouding his head he needs to sort out. We were supposed to meet next week. He wants to stop talking until he gets it sorted out. He promises he will message me when he feels better. Wants me to not wait for him, work on myself in the meanwhile and said he will do the same.
I am absolutely in love with him. I told him I am patient and told him he's worth the wait essentially. Waiting for him to message me. Is he probably just going to get back with her. Why would he even say he likes me if he doesn't want me and wants her. :((
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Yeah girl do not settle to be a man’s second choice. He doesn’t have feelings for you, you were just a back up just in case this girl didn’t have feelings for him anymore. You will always be second choice to him. Move on and find someone that doesn’t put you in between his relationship drama
he keeps saying he's got feelings for me wants to cuff me up but isn't mentally ready for that (he's said in the past) How can you like two girls at once? You're right about the second choice stuff. He says she was toxic. But then why does he want her too. I would love him so hard-- the right way. I feel like they fucked but he didn't say that. Doesn't even give me a fair fight if I haven't met him in my opinion. Maybe I'm just crazy but i think its ok if they did. I'm fine with that. She had him first. I haven't even met him yet. But if he gives me exclusivity after then I'm good. not trying to be a side hoe. How do I move on. Can you give me advice and perspective on what I'm saying. My friends told me to block this man centuries ago. haven't talked to them. But here I am in love with him still.
That girl is his first choice but he knows for a fact that she is too toxic for him. If I were you, I would know your worth. Accept the fact that he’s only around you because this one girl most likely rejected him in some kind of way. Even if he gave you exclusivity, it seems like there’s a chance he would run away if he found someone he would actually want to be with over you.
you're right. How do I move on? I'm moving to a new place for school and he's the only person I know. It's a super small place. Mostly old people. I have only been with one other person. This is the second guy I've ever talked to. Just got out of a relationship. I know I could find someone who would have their eyes only on me but I want him. You're right though. He knows I'm a safe option. I would never hurt him. He always says he doesn't want to hurt me.
I told you. Tere se na ho payega
:(((( will he come back. I want to throw up. I need him.
Go ahead
go ahead what
message padh apne... Baat karti ni to kya khaq batau
Don't you see you are getting played. 🤣
Dude sounds like a fuck boy.
: ( how can you like two girls at once? I'm the side hoe right : (.
Yes, unfortunately you are.