The advice women give when it comes to attracting women as a man doesn't help and actually hinders you. True or false?

[Chthou95]

Women tend to give politically correct advice when it comes to attracting women. But a lot of men have found that the advice given to them doesn't help. What's funny is the advice that men give that sounds very politically incorrect actually helps men and gives them better chances at succeeding in the dating world. Men have to learn and practice and gain the experiences to know what actually attracts women. You dont ask the fish how to catch fish, you ask the fishermen. It's an analogy so dont cry 😢 and say im comparing women to fish

[MrOracle]

Most women only deal with the top 10% of men - they tune out all other men without even realizing it - so they just assume that all men act like, think like, and have the same advantages and outcomes of those top 10% guys. This is why their advice is worthless for most men - most women have NO IDEA what the majority of men experience or what their struggles are. And on the rare occasion that they are confronted with a piece of that reality, they are often shocked or in disbelief.

Someone posted a meme where a guy says (paraphrasing) "I am not yet successful and I have very limited resources, so I am unworthy of love."

A bunch of women saw this meme and said "yeah, but men don't really think that," and when told that most men feel that way, they were honestly shocked.

Even most successful guys remember how it was before their success, and they can relate to your struggles. Most women don't understand because they hit puberty and everyone deferred to them, were anxious to make them happy, pay their way, and protect them from the world. Few younger women know what it's like to barely keep the wolf from the door, and know how it feels to have no other backup.

This is why you need to listen to the MEN who are successful (with women and everything else) and listen carefully to what THEY say. Not everything will be 100% right, and you may have different morals and values that require some adjustments, but largely, those are the men who have solved the problem and have something worthwhile to teach you. I recommend listening to a number of different sources and making up your own mind after understanding each person's background and biases.

[Anonymous]

Most the time it hinders. I wouldn't ask for advice to women on this site. Most are too bitter or toxic to provide you with anything that would be useful. But if you have any trusted females you know it's not bad to get thier advice on details.

The thing you have to keep in mind is all women are different. But all women have the same tendencies. once you understand thier tendencies then you just have to Taylor it to the eccentricities of each woman you meet.

And when it comes to women offering you advice you have to ALWAYS take into account her motivation. If a woman doesn't think you're right for another woman. She will deliberately sabotage you with bad advice. Because women can't help themselves. It's thier judgmental nature. It doesn't even necessarily means she dislikes you. She just thinks she's saving you from yourself.

[spartan55]

It's not a matter of the advice being politically correct or not. Women just tend to give lousy advice when it comes to dating for some reason.

[Lliam]

I depends on what kind of women you are trying to catch and what your goals are.

[Anonymous]

You might as well talk to a pile of rocks with most men, so they will never learn anyway.

[Chthou95]

That's true. But the rare percentage of men who are good with women makes their advice only much more valuable

[Anonymous]

Very true. The best advice is to observe female behavior and learn from it because what women say they want and what they actually do are often very different things.