Is it normal to not want to go out with your boyfriend, for example on dates or to the store or anywhere bc everytime we go somewhere I can't escape from other woman liking him and him rubbing it in. For example my boyfriend carries himself well and for some odd reason woman are attracted to him. But it's to the point where he's been everywhere, we live in a small town and he's been with everyone in this town even the outside towns also and some out of state but from a 10 mile to 50 mile radius everyone woman has been with and he talks about it every single time to the point where he told me yesterday he doesn't want to take me to the other town bc he knows so many flings not relationship flings and I'm to the point where it was nice to have someone that everyone wants to not likeing what everyone had you know and even when we go on a date it's always a woman speaking and flirting with him and I feel as tho he likes the attention and it's gross like I don't even get any attention and when I do I tell them I'm with an amazing man and push them in the opposite direction, him he doesn't even say hey I'm sorry but I have a girlfriend or I'm with someone not even once have I heard that.
Is it more common to not want to go anywhere with your boyfriend like wanted to stay home all the time?
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I dated guys like this. I don’t even call that dating though. You’re in a situation ship. She doesn’t want to be seen in public with you and vibe with Netflix and chill only at her or your place? Something is fishy and I dodge those fast now
I date guys who don’t want to be in public with me. But yeah that insecurity is something you have to get over and move on from. otherwise you’re not in a real relationship
It's hard when I know I got over my insecurities intill he says some stupid shit again that brings them back out like if we go somewhere he says u see that girls right there, then shows me, then says I have some crazy shit to tell u about her, then proceeds to tell me he had a fling with her or she got arrested bc she stalked him or they made out at a party like I don't care what u did, but when I say something wrong like saying oh I use to do this when I ment something else he thinks I'm talking about my ex and saying he's doing the same stuff and gets mad at me for it when I didn't say anything about it, also i don't go around and point at every guy I've been with and think about the past. I don't say anything unless one of my friends talks about my past it's just a respect thing for me but he's over here pointing fingers I slept with this one, I made out with this one, i liked her family like I don't care nore do I care what they think of me, he even told me at dinner this girl didn't like me sitting next to him, tbh y the fuck would that bother you, your with me who cares? You know it just bothers me a lot
No, it's not and very few men would find that tolerable. You need to get over this.
not normal but your situation they flirt with him justified stay home.