I think it’s because society today (especially on social media) heavily talks about repeated subjects and we are now all programmed to think about these topics on a daily basis even if they don’t apply to us.
I think the answer lies in the contradictory nature of your question.
You say that you are concerned about being a good partner.
You don't say that you don't want to be in a relationship, you say that you don't "plan" on it. Why not? Because you also say that there are things about you that a guy would never accept? You might be surprised to find that that might not be true.
Keep searching yourself, and the world. Talk to people.
I'm pulling for you.
"I’m not as good as anyone thinks I am" Why do you say that? I expect you are quite as good as people think you are, but you have an unrealistically poor self-image. How did you grow up? Were your parents present and supportive? I felt as you did and finally saw a therapist in my 30's who helped me see myself more positively. It might help you too.
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Because down deep I believe with every fiber if your being. That you Crave that relationship that bond that partner and down deep you know you would worry about it
told you at some point you are gonna want it, this means that deep down you care and want a partner, you can deny it but the feeling is there
Ah, but sooner or later, you'll accidently stumble across the person you'll spend your life with. They appear out of nowhere, and when you're not actively looking. ;)
You worry because you have a need for someone. You are concerned that you won't find anyone.
It’s called being self reflective and thoughtful. Embrace it. Not the cultural pressure part, but the self honesty/improvement part.
You must worry cause you're a sorceress coming out from hoggwarts basement 🤣🤣
Because you want to be in one.
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