I've been on 4 dates with a guy who has still not made any move. He is not proactive but said he was interested in continuing to see me. What to do? (Page 2)

[ChiTown33]

I think you are wasting his time. You want him to be somebody he's NOT. You should cut him loose for a woman that appreciates him for who he is. 👍

[BigRed1987]

Shoot it can be scary for some guys making the move first. With it being so easy for a woman to claim rape or sexual assault or whatever.


Anyway, make the first move

[lorenzomichael]

If you like him that way then you make the move. Some guys are just shy that way, there's nothing wrong with that it's just the way they are. Its not there fault they just haven't been with to many women.

[shanshu]

Why does the guy have to make the move?

In today's day and age guys have to be really careful due to #metoo and making sure not to make the wrong move that will offend her and) or make her feel uncomfortable

[chrissykerdock]

ask him if he'd like a blowjob and if he says no then forget him

[Reem12345reem]

are u sure u want to be with a man like this? but I guess he's gay that hasn't come out from the closet yet

[spartan55]

I suggested that too and had my comment deleted... 😂😂

[mommymommymommy]

I kissed a girl, I've never been on a date with. I don't think she wants to date, doesn't have time to. I think she's a girl that wants something serious

[Lookingforthetruth]

guy doesn't want to get metooed. You girls did this to yourself. Time to put on your big girl shoes and be proactive in your dating life rather than passive.

[TheSpaceGnome]

What do you mean by "making a move"?
Usually that means asking the person out, but you are already dating.

[Minahh]

I don't know seems sus... he might be shy but I think he's just playing so if you don't want to get hurt make it clear that you won't be seeing him until he makes it clear to you.

[dudeinohio]

4 dates in 3 months. I'd have had 10 dates by then. See him more often. Maybe then he'll try.

[Anonymous]

Why are you and ecery other female entitled to being asked out 99 times before you will ask a guy out once? Don't say it's because tou put work into doing your makeup, no guy cares about that shit

[Jamie05rhs]

I finally found a question that I am legitimately stumped by.

[Pohjolan]

Hey at least you know that he isn't just after sex.

[RingOfFire]

If a serious relationship is your goal I would look elsewhere.

[imfreeze95]

Make the first move yourself some guys are passive and shy but are still nice

[SilverRain92]

So what kind of actions are you waiting from guys on date? I am just generally curious

[dragoblack]

Mention something to him. He probably doesn't know when the right timing to ask is.

[driven159]

there more things to worry about then who makes the first move

[Anonymous]

If you're a fan of hot sex, it would seem this guy is a terrible choice. Move on.