I see this coworker sometimes working with me and she hugs me all the time now. She recently got separated from another coworker who used to work with us before. So, last week... I went to where we work and and ordered food. With the now known information she isn't with him anymore for some time
At the end , before leaving, I got to ask her out and she said "maybe" ... when I asked her to go out with me to an event. That same night she would not answer my call to confirm nor to my texts , but hour later to text me she is late cause the machine wasn't working, so they had to roll rolls manually to count money and never confirmed or denied to have the date on that Tuesday night, cause after that single text she send I never got anymore replies to my texts, about her going out with me or what..
Next day she would go to my work ( i was surprised she was already there inside waiting?) and tell me how sorry she was and she got home late and she still wants to reschedule for Thursday. Thursday came and I called her in the afternoon like five times at different times (like 20 mins apart, to confirm with her the date she said she wanted to reschedule)...
I was Trying to get her to respond back by calling me back or texting me... she never texted or called back,, its been 2 days now, what just happened,,, should I avoid her at work if I see her or act like nothing happened and she also likes to hug, should I let her hug me like nothing happened or what? How should I react to this, she never texted me back nor called, ghosted on me , I see her at work, we sometimes work together, sometimes (its rare, she works different times, we just sometimes get that week where she gets a shift with me too or comes to the bar when Im working)
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