Any super late bloomer on this app that once felt hopeless but managed to find love?

[Anonymous]

Im actually 27 and I’m starting to accept the fact that i may never find love , have a family , a decent career, a car , a house , or even be able to lose weight (even though I don’t think weight plays a huge part) . I’ve had a few people crush on me and even a few guys ask me out but lately I haven’t been able to get any dates and I never got a second chance to reconnect with potential dates from the past. Despite the fact a few people actually liked me I’ve I’ve been single my whole young adult life. I feel like the clock is running out. I’m almost 30 ! I really thought I would have so much by this age. It’s hurts watching family that’s younger than me achieve what seems to be like a fairy tale to me.
I’m officially a loser !
Any advice?

ps. Sorry for the choppiness , I’m currently crying.

[DarkWinterNights]

I was pretty hopeless in my late 20’s, got pretty black pilled about it and it really started to negatively effect me. As I’ve gotten older I’ve come to terms with it and I’m no longer desperate for a family. I’ve found more of a purpose and stay busy enjoying life. If it happens that’s great, but if it doesn’t I’ll know it just wasn’t meant to be.


Find a purpose in life and everything will work out.

[MementoMori777]

yes stop worrying about other peoples lives, everyones story is different and comparing what they have compared to you means nothing, love will find you but do other accomplishments while you wait, you'll be okay anon.

[NotInterestedSorry]

I became a 1st time mum at the age of 36 so you never know you might achieve things once you turn 30

[slatyb]

27? You are young. I got divorced in my 30s she I'm happily remarried.

[ryancg]

I don't really know. I thought I'd finally found love at 26, things did not go well and I wound up nearly dead. So I'm kinda leaning towards love being overrated and hazardous to ones health.

[Anonymous]

No. But I learned to find "self love". At this point I'm pretty sure I'll always be single (not alone, i don't feel alone), and I'm OK with that now.

[Anonymous]

Join a fitness group and slay the hot blokes. You might even end up with one of them or get preggers by accident and then he has to take you in.

Your troubles are over my friend!

[ericclayton]

49, still not giving up hope.