Would you think he's lying?

[Anonymous]

Hi everyone

My boyfriend told me a couple of days ago that a girl text him at 3am on fqcebook asking what he was doing then text saying wrong perosn and blocked him off Facebook he said it was 2 weeks ago and he just deleted the message after he read it

We've been together 7 years and 2 year into our relationship before we lived together my boyfriend told me he was drinking with his friend then he text me later saying he waw away to bed but he was partying and this girl was there and I waw told they were very close she had he legs over him they looked like they were gonng hook up and everyone else left and she stayed

When I asked him he first lied and siad said it wasn't true then eventually he said they did flirt but nothing happened and she wasn't alone with him

My heads all over the place I just can't help over thinking why would she block him if he never replied?

Why would he delete the messages if that's all that was said?

I would have took it better if I could have seen the texts and seen he didn't reply to her

We've also been having a lot of silly arguments lately started by him now I'm wondering if that's all from him feeling guilty because there was more to it

What would you think

Ano if I bring it up again he'll just day I'm paranoid and nothing happened

But I just can't help but think somethings up

[ConspiracyTheorist]

I'd have to say go with your gut feeling and stick with it because really you will probably never know and that is why it sucks so bad when someone lies to you because then it is very hard to believe them and so thay question will always be in the back of your head and you know what if dude was totally into you anyway he wouldn't have even been in a place like that close to another female anyway because I know when I was into my ex I would not give anybody any reason to believe something may or may not have happened because my relationship was a lot more important to me then a fling with some harlot

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Why would he bring it up to you at all if he had something to hide?
Unless he's a psychopath and likes the thrill of causing you stress.

I don't think you have to worry about this one, but I do think he fucked that girl at the party

[Asker]

It's the same girl that was at the party that's why I think it's weird

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Oh it's the same girl? Well now I don't know. Still don't know why he'd mention it unless he's trying to fake innocence

[WanderingLoveWizard]

But don't listen to me. Trust your gut

[Zatsuma]

It's so hard when you are on the inside to see what others see on the outside, but please look at some of the replies you have got, they come from experienced people who have either done or been dealt. You have invested enough time into him and he deserves no more of your goodness as you are gold and he is dust in the wind. Be proud of who you are, believe you deserve more and better while you are still young. Walk away with your held help up high and make that fist like that dude in the movie the breakfast club. ❤️

[crystalline0909]

He is lying. He is also aware that you are supicious of him but he will act unaware to push ur boundaries. It's upto you to continue dealing with this shady behaviour with weak ass boundaries where he allows any girl to get physically close to him with her leg on top of him.

[Flatmanlewis]

What DreamLife7 said - he’s not serious if after 7 years he doesn’t know what he wants from the relationship with you. It could be nothing but it all sounds very suspicious to me. I say, something’s not right - time consider moving on in life.

[Paris13]

If this Other Deal Happened Before you Moved In----Move on from it. I don't See much Else Except silly Arguments that you Both can Move Past being Together this Long. Keep Open communication lines. You Fines. lolxxoo

[DermalPunch]

Hebis actively cheating and she knows about you so they are being crafty with the messaging. Or they had something before and she sent a little smoke signal and they've picked back up.

Either way, yes, you are being played.

[DreamLife7]

He doesn't like you lol. You've been with him 7 years yet he's never married you. You're just a place holder until he finds his dream girl. Once he finds her he's leaving you

[peedy]

I think everyone is lying till they prove to mean they are telling the truth
Screw me once shame on you screw me twice shame on me

[MassiveDik]

He is lying but who cares. Men deserve to chest on women!

[EaterPeter]

May be may be not there is lot of that kind online nuisance going on now a days

[WhitneySnow]

I think you’re right. I’d be sus too.

[Reem12345reem]

he's lying

[Anonymous]

Break up with him