What am I supposed to do if I'm too short for the sexual market?

[wowop99266]

People love to say it's the personality that matters, and that short men don't have it as bad, but whenever short men heightfish women on dating apps, it is the worst thing for women. Not because he lied, but because he lied about being over 6 feet. And the competition between women for men above 6 feet, especially on dating apps is overwhelming.

Knowing this, short men are not even in the competition. The majority of women in the sexual market want short men as far as way from them as possible. I can't handle knowing that. I can't handle the idea that as a short man I'm supposed to avoid the dating apps because the outcomes will not be favorable, but I shouldn't have to avoid the dating apps. I should have an equal playing field, there should be an equal playing field when it comes to sexual attraction and height, but in reality, it just doesn't exist..

I don't want to stay in my lane, know my role and take specific precautions that a taller person doesn't have to concern himself with. I want to know what it's like to feel sexually desired over one physical characteristic, I want to know what it's like to be desired for the sole purpose of being over 6 feet...

I don't know what to do. I can't cope with being my height and I can't accept my role that corresponds to my height. It goes against my personal beliefs.

[TommyWiseau69]

Yeah man I hear you and know what you feel. It's tough for us short guys. Honestly though just like don't put too much thought into it and avoid women for some time and focus on yourself. Talk a walk and listen to music. Maybe play some video games. That aspect of life is gonna be hard no matter what for short men. Some have it easy though, good for them. At the end of the day we are with ourselves the most and stuff so like gotta put that focus on yourself a lot. I bring myself down a lot as well. Not so easy being in this society that's for sure. You can only do so much and it does get wasted. What makes it worse is that there is so much garbage and content surrounding the love toward short guys all over social media and online like JFC we get it.

I'd say before the mid 2000s it was a bit better cause apps and other crap weren't around, but it's really bad now. I've been on apps for 10 years now it has never worked in my favor. Do not use them they are horrible. Spend your time with family and friends dude. Going for women as a short guy these days is totally not worth it, love will come to us short guys one day but seeking it is not worth it one bit.

[TommyWiseau69]

**lol garbage and content surrounding tall guys. I wish there was more love surrounding short men in the media

[Lokiion]

I can’t relate I’m over 6ft but Ik some people who are 5’8 and they get a lot of women (and yes personality plays a big role gotta be charismatic and shit and know how to say things to them not really about what you say but how you say it) and if you know how to do that you have good skin hair know how to dress you not gonna have a problem with women you probably don’t know how to talk to then also online dating apps are the worst thing you can do. Moral of the little story talk with random people everyday not no petty 5-10 like 2-50 daily if possible not just women analyze what went wrong and what went right based of their body language and how they respond. Next get a skin care routine and find the hair cut that looks best on you. lastly find out what looks best on you and what colors go to together doesn’t even have to be expensive cloths. Oh I forgot to mention this earlier but make sure you smell good everywhere maybe change soap and body wash also if you have money research a good cologne to use Men's 1 Million Eau de Toilette Spray Smells very good. Guarantee you will see a difference within 2-3 months if you doing everything as I said right especially analyzing body language and talking in a way that sounds good remember no about what you say but how you say it also if you know you not funny don’t try to be super funny it just doesn’t work.

[Anonymous]

Men with petty insecurities like this height nonsense probably shouldn't date anyway. Therapy would be a better option.

[Glyn54]

cruel way to put it even if it's probably true

[TommyWiseau69]

So by that logic fat women that are insecure shouldn't date either, same with ugly people, people insecure about their faces, people insecure about their hair. I think it's safe to say that the vast majority of people are insecure about something. So with that in mind then more than 50% of people I should say should not date

[zagor]

How tall are you? Don't assume it is easy for tall people to get girls. Height (barring extremes) is an advantage for men but hardly the deciding factor in all things.

[wowop99266]

I'm very short...

[BoopBoopBeep]

Dude I'm only 5'9" since the explosion shaved an inch off me and I still get tons of female attention. Would I get more if I was 6'4"... sure... but I don't need to date ALL the women. There are plenty of them out there. You need to look in better places I guess.

[Unit1]

Book a trip to Thailand. Or relocate there. I heard the ladies there are fairly easy and are loving the men. Money helps but getting love based on money is not the real deal.

[TommyWiseau69]

Potential option. That's okay if he's willing to establish a new life in Thailand. Hard to let your family, job and anything else go when you go somewhere else. Although I would say that women in Asia are probably more likely to want to come to places like USA but it's a lengthy process for them to become citizens. It's usually places like USA that it's really bad.

[Unit1]

@TommyWiseau69 I hear ya. All fair points.
I mention this as I've got nothing except the job. I'd feel bad having to drop my employer.

Dating would be so much easier with girls actually being interested in us or going after us like they do in Thailand. For some of us our hands are "forced" to take such course of actions.

For me, I believe I'll love Thailand.

[slatyb]

I don't know how tall you are. I'm 5-8. My brother is 5-7. We've never had trouble getting dates.

[DextroShade]

Get your money up or get that leg lengthening surgery.

[KrakenAttackin]

The shorter you are the more money and personality you need to have.

[wowop99266]

At that point how do women become the prize?

[KrakenAttackin]

They aren't, but if you want to get their panties to drop you either need looks or cash. I'm not saying you need to keep them afterwards, just send them back to the streets.

[wowop99266]

Cash doesn't turn a woman on.

[KrakenAttackin]

@wowop99266. Cash is a tool. Once. you know how to use it, having ample pussy is not a problem.

[wowop99266]

So in other words you're getting cash just to earn a woman

[KrakenAttackin]

No. You get cash to provide security and luxury for yourself. A side benefit of cash is pussy. Women will swear up and down they don't care about money but it's a bold faced lie.

[Snakeyes7]

Then don't play the game.

Hopefully people will realize how stupid the rules are and play normally.

[Kaiser84]

There’s a whole “different” market. And you can choose the one you like most too!

[wowop99266]

Different how?

[inhua]

height surgery

[Anonymous]

Looks like you are selling yourself