Men are the prize in a relationship, not a women. Agree?

[Chthou95]

In general the things that make men attractive to women are rare and take a lot of work to obtain. Most women can and will get a man to notice them and dont have to do much to attract them. And since most men are invisible and only a select few men are wanted by women, how would those men not be the prize since they're rare?

[KingOfMe1]

No this is wrong. There is 1 prize and it is neither the man nor woman.
It's the relationship that is the prize.

You can go buy a Lambo right now and lock it in your garage with a cover over it never to be seen or used by you... The prize isn't to have a lambo but to get all the experiences that come with having a lambo. That's the prize. Money isn't the prize... It's what you can do with money. It's the experiences that come with money.

The relationship isn't a thing. A person is a thing. Relationship is something that must be lived out continuously. You can have a beautiful girl that treats you horrible... It's not the person, it's the relationship. What kind of relationship do you have? Do you treat each other well? Do you find beauty is each other? Do you do things together? Do you fight a lot? Do you fight? Do you argue? Do you wisely peacefully disagree? Do you have a relationship of romance? Affection? THESE ARE THE PRIZES, the very details of the relationship. The living out of the relationship. It isn't them vs us... It's us together and the relationship is the thing we are constantly trying to live out. If you want a man or woman go kidnap someone and lock them in your basement. I assure you, you won't get much enjoyment out of it.

Everyone is equal. We gotta stop making some people superior to others. Many of our problems in society is coming from that... Everyone have deep reservoirs of untapped talent, ability, and beauty. It is endless really. No one is better than another person. Some have just tapped into their amazingness more or less than others.

[Chthou95]

There's always something someone has or does thats superior to other people. We're not equal and there's always inferior people compared to others.

[TheSpaceGnome]

If two people love eachother, they are both the prize. Anything else is doomed to fail.

Rarity is unimportant in the context you present, because one person's prize is another's trash.

Not all women want the same kind of guy, and not all men want the same kind of girl.

[LazerBean]

Relationships rarely have a person in them who is a real prize. Ideally, though, both people are a prize to eachother.

[Chthou95]

How are women the prize if the things that make them attractive are pretty much something all women have?

[LazerBean]

Because that opinion is a shallow one to begin with and not all people agree with it.

[Chthou95]

How is that considered shallow?

[Billlewis]

I don't think that's the case at all. A beautiful woman is one of the most sought after things in the entire world.

[Christoff92]

Really don't know. Many men are acting like they build skyscrapers outta clay when walking with a women.

[Ipsos]

I agree, if a man didn't respond to a woman giving him eye contact, and smiling at him (which is signals for him to approach her) that means he's not so easy to or just not feeling her.

[SeaStorm1]

not everyone is prize.

[Girl242]

Everyone has infinite worthiness. It's sad you can't see that.

[SeaStorm1]

I don't want to be prize m since then is trophy wives

[Chthou95]

If most men are off your radar and a select few are, how are the men not the prize?

[azure81]

Partners that care about you are the prize.