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At first he was really pushing for an actual phone call & I don’t feel comfortable sharing my #, I hate finger pointing, looks like a call on IG instead was settled but I’m not really feeling it atm
Follow up question, would you still consider talking to this guy?
Anonymous
(30-35) 
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Here is the deal, for me as a man. If connect with someone online and after a day or two I want to exchange numbers. If she is not comfortable with that, then it's a RED FLAG to me.
I just assume she is not serious about dating and is either talking to other dudes, and not really interested in me... or she is not seriously ready to be dating. Honestly after a few days, or week of chat on an online dating platform and you don't want to share numbers... then online is not the place for you.
So, if you said this to a guy and he still wants to chat with you... then honestly me as man I would have ghosted... but this guy hasn't ghosted. Well damn, he must be desperate. I would not chat him any more personally. Honestly, guys like this I think are playing the long game and hoping it will pay off down the line with hopes of sex.
Yes, all these guys will say I am full of shit. But honestly your woman that is in no way in any hurry to want to really connect and get to know me. Because if you will not give me your number after few days, even make time for phone call then I am moving on. You can't really be interested in meeting and dating, this guy.
So, why would I just hang out and text you if not for the possibility of sex later? I mean what else are you really offering me now, when I could be chatting with someone that wants to take me seriously as a man?
Honestly every time I tried to chat a woman after she was "NOT" comfortable giving out her number, I never worked out. Even the dating experts say not to waste your time online with women like this.
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I'd insist on having his identification card ahead of time if I were to meet him.
If he doesn't care about how you feel you should move on.