How many of you think it's a good idea to just chat for weeks, just to get to know each other, before meeting IRL? (Page 2)

[Anonymous]

i've never had sex or become someone's girlfriend this way

[shortster]

A week is plenty of time to set up a date. So you should be willing to go out within a week or two.

[DaveJord]

Agreed 👍

[LiamJHayden]

I don't do online dating.

[DaveJord]

Keep it that way, but its better than not dating at all.

[LiamJHayden]

Yeah, if I lived in a rural area it would be different, but there are over 3 million people in my county so in person works fine here.

[DaveJord]

Yeah, I live in the mountains, 200 people in town, roughly 2,500 dispersed across the county. So yeah, I online is really my only option.

[Lokiion]

Two - three weeks anything more is a waste of time

[DaveJord]

I would say yes to this, as long as she willing set a date and stand by it. The issue for me personally, is after a week a cup of coffee or quick lunch is enough for meet and greet... inorder for me to decide if I want to continue with her. But after three weeks of chatting ever night... expectations start to develop, because now it's turned into a hug time investment.

[Anonymous]

i'd say more like a month. can't be too careful.

[Anemone978]

Yes or guys will just use you..