So there's this woman that I've liked for quite sometime. We texted, not everyday, but enough to where it was consistent. Then proceeds to tell me she's not mentally ready for a relationship. I accepted it, and said I'd support and help her no matter what. A few weeks after, her replies became inconsistent. One day I won't here from her at all. Then another day she'll reply immediately, like on Christmas, or a birthday. This is over the course of a year and a half. Just want some opinions on this cause I'm curious if it's something on my end that's made her uncomfortable, or if it's just her not wanting to talk to me as much as we used to.
Girls, Only answers texts on special occasions?
What Girls Said
So, I'll tell you the truth.. as sad as it may sound. In my opinion, you are wasting your time. From my experience no woman who is attracted to a man will talk for over an year and not saying at one point that she wants more from you, only if she's not interested in you and talks with you only when she feels lonely and you make her forget the problem. But, please, go and live your life because no one deserves to be treated like this. Find someone who puts you first and see you as a priority. Good luck.
I figured as much. She said she wanted a casual thing if I was open to it, but I'm not a casual dating type of guy. She went through a divorce which didn't help either.
Yeah, most likely she wants to heal as well, it’s a difficult situation
Just venting here. I try dating apps, I try approaching women in public, and in rare cases if I ended up falling for a friend, I'd ask them out, only to end up getting rejected every single time. And everytime I'm told I'm a great guy, good looking, and a great catch by many different people. It's confusing, and painful on my end, cause I want something meaningful, but it seems like whoever I'm interested in isn't, or is only interested in something short term/friends with benefits. I've almost ended myself at a point in my life. It was that bad. I've got stuff to preoccupy myself with, but I still want someone in my life.
I’m really sorry to hear that.. it’s really hard nowadays to build a relationship with someone.. I’m having a really difficult time as well. But I’m trying to see the bright side, all the failed relationships or attempts of a relationship teach me what to want and not want in a future relationship. So I give this process time, because it needs time, you will find the right one, when the time comes, trust me. Don’t force nature to give it to you, instead be more calm, not preoccupied with finding someone but instead with understanding yourself, your likes, your bad habits, fix them, overall work with yourself and be the best version you can be, and things will start to go the right way 😁 sorry for the long comment, I usually put more heart in my writing and it ends up being a novel 😅😅
You can't forge a relationship with texts, so don't bother.