When it comes to dating, how do I know which types of guys to give a chance since older men haven't worked out for me?

[SeaStorm1]

i'm just been thinking and so far dating older men hasn't work out. Some of them did rejected me. Like the last men that i just went on 1 date and canaled two second date. What type of men should I try? i would prefer men to be near my height or shorter. I'm still not sure guys that are very tall then me. My height I think is 5.1 or 5ft. My mum said 5.1 ft. What can i do that already tried dating older men that me and hasn't even work out very well and i have been rejected guys more than once. i also got rejected by a older men. what type guys should i give chances to any type of guys to suggest. Is there a dating app for looking for short men or avenge height men. When it comes to dating, how do I know which types of guys to give a chance since older men haven't worked out

[Peter_Penetrator]

What is it in particular that these older men have done or are doing that isn’t working for you?


Or even the younger guys that turned you off to the younger ones and sent you searching from us old farts.



Are they overbearing? Do they get angry easily? Are they controlling? Do they kiss your ass by telling you what they think you want to hear in order to get your validation and attention?


There are a multitude of ways you can test a man you are meeting for the first time and determine a number of personality traits you are looking for and any thing that may be a red flag such as: if he is going to be worth your psychological, physical and emotional efforts, will you be safe with him, determining his temperament and so on.


These test can be quick, easy and minor but will draw out his true colors. If he fails those tests, you can quickly send him down the road and move on to the next guy until you find the one that won’t set off a bunch of alarm bells. Google is a great resource to do your research.


You have all the options. You will be the one that will be approached by numerous men seeking your company. You must be able to cast off all but a select few and invest more of your time with and, then from there, cast those left aside until you are down to one or two that really do it for you.


How many men do you see in a bar or club that are constantly being approached by women seeking their attention and validation? You guessed it. None. These same men don’t have the same options available to them. It is up to us to show we are worthy of a short term or long term investment for women.


It is woven into the DNA of the female species to seek out the best mate.


For men, all we need are two tits, a hole and a heartbeat. That is all the qualifications we need to pick out our mate.


It is up to the woman, to find the few out there, that just happen to be that endangered species looking to mate for life.

[SeaStorm1]

Older even played with me or just rejected me without even getting know and feel like that are lying and sending mixed signals to men. Some older men go to fast , similar thing with some young men that cas ask meetup with me without even getting know each other. I wanted to go slow and get know the person first. Tall guys turn me off. yet I can't even find any short men that are interested. It only seems to be avenge height men or tall men that are only interested in long term or serious relationship. I got too scared and immdate by tall men. I worried to munch if guy too tall. I'm more on short side. Immature is both type guys but has seen more in older men then some young men.

[ohsheeT]

Well it sounds like by all the questions that you have asked in the past that you might already have an agenda for every guy that you date

I would suggest clear your head and I would suggest treating each guy as an individual and really get to know the person before you start a relationship with them
If you have already premeditated that they are who they're going to be before you even get to know them well that's what's going to happen for sure

[SeaStorm1]

this what i already been trying to and so hasn't success at all. always comes back right back at the start. by getting know person

[ohsheeT]

Yeah for sure you definitely have to get to know the person before you can make any kind of call on it and you also have to realize just because you see one moment the way that you see it doesn't mean that they're always like that

[SeaStorm1]

Yep so far I don't get that far when I do they even rejected me like the last me or I rejected them since looking for different things. I know but just getting fed up going nowhere but going back right back at Start. I also I don't want to be single. yet I'm still am single.

[ta-ra]

Maybe just wait for the right one to come along? Don't put so much pressure on being with someone. We meet people at the most random times. Just go with the flow. They say you always find love when you aren't looking for it.

Also you'll have better luck if you aren't narrowing down men into height or age categories. Try going for what you have in common, interests, hobbies, way of life... either way good luck to you.

[SeaStorm1]

yet i already tried this too and wafting doesn't even work. just fake. i hasn't work for me for just wating. nothing will also happen. i don't like tall men.

[SeaStorm1]

waiting does nothng

[ta-ra]

From my experience men usually like women who go with the flow more than one who appears to be trying to push a relationship quickly. I know waiting sucks but being impatient isn't helping either. You will end up with men who only want to use you for now not the long haul. A good long lasting relationship usually starts with a good foundation. Meaning you built up trust, respect, good communication etc..

You could try online dating but just beware. a lot use it for hookup culture.

[SeaStorm1]

i already has try waiting and look how far that go. no man ,

[SeaStorm1]

got me

[ta-ra]

How long have you been without a date

[SeaStorm1]

i only been on some date but always ended.

[ta-ra]

Maybe you should try online then, or see if a mutual friend can hook you up with a nice guy that fits your criteria.

[SeaStorm1]

yep i already had troed online tons times and still nothing and i don't have friends that know any men that are single.

[Staximus]

Just make sure the guy is a good guy and nevermind all the rest