People switch up?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend takes our 6 month son everywhere but doesn’t ask me to go. He leaves me out. I mentioned it to him one time before but nothing has changed it makes me feel awful. It’s like he doesn’t want me around. That’s the feeling I get. He’s taking him to a football game tonight, basically called and told me to have him ready but didn’t ask me I just hung up the phone

[Avicenna]

Sounds like your relationship has some serious underlying problems?

[Asker]

I’m ready to call it quits. It’s been happening for a minute now and I’m tired.

[Anonymous]

Are you sure he’s your “boyfriend”? Sounds like a guy who wants father and son time, which is a good thing. But does he do anything with you? Take you on dates and calls a babysitter? If not, he’s your baby-daddy but not your boyfriend.

[Asker]

He use to. Seems like since we had the baby he don’t do anything with me anymore he barley calls when he’s out. He’s just all about our son which is good but not so much me anymore.

[Opinion Owner]

I think he’s already checked out of the relationship. Hopefully breaking up doesn’t compel him to abandon his son. I’m sorry you’re going through this.

[Asker]

Thank u

[Anonymous]

He is controlling and selfish.

[Asker]

He came in here got the baby and as soon as he shut the door a tear came down. I tried so hard to hold it in