imagine if a lady is slim, feminine, submissive, kind lady who is educated, accomplished, owns businesses, has a high paying career, holds rental properties all across the US. Self made lady who is humble, hardworking, modest, drives a honda. would men be intimidated by her? she's not at all arrogant or judgmental. but rather very down to earth, kind hearted , caring lady.
Its not only men. Even Some women (many) would be fuming with rage seeing another successful woman like the one you describe. Remember how camilla cabello was treated horribly by her female band mates just because demi lovato told her your talent is shining the most among your group.
Some humans are sick and filled with spite. Normal men would love such a woman, admire her, or even want to date her. Some men (like Some jealous women) would be intimidated by any woman if she is too pretty, rich, smart... Etc. those petty people get intimidated by anyone or anything
Not at all. I'm not going to be intimidated by any woman. If that description was accurate, not just how she sees herself, she'd have a line of guys lining up on one knee.
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Men aren't intimidated by rich women, no. As a rule, men care almost nothing about the money a woman has or doesn't have, as long as she's not massively in debt and looking to make him responsible for it.
That's not to say a woman having a lot of money can't be a negative - it absolutely can, and frequently is. Men *generally* don't have a superiority complex when they become successful and get money, especially if they worked hard to earn it - most men view their main competition as THEMSELVES, and they don't compare themselves to others much (yes, there are a few obvious and often LOUD exceptions!). But women are more likely to see money as making them superior, and thus to lose respect for men if they don't out-earn her. In fact, women who out-earn their husbands divorce them at a rate of 92% in the US, usually within a couple of years of overtaking him - because they believe that their money makes them more valuable (to men, it doesn't). Many men avoid wealthy women for this reason.
The other reason men often avoid wealthy women is because he might not be able to keep up with her extravagant lifestyle - private jets and exclusive vacations and spending sprees in designer shops aren't within the means of your average middle-class guy.
By your own description, it sounds like you don't maintain that kind of lifestyle or expectations, even though you might be able to afford to. That's a big PLUS on your side. If you can maintain a good attitude about his leadership in the relationship (AFTER you've vetted his morals, values, and life-goals, and found them to be satisfactory, of course) and respect him, then there's no reason your money should be a problem for you.
Your man would want to know that, for example, if he sees some danger and tells you "go back inside and lock the door", that you aren't going to raise your voice and argue with him - he's not "ordering you around" to be a jerk, he's trying to keep you safe and wants to take you out of the danger equation, so he can manage the danger without having to worry about you too. I'm assuming you'd want your man to take a relatively traditional masculine role in your relationship, and if that's the case, you've got to take the traditional feminine role and follow his lead in the relationship - that's the only way it works. I don't get the impression that this is likely to be a problem for you the way it would be for some other women with sizable incomes, so your money really shouldn't be a big factor in finding a relationship.
As always, vetting potential partners for LONG-TERM compatibility (morals, values, and life goals) is even more important - you have more to lose and so it's even more important that you don't fall prey to a scammer or leech. They should not find out about your money until after you've vetted them, and since you don't flaunt it, that shouldn't be a problem.
Most young men these days are intimidated by everything unfortunately.
It's not that we are intimidated by them. It's just that we're not interested in them. Women seek rich guys because money is the modern version of food for cavemen. A rich dude is a provider that is able to hunt for the family survival. We, as men, aren't looking for chicks who hunt, we are the hunters.
Straight guys are looking for feminine women. They aren't looking for cheap copies of dudes with vaginas. And that is what "rich working girls" are. You don't get rich by work by being "feminine and submissive" but by acting like a dude and being a shark. All the business ladies I know aren't sweet, submissive or feminine. They are dry as fuck and condescendant. They are ball busting and don't have the feminine qualities I'm looking for in a woman. And that's just talking about behaviour. Now talking about an hypothetical family : Who's gonna raise my kids? Not her obviously since she's too busy making coffee for a boss instead of feeding my children. So no thanks.
Me think me know why men might be intimidated by a rich woman like that! It's not just about the money, me think it's more about the power and control she has. You see, when a woman has all that wealth and success, she can be like a queen who rules her own kingdom. And some men might feel like they're just a lowly peasant in her court, trying to impress her with their humble offerings.
But me no think it's all bad! Me think it can be a fucking hot turn-on for some men. They might see her as a challenge, a prize to be won, or even a goddess to be worshipped. And if they can prove themselves worthy, they might get to experience the ultimate pleasure of being her loyal subject, serving her every whim and desire. @Billlewis.
So, me think it's not just about the money, it's about the power dynamics and the thrill of the chase. Some men might be intimidated, but others might be fucking turned on by the challenge of winning over a rich, powerful woman. It's all about how they see themselves in the game of love and lust, and how they handle the high stakes of being with a woman who has it all.
So, me say to those men: if you think you can handle the heat, go for it! But if you're not ready to be her king, then maybe it's better to just admire her from afar and find a more humble queen to warm your bed. And remember, no matter how rich or powerful a woman is, she still needs a good fucking from a man who knows how to please her in every way!
There are men that are intimidated and those that are not intimidated.
Being a doctor, having rental properties across the country and businesses means she has a ton to worry about already.
Men are wired to be the provider. Taking away him being the provider would be taking away a big part of him.
So she plans to date down if the guy is a hardworking professional. That is very rare. She plans on having a guy who is in an ivy league school to impregnate her if she can not find the right guy to be with. So she wouldn't want him for more than his sperm turning her into a single parent. No amount of money can replace a dad. Any guy who can impregnate a woman can be a father but not all fathers become a dad.
Intimidated? No.
I wouldn't really consider her wife material but I'm sure she is pleasant to be around. When I was single I'm sure I'd have been up for a brief fling if we had some chemistry and liked each other. I don't think I would have ever considered her for anything long term.
You have a strange concept of what āintimidatedā means. No, men are not intimidated by rich women. Most men donāt find them attractive because of the person they become - their attitude and energy they omit after becoming successful. Also, as someone else pointed out already, itās next to impossible to have a high paying career and be feminine and submissive at the same time. Traits like dominance, aggressiveness, assertiveness, control are necessary to have a very high paying job. These are traits that are traditionally considered masculine, which is why men tend to not find them attractive in women.
I would not be intimidated by this woman at all. If she was this perfect any man would want her.
HOWEVER, this an absolute lie. There is no woman on earth who has these skills, money, and modesty that would give a regular guy a chance at all. Most women who are this successful are hard to get along with.
All of the stuff you mentioned are contrary to being 'feminine and submissive' because those traits are unlikely to work in such a 'high paying' career that involved 'rental properties across the US'. It's likely she would need more masculine traits to deal with all of that...
Not at all , I adore rich women and the power it brings them.. Probably have more respect if they actually made it themselves rather than inherited , but either is okey , as long as they are putting in an effort , to increase net worth value , anyone can spend , winners create..
I donāt think being rich intimidates men. But being a successful businessperson (male or female) takes dedication and a certain amount of cut-throat mentality and behaviour. Normally those attributes arenāt desirable to men, because men want to be like that themselves. Opposites attract, hence men who are driven to succeed and make good money often attract and prefer women who are more feminine, nurturing, etc.
No. The issue some men have is maintaining such a woman. Think about it this way, the woman can gift him a Ferrari, best he can manage is a 100 bucks meal. Doesn't do well for his ego, does it?
Men are more about ego, woman are more about the aesthetic.
This sounds like the unicorn men 90% of women expect to find. Iām not intimidated by wealthy women. Women only want to marry up, so theyāre unlikely to be interested in me.
if it is an old money woman, I expect her to be high maintenance and have no interest in her.
Nope. A majority of men arenāt intimidated by women at all. Women just tell themselves that to justify why sheās single. Oh Iām too much for him, he canāt handle me, heās intimidated by me. The truth is we donāt want to handle women, sheās a grown up she should handle herself. What you just describe is usually never the case. Women like that are more masculine, something men donāt usually want in a girl. Her money, her education, her houses, none of that makes her more appealing to men.
Men aren't intimidated by rich women so much as they know that women usually don't want to date dudes who don't have more money than them. Also, if a woman earned her own wealth she probably has traits such as being disagreeable, aggressive, and competitive that aren't good for a long-term relationship or marriage. She will also likely be working a lot and not have time for her man who is also working.
not intimidated, just put off. many men preffer being dominant, and her having all that screams she will be in that dominant role instead. there is also both the overly masculininty of her being in that provider/dominant role and the "high maintenance" vibe her wealth gives.
She sounds like sweat and kind woman I would like to take home with me. I don't care about how rich she is, but it helps if a woman can pay some of her way. Still, woman like this are not submissive and will probably be very disagreeable unless your very dominant. In general, their usually too difficult to live with.
I would probably have to meet and get to know her first. If I knew she was rich beforehand I would probably subconsciously write off anything serious. Itās nothing personal itās just psychology and statistics.
I wouldn't be intimidated at all. However someone with those accomplishments probably wouldn't be quite as humble as described. That's OK though. We are all individuals.
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