imagine if a lady is slim, feminine, submissive, kind lady who is educated, accomplished, owns businesses, has a high paying career, holds rental properties all across the US. Self made lady who is humble, hardworking, modest, drives a honda. would men be intimidated by her? she's not at all arrogant or judgmental. but rather very down to earth, kind hearted , caring lady.
Its not only men. Even Some women (many) would be fuming with rage seeing another successful woman like the one you describe. Remember how camilla cabello was treated horribly by her female band mates just because demi lovato told her your talent is shining the most among your group.
Some humans are sick and filled with spite. Normal men would love such a woman, admire her, or even want to date her. Some men (like Some jealous women) would be intimidated by any woman if she is too pretty, rich, smart... Etc. those petty people get intimidated by anyone or anything
@Meropatrick Age : 22. We're gonna talk the topic back in a few years when you will have actually met successful business girls lol
So true. So many men can never admit they feel threatened by such a woman
Because we don't. You are confusing a lack of interest and fear. People feared witches back in time and they burned them. Do you feel like someone want to burn the business woman who lives with her cat? No, men don't care, they just don't date them.
@Reichmann75 Well said.
@Reichmann75
I know this lady personally and she's one of the sweetest people you ever meet.
It's absolutely unrelated to what I just posted.
@Reichmann75
I don't know how you could insist you know everything about someone that you've never met
That's exactly what I'm telling you : i don't want to meet her because I don't care. She chose a path that i view as bad for a woman. End of the story. I'm not intimidated, I just don't care š
He didn't say he knows anything about her. He said we're not intimidated by her. Are you confusing him with someone else? I said if that description is accurate she'd have plenty of suitors. Hell, I'm single right now, I'd go out with her. He said that the narrative that men are "afraid" of successful women is garbage, and it is. We're not afraid of them, we just don't care about your career. @Reichmann75 hasn't said anything disparaging about whoever your friend is.
... and to be clear I am interested because of this part:
"lady is slim, feminine, submissive... lady who is humble, hardworking, modest, drives a honda."
The middle stuff I cut out? It's because that part doesn't matter.
@BoopBoopBeep
yes he has said disparaging things, made ignorant assumptions about the lady being talked about. I don't need to prove it to you. You can just read what he wrote.
[We're not afraid of them, we just don't care about your career.]
most men are embarrassed to admit he is threatened by successful women.
@BoopBoopBeep
[The middle stuff I cut out? It's because that part doesn't matter.]
why can't I give an accurate description of the lady? does it offend you that this lady is so nice?
you clearly have some unresolved issues or problems.
Ah, I see English is not your native language. Okay... here we go.
You can give an accurate description.
I'm sure all you wrote is accurate.
The part I cut and pasted is why I would be willing to date her.
I don't care if she has a career or is a bagger at walmart. The wonderful things you said about her THAT I COPIED are why I find her interesting.
Is that more helpful?
Dude, just to cut the bullshit, everybody knows there is no friend and you're talking about yourself at this point regarding how you react to any "negative " answer. Stop thinking people here are morons please. If you think yourself, well excuse me, your friend, is so cool, why don't you marry her? You ask guys answer. Guys give you answer. Keep coping and persuading yourself but you're in pain and anybody can see it lol
@BoopBoopBeep
[I don't care if she has a career or is a bagger at walmart. The wonderful things you said about her THAT I COPIED are why I find her interesting.]
dumb men prefer dumb women.
smart men prefer smart women.
you didn't know that?
@BoopBoopBeep
you would also have to be the biggest dumbass in the world if you can't see the benefits of being married to a rich woman.
[dumb men prefer dumb women.
smart men prefer smart women.]
THEN WHY DO YOU ASK? GO FIND SMART MEN š¤£š¤£š¤£ jesus what the fuck is this topic?
@Reichmann75
I exist here to antagonize you all. And it seems like you're already defeated.
@Reichmann75
[THEN WHY DO YOU ASK? GO FIND SMART MEN jesus what the fuck is this topic?]
why can't you admit you're just dumb?
I'm a member of mensa and have plenty of money, I don't need hers. I need a good woman. It doesn't matter to me what she does. Weren't you the one who wrote about how humble your friend is? It appears you do not share her good traits.
@BoopBoopBeep
you're a part of mensa? I can also say that I'm the president of the united states... it doesn't mean I actually am.
[Weren't you the one who wrote about how humble your friend is? It appears you do not share her good traits.]
why would i have to share her good traits? we are two separate people. like i said... you have mental issues.
Do you realize you manage to disqualify all the fake qualities you said on your first message, all that in less than 30 seconds and behind a screen? You just show that you're entitled, self sufficient and arrogant and none of us actually met you yet. Spoiler alert : i announced those bad traits in my first post without even knowing we were talking about yourself. You can cope as hard as you want thinking we're all small dicks that are scared about you or whatever it's fine. But the harsh reality is that you're alone, that you suffer, and that it's all on you and your entitlement š¤
You've given me no cause to care about your friend's career, and sadly your repetition grows boring child
@Reichmann75
nothing said on here was a fake. only you're a fake.
Well you already said that you (sorry, your friend) were sweet, feminine and blablabla. You already lied multiple times yet so the "I'm the US president" is an unnecessary card at this point.
@BoopBoopBeep
you sound like you need some mental meds...
@Reichmann75
ohh... so you were hoping that I was the "friend" being discussed here? why? is it cuz you're hoping that I be as nice as her? hell no.
condescending woman haters like you don't deserve kindness.
Everyone needs mental needs except yourself who's alone at 50, still clueless of why and disrespect people who give you straight answers š¤£ the whole earth is mad. They are the problem not you. Let's go queen!
@Reichmann75
I think you're the only one who would be alone at 50 with 500 cats. A man with such a hateful, jaded, bitter , condescending attitude towards women will never be able to find a woman.
Why is that?
I am not hateful. I just responded to your question. The problem is your question was rhetorical. You already made up your mind, the good answer is "men are pussies, they are scared of you". You didn't make this topic because you wanted answers, you made this topic to get conforted in your life choices and lack of partnership. You wanted to be cuddled. It was ambiguous, sorry I responded like the question was genuine, you're the best, we're wimps. LET'S GO QUEEN! š
@Reichmann75
yes you are hateful. You're insisting you know everything about someone you've never met. then you're throwing a tantrum when you find out that this lady is genuinely sweet.
Anyone can tell that all of this is just your own projection of your own bitterness and anger in your life.
@BoopBoopBeep
why would anyone be so offended by just an accurate description of someone?
of course there must be underlying issues on your end.
The lady just proved me she's anything but sweet or feminine. She rather proved me she's entitled and dellusional. She's unable to handle a truth and therefore I have no issue imagining she's single.
I wasn't offended silly child that's not what the word means. You had falafel for lunch. I don't care. It's not that I am offended by it. It just does not matter to me one way or the other.
@Reichmann75
and you proved to me that nothing you ever said on here was valid but only a projection of your own hatred of your own life.
@BoopBoopBeep
awww... you're just mad that she's sweet and nice. you certainly hate that very much, ain't it so?
Do your parents know you're online?
Not at all. I'm not going to be intimidated by any woman. If that description was accurate, not just how she sees herself, she'd have a line of guys lining up on one knee.
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Men aren't intimidated by rich women, no. As a rule, men care almost nothing about the money a woman has or doesn't have, as long as she's not massively in debt and looking to make him responsible for it.
That's not to say a woman having a lot of money can't be a negative - it absolutely can, and frequently is. Men *generally* don't have a superiority complex when they become successful and get money, especially if they worked hard to earn it - most men view their main competition as THEMSELVES, and they don't compare themselves to others much (yes, there are a few obvious and often LOUD exceptions!). But women are more likely to see money as making them superior, and thus to lose respect for men if they don't out-earn her. In fact, women who out-earn their husbands divorce them at a rate of 92% in the US, usually within a couple of years of overtaking him - because they believe that their money makes them more valuable (to men, it doesn't). Many men avoid wealthy women for this reason.
The other reason men often avoid wealthy women is because he might not be able to keep up with her extravagant lifestyle - private jets and exclusive vacations and spending sprees in designer shops aren't within the means of your average middle-class guy.
By your own description, it sounds like you don't maintain that kind of lifestyle or expectations, even though you might be able to afford to. That's a big PLUS on your side. If you can maintain a good attitude about his leadership in the relationship (AFTER you've vetted his morals, values, and life-goals, and found them to be satisfactory, of course) and respect him, then there's no reason your money should be a problem for you.
Your man would want to know that, for example, if he sees some danger and tells you "go back inside and lock the door", that you aren't going to raise your voice and argue with him - he's not "ordering you around" to be a jerk, he's trying to keep you safe and wants to take you out of the danger equation, so he can manage the danger without having to worry about you too. I'm assuming you'd want your man to take a relatively traditional masculine role in your relationship, and if that's the case, you've got to take the traditional feminine role and follow his lead in the relationship - that's the only way it works. I don't get the impression that this is likely to be a problem for you the way it would be for some other women with sizable incomes, so your money really shouldn't be a big factor in finding a relationship.
As always, vetting potential partners for LONG-TERM compatibility (morals, values, and life goals) is even more important - you have more to lose and so it's even more important that you don't fall prey to a scammer or leech. They should not find out about your money until after you've vetted them, and since you don't flaunt it, that shouldn't be a problem.
[Men *generally* don't have a superiority complex when they become successful and get money, especially if they worked hard to earn it - most men view their main competition as THEMSELVES, and they]
Haha do you really expect people to believe that? Most men define their ego based on how much money they make
I stopped reading the rest of your answer after you said this. Seems like you do nothing butnjust lie whenever you want
"Most men define their ego based on how much money they make"
Maybe people who grew up very poor think that way, but that's not really true of most guys who are successful in business. The money itself isn't actually that important to them - not saying it doesn't matter at all, but it's usually either about winning over a direct rival (and money is how you keep score) or about how well they did vs. their own thoughts. For example, if a successful guy learns about a company that's made a breakthrough and is likely to do very well in the near future, he might consider buying stock in that company, rather than keeping his money in his current investments. If he decides against investing in the company and that company does well, then he knows he screwed up and cheated himself by not taking the risk. On the other hand, if the company crashes and burns, then he sees that as a score. Lots of successful men spend far more time thinking about their own strategies and their own choices than they do about what's going on at the Joneses.
I know this because I have a lot of wealthy customers and I overhear a lot of conversations. While they tend to have very nice houses, most of them aren't crazy or gaudy, and most of them aren't driving Ferraris or Rolls Royces - more SUVs and Teslas. They are competitive people, sure, and money is how the score is kept, but their competition is mostly themselves, and how much they can learn about an opportunity and how well they judge the risks. If they do better than others, that's just a bonus for most of them.
@MrOracle - your wiping the table job doesn't give you a lot of knowledge, does it?
There's two types of men in the world about successful women. There's inferior men like you who say that they don't care, etc because you feel inferior and you don't like that feeling. You highly prefer to have a woman who is uneducated, jobless and dependant upon you.
And then there's successful and/or wealthy men who RESPECT a woman that has done well with herself. They do this because they don't want a useless leech attached to their wallet. Women who are successful usually earn more respect among men then inferior men who whine can hope for.
@BlackBeauty90 Well, you can believe what you like. Thanks for the laugh anyway. LOL.
@MrOracle
Its true. Smart men tend to like smart women.
Take a look at all our first ladies:
Michelle obama = lawyer
hilary clinton= lawyer
laura bush= published author
jill biden= Phd in teaching
Smart men tend to marry smart women.
Dumb men tend to marry dumb women.
@MrOracle
these rich presidents / politicians could've easily married their maids. Rich men have tons of maids at home. But instead, none of our first ladies are dumbasses.
I'm laughing at the idea that Bush, Clinton, Obama, or Biden were smart. Educated isn't the same thing as being smart. And none of those guys ever had a real job in their lives - they were political animals from the start, and made decisions based on politics. The idea that they are representative of successful businessmen is laughable. Politicians rarely have any business experience, with Trump being a recent exception.
And where did I say that successful businessmen were looking for dumb women? Or maids? That's something you came up with - I never made any such suggestion.
What they DO care about is that the woman they marry is prepared to prioritize FAMILY, and being a mother. Note that all 4 women in your example had children. Presidents don't need wives to mop floors - they have maids to do that - but they don't want strangers raising their kids.
@MrOracle
I'm pretty sure you would need adequate brains to do well in school if you want to become a lawyer, or get Phd in anything, or to become published author.
don't try to degrade womens accomplishments just so you can feel better about yourself.
[Presidents don't need wives to mop floors - they have maids to do that - but they don't want strangers raising their kids.]
Rich men hire nannies to take care of their kids. The wives of rich men don't tend to work jobs. Only poor men who can't afford to hire nannies make their wives care for their kids.
"Rich men hire nannies to take care of their kids. The wives of rich men don't tend to work jobs. Only poor men who can't afford to hire nannies make their wives care for their kids."
Not much in the US, especially the West Coast. Many of the richest men in the world live here, but nannies are relatively rare. Most wealthy men marry wives who WANT to take care of their own kids. And it's not like a woman can't take care of her kids AND pursue some other interest at the same time, or that taking care of her kids is a lifelong job. The critical time is from birth until they're in school full-time (i. e., first grade). With a single kid, that's 6 years at most, and maybe 10-12 years if you have 4 kids with a bit of separation between them. Why couldn't you do that and write a book?
Who says I'm degrading anyone's accomplishments? You keep projecting things onto me that I never said or even suggested, not to mention moving the goalposts like crazy. But, you go ahead and think what you like. Makes little difference to me. I'll be over here wiping down these tables... Hahaha.
@MrOracle
I live a few blocks away from wall street- some of the richest people in the world. I also have worked in the Hamptons where the richest people buy their vacation homes.
Rich men hire nannies, maids, gardeners into their households all the time. They're always hiring people. Because rich men who love their wives don't want them to work so hard in life. The only reason why a rich man would want to overwork his wife while he clearly has the means to afford a nanny is because he doesn't care about her. He just want to keep up on his misogynistic tendencies.
I live in NYC and I see black nannies babysitting white babies all the time.
And plus... I know of few to no rich men who are married to maids or McDonalds workers or bathroom cleaners. Vast majority of these women they marry are from rich families or are super educated or are career women.
@MrOracle ROFL ROFL ROFL ROFL ROFL ROLF. Are you FOR REAL. There was just a MAJOR bust a few years ago of rich families keeping nannies like servants on the west coast. Immigrant Filipino and Indian girls that could barely speak English and slaved out as cheap labour. It was filthy & disgusting like MANY things about the west coast.
You west coast people pretend to be superior to the rest of the Americans when you are far from being better, very very far from being better. You just don't like to swallow that pill called reality hence why drug abuse is as common as wiping your ass elsewhere in the USA.
Most young men these days are intimidated by everything unfortunately.
It's not that we are intimidated by them. It's just that we're not interested in them. Women seek rich guys because money is the modern version of food for cavemen. A rich dude is a provider that is able to hunt for the family survival. We, as men, aren't looking for chicks who hunt, we are the hunters.
Straight guys are looking for feminine women. They aren't looking for cheap copies of dudes with vaginas. And that is what "rich working girls" are. You don't get rich by work by being "feminine and submissive" but by acting like a dude and being a shark. All the business ladies I know aren't sweet, submissive or feminine. They are dry as fuck and condescendant. They are ball busting and don't have the feminine qualities I'm looking for in a woman. And that's just talking about behaviour. Now talking about an hypothetical family : Who's gonna raise my kids? Not her obviously since she's too busy making coffee for a boss instead of feeding my children. So no thanks.
Oh and by the way women are hypergamists by nature. A woman that hunts more animals than you cannot respect you. A woman needs to feel protected by her dude. A chick making 50k doesn't feel protected by the dude making 20. Women date up, they don't date down. So the question is irrelevant by itself since the only dudes who would interest the chick you're talking about are richer than her. So we're talking about a really small percentage of males here.
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@BlackBeauty90 Yeah 50 lines of text is trolling. Just answering "troll" isn't get out of here. You have no opinion to give.
i know the lady personally and she's one of the nicest, gentlest people ever. You're all wrong about her.
[Who's gonna raise my kids? Not her obviously since she's too busy making coffee for a boss instead of feeding my children. So no thanks.]
most working moms don't raise their kids either. Vast majority of men can't even afford housewives.
@Reichmann75 you're one of these loser incels that pollute GAG. Annoying little trolls that contribute nothing to the forum just as you don't in real life. Harassing others and shoving your toxicity down others throats. Hence - troll. And what's 50 lines of bullshit proving except you're a troll.
Being friend with someone and being in a relationship with someone are 2 different things. Maybe it's a great friend but she would be a terrible mate from a male perspective I'm telling you. I am not looking for a woman that works at all. I have enough money for my household I don't need my wife to work for a lame boss I want her to raise my kids.
@BlackBeauty90 I am not an incel. I did respond to the question while you didn't. And you are the one who chase my posts to come and say crap. So who's polluting and who's harassing. Bye low value
@reichmann75
[ I am not looking for a woman that works at all. I have enough money for my household I don't need my wife to work for a lame boss I want her to raise my kids.]
I'm pretty sure you don't have any money. Nor do you have anything good happening in your life. that's why you're spewing your hate and bitterness on GAG.
I'm not here to lie. If you wanna cope and persuade yourself that we do, why do you ask us questions in the first place? Is this retarded night or something?
@Reichmann75 - your inability to contribute much proves you don't make much money. You have law as your career. Is that jail bait?
@reichmann75
I can tell you're a jaded, angry , bitter man. Nothing on here you say is true other than just a projection of your bitterness and anger in your own life.
@BlackBeauty90
he probably is just a struggling law clerk or a receptionist at a law office. there's no chance this guy is a successful lawyer. No successful man would ever be so jaded and bitter with his life.
What do you want me to say? You wanna cope and refuse the world as it is. Fine by me. It's already late at my place so I'm gonna go off now. Have fun chatting about the boys you don't get ladies! š
Me think me know why men might be intimidated by a rich woman like that! It's not just about the money, me think it's more about the power and control she has. You see, when a woman has all that wealth and success, she can be like a queen who rules her own kingdom. And some men might feel like they're just a lowly peasant in her court, trying to impress her with their humble offerings.
But me no think it's all bad! Me think it can be a fucking hot turn-on for some men. They might see her as a challenge, a prize to be won, or even a goddess to be worshipped. And if they can prove themselves worthy, they might get to experience the ultimate pleasure of being her loyal subject, serving her every whim and desire. @Billlewis.
So, me think it's not just about the money, it's about the power dynamics and the thrill of the chase. Some men might be intimidated, but others might be fucking turned on by the challenge of winning over a rich, powerful woman. It's all about how they see themselves in the game of love and lust, and how they handle the high stakes of being with a woman who has it all.
So, me say to those men: if you think you can handle the heat, go for it! But if you're not ready to be her king, then maybe it's better to just admire her from afar and find a more humble queen to warm your bed. And remember, no matter how rich or powerful a woman is, she still needs a good fucking from a man who knows how to please her in every way!
There are men that are intimidated and those that are not intimidated.
Being a doctor, having rental properties across the country and businesses means she has a ton to worry about already.
Men are wired to be the provider. Taking away him being the provider would be taking away a big part of him.
So she plans to date down if the guy is a hardworking professional. That is very rare. She plans on having a guy who is in an ivy league school to impregnate her if she can not find the right guy to be with. So she wouldn't want him for more than his sperm turning her into a single parent. No amount of money can replace a dad. Any guy who can impregnate a woman can be a father but not all fathers become a dad.
[ So she wouldn't want him for more than his sperm turning her into a single parent. No amount of money can replace a dad. Any guy who can impregnate a woman can be a father but not all fathers become a dad.]
father's day is laughable because reality is... dads abandon their kids all the time for single moms to raise. you can't make the assertion that dads are important while so many men abandon their kids.
[Men are wired to be the provider. Taking away him being the provider would be taking away a big part of him.]
there's more to marriage than just about money and supporting someone. Marriage should be about love , being around someone who can give you the best time of your life, appreciating the person you are with rather than some stupid bull crap about money.
[Being a doctor, having rental properties across the country and businesses means she has a ton to worry about already.]
who doesn't have a lot to worry about? if you're a breadwinner, you have to worry about prices of groceries , property tax, mortgage payments, soaring energy costs, your child's college tuition, not enough retirement savings, gas prices...
its so common to find a single mother. Its so common to find a grown adult who said that "dad left us when we were young or i never knew my father".
compare the number of single moms versus single dads. the numbers aren't even close.
now you're saying dads are the most important thing ever. if dads were so important, so why do men walk away from their kids?
Intimidated? No.
I wouldn't really consider her wife material but I'm sure she is pleasant to be around. When I was single I'm sure I'd have been up for a brief fling if we had some chemistry and liked each other. I don't think I would have ever considered her for anything long term.
Because she threatens your ego, thats why you wouldn't consider this very nice woman as wife material. she's a doctor, saves lives for a living
@miristheiss
She has 2 days off every week. She has managers who help her manage business. Just because someone owns several businesses doesn't mean that they never have any time off to themselves.
You did not address travel?
Traveling around the country/world for these properties/businesses.
Is she home everyday at 5 or off flying off on some trip regularly?
@miristheiss
her stores are all within a 50 mile radius of her own home. she doesn't visit her properties in other states all the time. she only goes there to vacation on the weekends.
@miristheiss
broke men are home by 5 pm because they dont have the money to travel anywhere.
LOL
Well, you have proven the description you gave in the thread title does not describe you.
"Humble, modest, non judgmental, kind-hearted"
You have been pretty arrogant, argumentative, condescending, snarking inyour replies to lots of the people here.
All of that stuff you typed was made up bullshit.
She is an asshole so there is no virtue there to attract anyone.
A rude, arrogant, argumentative, prideful asshole.
@miristheiss
Other people would only be mean and rude to you if you were mean and rude to them. Nothing you said about this lady was nice except random incorrect negative assumptions and failed attempts at trashing her
You have a strange concept of what āintimidatedā means. No, men are not intimidated by rich women. Most men donāt find them attractive because of the person they become - their attitude and energy they omit after becoming successful. Also, as someone else pointed out already, itās next to impossible to have a high paying career and be feminine and submissive at the same time. Traits like dominance, aggressiveness, assertiveness, control are necessary to have a very high paying job. These are traits that are traditionally considered masculine, which is why men tend to not find them attractive in women.
No woman is ever 100% feminine. We are all a mix of femininr and masculine
I would not be intimidated by this woman at all. If she was this perfect any man would want her.
HOWEVER, this an absolute lie. There is no woman on earth who has these skills, money, and modesty that would give a regular guy a chance at all. Most women who are this successful are hard to get along with.
well i know her personally and she is definitely the nicest person I ever met.
Well why is she not with someone now? What is her type. I'm single LOL
All of the stuff you mentioned are contrary to being 'feminine and submissive' because those traits are unlikely to work in such a 'high paying' career that involved 'rental properties across the US'. It's likely she would need more masculine traits to deal with all of that...
Thus it comes down to attraction rather than intimidation..
she's can be demanding and has high standards when it comes to career but her true essence is feminine in her personal life.
the question being asked: would you be intimidated by her?
Whatever masculine traits that she develops in order to deal with that high paying career, will not just 'switch' off because she's not at work. They creep in gradually, probably without her even realizing.
No. But the things I mentioned would mean I wouldn't be attracted to her...
@truthatanycost
she doesn't enjoy being masculine but she has to if she wants to live the life she wants. she's the happiest in her feminine state.
plus... no woman is ever 100% feminine. We are all a blend of masculine and feminine.
Not all high paying careers require a masculine personality.
Not at all , I adore rich women and the power it brings them.. Probably have more respect if they actually made it themselves rather than inherited , but either is okey , as long as they are putting in an effort , to increase net worth value , anyone can spend , winners create..
I donāt think being rich intimidates men. But being a successful businessperson (male or female) takes dedication and a certain amount of cut-throat mentality and behaviour. Normally those attributes arenāt desirable to men, because men want to be like that themselves. Opposites attract, hence men who are driven to succeed and make good money often attract and prefer women who are more feminine, nurturing, etc.
I think that a lot of men define their ego based on how much money they make. It means a lot to them. so often times when they encounter a woman who makes more, it threatens their ego.
[ Opposites attract, hence men who are driven to succeed and make good money often attract and prefer women who are more feminine, nurturing, etc.]
even though opposites might attract. Men who are ambitious, driven and work a lot often times are not surrounded by women who are feminine and nurturing. He will more likely be always surrounded by career women.
No. The issue some men have is maintaining such a woman. Think about it this way, the woman can gift him a Ferrari, best he can manage is a 100 bucks meal. Doesn't do well for his ego, does it?
Men are more about ego, woman are more about the aesthetic.
This sounds like the unicorn men 90% of women expect to find. Iām not intimidated by wealthy women. Women only want to marry up, so theyāre unlikely to be interested in me.
if it is an old money woman, I expect her to be high maintenance and have no interest in her.
Nope. A majority of men arenāt intimidated by women at all. Women just tell themselves that to justify why sheās single. Oh Iām too much for him, he canāt handle me, heās intimidated by me. The truth is we donāt want to handle women, sheās a grown up she should handle herself. What you just describe is usually never the case. Women like that are more masculine, something men donāt usually want in a girl. Her money, her education, her houses, none of that makes her more appealing to men.
she's not masculine at all even if you are too jaded and bitter to believe it. she's a doctor.
[Her money, her education, her houses, none of that makes her more appealing to men.]
cuz a lotta guys are threatened by successful women.
See itās funny how women ask what do men think just as you did and men answer your question. To which we almost always give the same answers. But your female brain is in so much denial that this canāt possibly be the truth. Women think that we as men are supposed to think as you do and if we donāt weāre toxic. That we donāt have our own thoughts. Why even ask this question if youāre only going to accept your truth as not the truth of what men are telling you?
@opinion owner
because there is no truth at all to anything you say... especially when its coming from a bitter, jaded male. I know this lady personally very well. Nothing you say about her is true.
Lol omg here we go w I know this lady. Ok so maybe you do, that is the exception to the rule. Why is your truth right and mine is wrong? Someone else just pointed out masculine women. Someone else also said no why would we be? You asked, I answered. Now you donāt like my answer. What does that have to do w me being jaded or bitter? Keep believing what you want. This is what will cause you to be single for a long time. Even if you arenāt right now, you will be w that mentality.
@opinion owner
cuz i know for a fact she's not masculine. how do you insist you know everything about her when you haven't met her?
Thatās why I said ok maybe sheās the exception but a majority of women who are like that arenāt. That one exception isnāt the rule.
@opinion owner
the topic was always about her, never about other women. why are you so obsessed with other women? maybe its cuz you're just bitter and jaded
Lol there you go again. Have a nice day I donāt have time to entertain kids who arenāt open to an actual discussion. Tell your boyfriend heās better off w someone else
we never had a discussion. you're just a bitter angry little boy who is stomping is feet cuz his guessing game failed.
You must be single
@opinion owner
I'm currently seeing someone
I doubt it
@opinion owner
there you go again... your bitter assumptions.
Lol lol
Men aren't intimidated by rich women so much as they know that women usually don't want to date dudes who don't have more money than them. Also, if a woman earned her own wealth she probably has traits such as being disagreeable, aggressive, and competitive that aren't good for a long-term relationship or marriage. She will also likely be working a lot and not have time for her man who is also working.
I know her personally, i know for a fact she's the opposite of what you all said about her. But she does work a lot
not intimidated, just put off. many men preffer being dominant, and her having all that screams she will be in that dominant role instead. there is also both the overly masculininty of her being in that provider/dominant role and the "high maintenance" vibe her wealth gives.
She sounds like sweat and kind woman I would like to take home with me. I don't care about how rich she is, but it helps if a woman can pay some of her way. Still, woman like this are not submissive and will probably be very disagreeable unless your very dominant. In general, their usually too difficult to live with.
What you need to understand is that no woman is 100% submissive. We are all a combination of masculine and feminine.
That's Common Sense
I would probably have to meet and get to know her first. If I knew she was rich beforehand I would probably subconsciously write off anything serious. Itās nothing personal itās just psychology and statistics.
so you would write off all rich women as undatable?
I wouldnāt say write off exactly, but the worry that sheād find someone whoās more on her level or richer would always be present in my mind. Maybe thatās being intimidated, maybe itās insecurity, but regardless it would be there.
would you develop an inferiority complex if she was dating you?
Probably at some point. I canāt really relate to that lifestyle.
sounds like it has more to do with your ego feeling threatened.
You asked a question. I answered it. You donāt have to attack me for it.
Not attacking you... but just telling you what you're afraid to consciously admit.
I literally admitted it in my second response.
I wouldn't be intimidated at all. However someone with those accomplishments probably wouldn't be quite as humble as described. That's OK though. We are all individuals.
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Usually people who claim to be humble are not, which outs into question everything else they say... but men certainly can be intimidated.
Fortunately I'm not, so more for me!
you're the only guy who actually answered the question being asked.
but yea... she is humble even if you're too bitter / jaded to believe it.
m Why would we? It's not like her vagina is lined with raw diamonds now, is it?
maybe if you were married to her, you wouldn't have to work a job for the rest of your life, eat the finest food for free, retire early.
None of these are reasons to feel intimidated.
I wouldn't be intimidated by her. If I start to talk to her amd we hit it off, I have no problem with a woman making g more money then me. I have work very hard In my past and proud of things I do. Good for her. Would love to find someone like that.
I would not intimidated by a woman like that at all. I'd probably get along with someone like her extremely well.
No, but she shouldn't expect the average man to be able to indulge her in a luxurious lifestyle. If she just wants a loyal, hardworking guy she should be able to find one.
I think it's fair to say that this very much depends if the man in question has insecurities.
Depends on the difference of their bank balance
Just think on an aniversary she gifted you dimond ring and you just managed to buy flowers
People can say love don't care about matrial but your mind start calculating, it's human nature
I'm intimidated by all women, regardless of their socioeconomic status.
People in general are, but god forbid admit to it.
I think she should drive her Honda and meet guys without showing off. Then when more serious, let some slip out week by week. Smart.
I'm not intimidated by rich women but rich women rarely ever want anything to do with guys who are not rich, don't have a prestigious career, or aren't somebody everybody thinks is cool.
No because being a wife is a skill you have not learned yet itās not something you just wake up and do
just cuz a woman is rich, it doesn't mean she can't be a good wife.
A good wife is something youāve never been taught to do youāre not a wife.
just because you're a wife, it doesn't mean you are good wife.
Who raised you to be a wife?
my parents.
How so?
just the same way your parents raised you.
No because Iām a male I canāt be someoneās wife
How did they raise YOU to be a wife?
wives are not raised to be wives. you're a wife if anyone decides to marry you.
but everyone is raised by someone. You wouldn't exist if nobody decided to raise you.
Oh I get it now you didnāt know that you need to be taught how to be a wife by a wife because you need the relationship skills for the relationship
And second are you saying orphans donāt exist?
[Oh I get it now you didnāt know that you need to be taught how to be a wife by a wife because you need the relationship skills for the relationship]
sweetie, you don't need to be taught to be a wife by anyone in order to "become a wife". There are plenty of women out there who are wives that SUCK at being wives. Just like there are plenty of husbands out there who SUCK at being husbands. There are plenty of husbands out there who can't adequately support their families.
[because you need the relationship skills for the relationship]
no you don't need relationship skills for the relationship. Just like there are plenty of mothers out there who don't have "motherly skills" but yet are mothers. Just like there are plenty of fathers out there who are bad or incompetent fathers.
[And second are you saying orphans donāt exist?]
orphans can't grow unless someone raised them. if nobody fed , clothed you , you wouldn't have the chance to become an adult.
Ok Iām understanding the whole passport bro situation much more clearly now
You women are date-able but not wife material and men go to countries with women who were raised to be wives because they know how to treat a man
Also you have to already be existing in order to be an orphan
You stated ā if nobody decided to raise you you wouldnāt exist ā
Yet you have to already exist in order to be raised
Pure Unadulterated Fallacy.
[You women are date-able but not wife material and men go to countries with women who were raised to be wives because they know how to treat a man]
because women in other countries don't have the same opportunities as women do in the US. In many countries, women are bought and sold as brides with no say who they can marry. They also lack the means to survive on their own. Often times, they are married to men they do not love just so they can be fed.
[Yet you have to already exist in order to be raised
Pure Unadulterated Fallacy.]
nobody said you don't need to exist in order to be raised.
if you're asking who raised me? I would say my parents.
very simple answer.
How is it they have less opportunity but are better suited for Marriage and man pleasing?
[ nobody said you don't need to exist in order to be raised. ]
āYou wouldn't exist if nobody decided to raise you.ā your exact words.š
[How is it they have less opportunity but are better suited for Marriage and man pleasing?]
because these women don't actually want to please their man. they are just pleasing their man because they know its the only way they can eat. Women don't go to college in other countries.
[āYou wouldn't exist if nobody decided to raise you.ā your exact words.]
well its true... you wouldn't be here today if your mother dumped you in the trash can and nobody fed you.
Thatās because being taught how to
Be a good wife is worth more than a college education
Also you should travel and read up on history more thatās not the only way for them to live but smart people know that if they have the option to work they choose not to
Do you even know what the kind
Never mind because you clearly donāt understand men
@anusndapainus
i know more about history than you.
did you know that the only jobs avaialble to girls in many countries are just maid jobs or prostitution?
did you know that women aren't allowed to go to college in many countries?
do you know that women that they do not love just so they can eat hteir next meal?
just because she has to be a good wife, it doesn't mean she loves you...
[Also you should travel and read up on history more thatās not the only way for them to live but smart people know that if they have the option to work they choose not to]
why do you think so many illegal immigrants want to come to the US? Because they know girls can go to school and get careers here.
do you know that women married men they do not love just so they can eat their next meal?
women in other countries WANT TO WORK AND EARN MONEY but they just aren't allowed to.
women in other countries WANT TO GO TO COLLEGE but they just aren't allowed to.
its just that women don't have rights in many of those countries
The women here who do work donāt want to all they do is complain about it
A career is for women who canāt get husbands
Those women have no opportunities yet are still better at keeping men , being feminine submissive and FIT.
What does that tell you about who men are and what we want?
@anusndapainus
well women have to work careers in the US because vast majority of American men can't afford housewives.
whats so masculine about a man who can't provide?
Immigrants come to this country and thrive of 30k a year or LESS
American women want to be treated like princesses not wives
Being a wife is a job
@anusndapainus
you can't even support 1 person on 30k a year or less. don't even talk about supporting a wife and kids with that.
men like you who can't adequately provide are not real men.
[Being a wife is a job]
being a husband is a job. and you can't even fulfill your job as a husband. don't even talk about a wife not fulfilling her role.
First of all, such a woman would be 1 in 100,000,000.
But no, men are not intimidated by a woman like that. If men are put off by her then she's not everything you claim she is.
there's way more women like that than you think... they're just not famous enough for you to recognize her.
"slim, feminine, submissive, kind lady who is educated, accomplished, owns businesses, has a high paying career, holds rental properties all across the US. Self made lady who is humble, hardworking, modest, drives a honda"
Sorry, but no there are not.
I know her personally so it doesn't matter if you don't believe it. she's a doctor.
If she is everything you said, she would have guys beating down her door. Men are not intimidated by women like you describe. There is something else going on.
no - most likely she didn't earn it but instead stole it in a divorce or inherited it after a male relative eared it.
she's never married.
she's a doctor
A Little bit, It depends how Confident we are.
Mostly we just find them less Attractive than other Girls usually.
and i can guarantee it all has to do with your ego being threatened.
Makes no difference to me whether she is rich or poor.
The only lady with money who is slim, feminine and submissive is the one who comes from family wealth.
I never was, but I think most would as it is lowering there man hood by a women paying
love should be about more than just money. it should be about being with someone who can give you the best time of your life, showing your appreciation for a person, enjoying how that person makes you feel. Its sad how some people have degraded the concept of love and marriage so much.
its only a matter of time before you will be gone too. appreciate your time while you still have it.
I'm put off by intelligent pompous arrogance no matter who it is but not by good upstanding successful people.
most guys aren't talking to rich women, and women jn general are picky so a rich woman is even picker, I don't know what world you live in
Not in my experience but I've only known one, my incredibly wealthy late antique dealer
What does money have to do with anything? He, She, doesnāt matter. They all put their pants on one leg at a time just like the poorā¦.
I guess some will. I don't care about money so doesn't bother me have my own job and money just matters what you are like as person
men are never intimidated by women unless she's really hot
Thats a lie. Plenty of men feel threatened by rich ladies
weak losers maybe
I'm poor (or almost), so I'm not sure a rich woman would be attracted by me.
Lets make a power couple is what I would think... - Mr. Barrington
no, but they find them undesirable as they just don't need us and we like to provide
Only if she talks about it and shows off but usually women that successful donāt date down
She says she's willing to date down if he is hard working and professional
Yeah? Iām hard working and make $100,000 a year but still canāt find a down to earth woman like that
true these women are rare... but they do exist.
I wish I knew one, hard to find one that like that
Men don't care about these things. That's HER money, and he won't see a penny if it.
It isn't like those women give these men the time of day anyway
She says she's willing to date down if he is hard working and professional
Men know that's bullshit
cuz you're just bitter and jaded
No, because it's just very unlikely.
I'm not even giving women shit for this, but the reality is most women want a man who she knows could take care of her, even if she fully supports herself. I'm not saying there's anything wrong with that.
she doesn't want a man to support her because she doesn't need one. she just wants a life companion. someone to enjoy life with. is that so wrong?
Right, but I said most will still want to know her guy COULD support her.
And no, there's nothing wrong with that... However, most will want to enjoy life with a life companion who COULD support her.
I think there's more to marriage than just about money and supporting someone. Marriage should be about love , being around someone who can give you the best time of your life, appreciating the person you are with rather than some stupid bull crap about money.
Tell that to women then lol
Me, personally, if I found the woman you're describing, I wouldn't be intimidated. I'm still going to do what I need to do to be a man and support myself. I'm never going to live off my woman, so I don't care if she's making more than me.
Would you be with someone who doesn't need you to support them?
I would have no problem with that
That doesn't exist outside of someone's imagination. You need balls to own businesses.
Lol, do they exist?
Yes they do
she's a doctor
Where is the long line of men who are willing to be her husband then?
She works a lot and doesn't have a very big social circle to meet men.
is she good looking? Because you never mentioned it
she's average looking.
If I was her age, I would date her. But looks do matter and to me that would be the first thing I'd checked.
@artgorgeous
she's 34.
looks are important to her too. she's not interested in men over 40
Well then she needs to hurry up because time runs out pretty fast
she's in no rush to get married. she wants to keep her options open.
but you know, each year, a gap in this door shrinks likewise her options
@artgorgeous
I think it shrinks for everyone including men, not just her.
I agree, but men have wider spectrum of choice with age.
@artgorgeous
data records show that vast majority of men marry and have kids prior to 40s. most men marry in 20s-30s
Men can have kids after 40s and 50 and 60s. Women after 40s not likely.
@artgorgeous
when given the option to pick between a young man versus old man, the young lady will always pick the young man.
your chances of scoring a young lady declines as you get older too.
And the broke young lady will choose sugar daddy. Which is not the case in our case.
Speaking of question I wouldn't be intimidated by a rich woman.
@artgorgeous
well... you wouldn't have the money to buy a young wife either...
Can't disagree, not many men can.
@artgorgeous
she's planning on having kids on her own if she doesn't find the right man.
Sperm bank?
she doesn't trust sperm banks. she says its dishonest business. you never really know where the sperm comes from... it can be from an idiot to serial killer to an obese man. She only wants ivy league sperm from young men.
So what is she going to do? milk some guy? Or there is special secret bank with ivy league sperm for rich women?
plenty of young men looking to sleep around at the ivy league universities.
oh so this is the plan
@artgorgeous
Yea she's a doctor. She knows what she's doing
No, but i don't think we would end up together.
The insecure ones will crumble. 😂
they do... men are sensitive about this stuff
So, why does she need a man, at that point?
Are women intimidated by rich men?
No , why would I be?
What you described is exceedingly rare.
She is the one who will be "picky" seeking top tier men, who have their choice of women.
Yes if he is gay in the closet
A bit yeah i think
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