GIRLS.. My girlfriend thinks my house is too big and wants to buy her own house. How do I convince her not to as it'll ruin the relationship?

[hardboiledink]

She is interested in buying her own house, but if she does that I don't think our relationship would work out? We would have HUGE amounts of money to each spend on our houses not to mention the time and effort to repair, maintain, and run a house. She doesn't' really understand the responsiblity of owning a house and the burden it is.

I'd rather have her move into my house and help pay for it but I dont' think she likes my house enough to do so as she says it's too big! It's almost like a mansion

[artgorgeous]

Oh... so she wants to use you to buy herself a house. How comfortable it is - live with you in your house, eat food you buy, you pay Bill's, and she invests all her money in her house. And then what? She leaves you as soon as she's done with payments? Strong and independent woman. This is really serious, if she keeps acting like that, you need to reconsider your relationship.

[OlderAndWiser]

How long have you been dating? Do you think the relationship will become permanent?

[LiamJHayden]

"I'd rather have her move into my house and help pay for it" Without getting any equity? I don't blame her for wanting her own.