Why do some women think not having an education or a career is a good thing?

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just remember... if you're relying on a man to feed you, he also has the power to starve you. If you're stuck in an abusive marriage, you wouldn't have the option to leave because you know won't be able to feed yourself without him. Without a way to make a decent income for yourself, your life is without options. You are powerless if you can't provide for yourself as a fully grown adult.

love_conquers_lust · Accepted Answer

Oh my god. MY primary complaint isn’t with an education. It’s that a lot of the dumb women on here and Democrat voters in general truly don’t have one, even if they have a fucking degree. They vote to their own detriment. It’s like they didn’t learn a fucking thing and didn’t learn how to think. They were fed Marxist bull shit and swallowed it like compliant sluts. Especially from sociologists. You think some flower child from the 60s who spent that entire decade high as a kite knows what the fuck they are talking about?

Your odds of getting married continue to shrink. It’s down to 60%, and it’s because those dumb shits vote the wrong people in office who actually have the power to fix all this shit. YOUR DEMOGRAPHIC DID IT. WOMEN AND MINORITIES DID IT. THAT’S the truth. You wanted to escape the very scenario you describe, fine. But you had to oppress guiltless white men to do it. YOU’RE THE OPPRESSORS AND THE CONTROLLING FUCKS. AND YOU WON’T ADMIT IT. Which means this country is fucked. And it will continue to circle the drain into mediocrity at best as we diversify. We keep dropping. We keep widening wealth inequality. I don’t give a shit if whites have more than minorities, learn to fucking live it. It’s not the majority of whites that are the problem. It’s the few WASPs, Jews, NWOs, whatever elite asshole, who are of any race, at the top.

Like, what do you want? You want to fix this shit it not? You want to keep warring with us because you won’t win. Nobody wins. Use your fucking brains, get the fuck rid of Affirmative Action and implement corporate codetermination. Fucking sick of this war. It’s going to turn physical if you guys don’t wake the fuck up.

And there are plenty of foreign trolls who want nothing more to see that.

AviatorTom · Accepted Answer

Some women want their man to be in charge, to realize that he has to take care of her. The less educated and independent they are, the more they become dependent on him, and some men like that.

BlackBeauty90 · Accepted Answer

Bluntly. Nowadays most want a career or at least a job. The only real exceptions are:
- Women who are content to sit on welfare with a half dozen different-father children,

- Who grew up psychologically beaten down/abused as a child, just like her mother, by a "man" who took pleasure in targeting those weaker than him & couldn't escape (so she thinks she is supposed to be jobless / careerless and as weak/vulnerable as mum)

- Who come from poorer background. Not necessarily because they can't afford it but because they weren't raised in an educated household & thus it's an "alien" concept.

- Who have issues be they either severe mental issues, alcoholism or drug abuse. Sadly in America being raised to be an alcoholic or drug user - due to bad influence of parents or family - is far more common than is justified by any stretch of the imagination.

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Nowadays the average woman WANTS to be educated and have a career. Even in so called 3rd world countries like Africa more and more girls are striving to, at least, attend basic education something that was almost never heard of just 20-30 years ago.

Because as you said very accurately when you rely & depend on someone else you are subject to their desires. Their control. And there is little one can do to get away from it.

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And why women (and men too) who are abused report it far less than many think - because they know if the shit-stain who gave them 2 black eyes goes to jail there is almost nobody who can pay bills, buy food, etc.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

While I'm somewhat glad I went the route of getting my education, I would much rather have gone the route of being a stay at home wife and mom. Working is exhausting and I absolutely hate it. I want a man to take care of me. And now that I'm in my 30s, it's going to be hard to find a man to do that. The best years to have been chosen for that are long pass me unless I get a 60 or 70 year old man and even many of them look for 20 somethings. I had two opportunities to do it when I was in my 20s and I blew it. I'm now with a guy that I love but know he will never be able to make me a stay at home wife and mom. He just doesn't have that kind of money and probably never will have that kind of money.

I get what you are saying about having the option to leave whenever you want especially if it's an abusive marriage with having a degree but I also don't knock women who went for the man instead especially a wealthy man who can take care of you and you never having to worry about paying a God damn bill or being in debt.

My debt is colossal and it would have been absolved if I had went the sugar daddy route. RIP to my financial freedom which went out the window the moment I had to take out student loans to get my MA.

Summeroflove · Answer

I don’t have a problem with someone who wants to be a stay at home mom or housewife. Though I think some have unreasonable expectations that makes them single and struggling in the end. “They can have whatever standards” that’s true but so can men.

I digress. The fact of the matter is. Many of them feel entitled. They really just demand everything and give little to nothing in return. No self respecting man wants that.

There are housewives and stay at home mothers who do most the housework, raise the kids, and do almost everything there is to do. Everyone wants something different. Doesn’t have to be what you or I are looking for. But we all have our own lives to live and we can’t be worried and focused on what other people are doing.

If someone finds what makes them happy. Then I’m happy for them. As long as it isn’t hurting someone

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

Because life is too short to be brainwashed by people like you. Some women get satisfied and really happy with being a housewife making it their true career and passion and people like you are just taking it away from them. If you are talking about the risks then I tell you everything has risks. Even if you have to pursue your career, it has risks.

And I see you are only talking about women's side. What you dont not realize is that even if men have an education or a career, they can still get stuck in a loveless marriage because women still have the power even if they don't have any education or career because the family court biases are always on their sides. A man can lose 1/3 of his income on divorce and even potentially the house and the kids and even get jailed if he doesn't have enough left for the child support which is exactly why most men don't want to get married and if you think it is selfish then what's your selfish reason why you want to get married even if you do have a career?

Daniela1982 · Answer

Because they are just playing the part of a fool. With marriages failing more than those which make it past 10 years, a person had better have a good job or career. She won't have any retirement and can't depend on anyone to help her. With no job she might not even get Social Security, if that is even around anymore the way things are going. With no education her job prospects might be dim also. Who knows if she will even get anything in a divorce. People may say the house, but can she afford the taxes and upkeep on one? So what's she gonna do, call Ghost Busters? Only in her dreams.  SHIT! I'M SCREWED!

Ozanne · Answer

The only time I've met women who thought this was okay were the type of women who didn't know any better. They were raised by parents where her mother also didn't have any education or worked, and lived in a community where it was common that the women didn't work. They just went with the flow of what was expected of them.

I disagree with this, and think women should broaden their options just in case something happens, even if it means taking online courses or working from home just to establish something on their resume. You're right when you say if they rely on men, they are in a terrible situation if their man decides to take it all away.

provokeesmokee · Answer

Some women really do like being useless bimbos.

I met one and holy shit, she was as annoying and stupid as you'd expect sometime like that to be.

Thing is, parasites like that don't care if they can't support themselves. They don't want to. They want to be helpless so their victims are obligated to care for them.

The bimbo I knew couldn't cook, clean, or work. Her poor boyfriend did everything for her, it felt very uncomfortable to witness.

My friend group cut her out because she got way too whiney and stupid for us to tolerate.

Lionman95 · Answer

Because they may come from a family where their mother stayed at home and it worked out well. I would say because they want to prioritise family and not see someone else raise their children. Having a career can also have its cons because it's stressful and hard for many people and it's not fulfilling for many. I knows quite a lot of people guys and girls that just work to make a living and see their life's fulfillment in their hobbies and family not in work. They so called work to live their life.

I think some women gave up on trying to make it in the corporate work force and get purpose so they prefer working at home, raising kids and create a healthy environment at home. I agree though that it comes with risks for her and that she should evaluate them especially what's the consequences of not having an education.

CubsterShura · Answer

Mainly because a lot of women are taught that the very natural and normal experience of going through stress in school and work in a capitalistic world is somehow us going against our nature and that this is not supposed to happen to us. They don't understand that this is just a normal human experiences and university is no cup of tea even for people who are passionate academics. They are sold the narrative that as long as they remain attractive and do a few chores they can keep a man when in reality you are not in control of others and you won't realistically be able to maintain a picture-perfect life especially after having kids.

Anonymous · Answer

Not having an education is neither good nor bad.

Not having a career is neither good nor bad.

Not knowing how to earn money is bad. If you think trading time for money is earning money you have a problem. If someone else is controlling how much you earn... you have a problem. You think not having an education and career is bad because you don't know how to earn money. It's written all over you the way you talk. People who know how to earn money don't worry about education. If you want one that's fine but you can go earn 6 figures right now with the proper direction. People need to learn how to earn money. That's one of the biggest problems.

bingbongbangbung · Answer

The women that choose to be corporate wage slaves are being just as exploited, if not more than if they chose to be housewives with kids. In the West, a woman can easily just divorce their husband and live off of child support and/or alimony, or just monkey branch to a higher status man. Your arguments only work for women that live outside the West and/or those living in extremely abusive relationships. Good thing I'm a man so it doesn't matter to me, and I skipped the corporate ladder entirely by creating my own AI startup a few months back.

DextroShade · Answer

You are just too insecure to trust a man. Most men will treat a woman well, but the reason you don't see this is because you let yourself get passed around by the guys who don't.

A woman's duty is to the home first, and career women make shitty wives and mothers. Also, women who don't have careers can still get alimony and child support if the marriage doesn't work out so they don't lack options. If anything the guy is taking the bigger risk because the woman can cheat on him or divorce him for no reason and he STILL has to pay her.

You had best get over your insecurities and fear of men or you will die alone.

genericname85 · Answer

is it a bad thing? i mean let's say you wanna be a stay at home wife and rise children. is that not a great thing? does that not help society repopulate and have a stable future? why are you buying the terrible propaganda that this is supposed to be a "bad" thing?

patrick994 · Answer

They are unintelligent girls, a career man as you say would have complete domination over them, they were probably brought up in a macho family where the man used to bring the money home, or they are simply women who do not want to work and aspire to be supported by the well-to-do guy, but if one day the well-to-do guy gets fed up with them, they will become poorer than before;

jshm2 · Answer

Because they have more going for them?

Seriously, what's with your gatekeeping? Some women can be independently wealthy from an inheritance, some actually give a fuck and get along with their man.

You are seriously expecting changes because of a minority of women cannot maintain a relationship.

Anonymous · Answer

agreed. this is why i don't agree with stay at home moms... that dude leaves, you're left with nothing except a kid. no career started, no money (except the money you take from your ex), no support, no education degree to create a better life for you and your kid... just setting yourself up for failure, they are practically slaves that just don't know it yet.

Unit1 · Answer

i believe those, that uphold this view in our current times are either old people, who are used to their old times previously or these "men" have the very intention of controlling women like women are their obedient and trapped servants or kids.

The latter don't give a F that you'll starve as a result of you adhering to their ideals.

Anonymous · Answer

If they want to be a traditional woman its not a problem because she will be at home with kids anyway. In america specifically its important to know if you want to be a trad wife because education costs so much there that for her to be at home would be an unnecessary dept for the family

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Hey, you used my line you saw on here? About "He who feeds you also has the power to starve you" 😂

Anyways, they are being naive or seriously hoping it doesn't turn out bad for them but they will mostly likely have a 75% chance it won't work for them and they gonna find out the hard way.

Spongebobssocks · Answer

Less than 1% of marrigaes failed in the 60's when tradiotion marriges was a thing. Now its 50%. So that risk is much higher nowadays.

AnusNdaPainus · Answer

a career can’t satisfy her maternal instincts

also if work is optional then smart people don’t work

suckers work

that’s why it’s not called “The Real Working Bitches of Miami” it’s The Real Housewives.

loveslongnails · Answer

True that. You don't necessarily need a career to keep as a backup, but educating yourself should be a priority. Maybe some women are ok putting themselves in the position where they're wholly dependent on a man. Makes no sense to me.

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