I plan to go on a date with a girl, she's really looking forward to it. As a guy I feel like it's my job to take the lead and plan stuff out, to pay for dinner/other stuff outdoors. I'm trying to think of restaurant ideas. I live in Toronto and Toronto is known as a diverse, multi-cultural city with so many types of different foods from Italian, Chinese, Japanese, Pakistani/Indian, Polish, Caribbean, etc. I know a great burger spot that serves gourmet burgers, I know a good pasta spot but the atmosphere there may be a little annoying because it tends to be super loud and I want to talk to her.
I asked her if she has any spots but she's like, I'll leave it up to and said I'm good with whatever. Because I live in Toronto, she works downtown as well. I thought about one idea, it is a romantic spot, have to dress properly, it is pricey ($75 or so per person). It's a restaurant inside the CN Tower. I provided pictures below. My question is, would the CN tower restaurant idea be a little too much, the food is good and the view is spectacular. Or should I hold off on an idea like that and choose something like a good burger spot or cafe spot. She mentioned she loves this place that serves certain pastries. The date is still almost 2 wks away, but I just want to plan now.
What Girls Said
no its not there is a similar restaurant in london at the heron tower and i been there on dates with men and for my birthday so many times. its super expensive buts its worth the money. you should take the girl there and pay for the whole date.
Here’s the only thing though I think going there is very special, romantic and classy. But as a first date I don’t know I want to make a good impression don’t get me wrong but what if worse case scenario after the first date she’s not feeling it. I just spent $250 and got rejected. But on the other hand sure, it may surprise her that no guy has done this and is wow’d. But as a guy we tend to think more negatively on a woman/girl being positive in response.
i think the way most people date in london is the first date is like a posh meal with someone beautiful. think about it some men pay escorts 1000s just to have someone beautiful to eat with. life isn't all about money its also about living.