Why can't I get the guy I lost my virginity to off of my mind?

[Anonymous]

I lost my virginity 3 years ago and this guy and I don't talk anymore but I can't seem to ever forget about him. I liked the chase the rush of never know what he was feeling. I'm in a committed relationship now with a guy of 2 years but I still keep wondering what this guy is up to.

[Anonymous]

This happened because you are designed to bond with the one you have sex with.

https://optionshealth.org/blog/2017/how-are-the-hormones-released-during-sex-like-human-super-glue/

'Women are more sensitive to the effect of oxytocin, a hormone that is also found to be a bonding hormone released during childbirth and nursing. During sexual activity, as oxytocin is released, it “acts as emotional super glue between partners”. '

With him being your very first, it's likely above could be even more intense.

[Alex-Snow]

We all remember our first fondly. How is your sex life now?

[sheikalana]

The fact that you never knew how he was feeling still intrigues you. That's what happens when you don't get closure.

[Nikki1989]

I have no idea. Losing your virginity is hardly a big deal.

[Anonymous]

What's he doing now? Plowing some other chick.😆

[Iron_Man]

Because he was your first

[Emanon25]

Get a new boyfriend

[Luckycharms12]

Move on find someone else