How do you stay faithful to your partner? Also, do I have to tell future partners I cheated on my ex? (Page 2)

[Twalli]

You don't have to unless you still feel the same things you did when you cheated. Maybe you can tell them when your relationship deepens that you cheated on your ex because...
My girlfriend finally told me she cheated on her first boyfriend because he wouldn't take the hint and accept they were broken up.

[Anonymous]

If you have to ask this question you might want to consider that committed relationships just aren't right for you. Because it isn't hard when you truly love someone.

As for disclosing it in the future, that depends. Do you want your relationship built on the truth or on lies. You can lie about and roll the dice on what happens if and when he finds out. But you can't undo that fact that you lied at that point.

[BoopBoopBeep]

I spent 8-9 years overseas and never cheated on anyone. I see no need to and I've never been tempted, since the women who tried had no legitimate chance.

[molonski2]

Morally you certainly need to tell future individuals what happened and why , in the very least you will owe them that , it cannot be kept as a selfish secret.

[sheikalana]

No, you don't have to tell them what happened in previous relationships. I would never commit to someone if I knew I couldn't be faithful to them. I've always been faithful in my relationships that's what's natural to me and what makes sense.

[bowenw]

I think the past is the past and don't mention it. Hopefully you won't cheat again when you are in a serious long-term relationship. If you are really concerned about it you could see a therapist.

[WhitneySnow]

You made a mistake. You’re sorry and you’ll never do it again, at least as long as your boyfriend is good to you. No you don’t have to tell. That’s your business.

[HelpfulWoman]

Yeah you should absolutely tell them you're a big red flag.

[kareenakapur]

thats why im like do i hide that lol

[HelpfulWoman]

Thats the consequences. You have to live with them. Basically have you learnt the lesson or are you still a lying and cheating piece of scum?

[ShesRad80]

if you are truly in love it isn't hard.

maybe you just need to be single and find yourself, work on yourself?

[Nikki1989]

If you find the right partner, staying faithful is easy.

[jojoiwiwbwjo]

Should not be necessary tho...

[jahaims]

I'm not trash so being unfaithful isn't even a little bit tempting. Yeah you tell them you cheated in the past. Go to therapy or you are going to just die a lonely whore or a whore who has been ran through and settles on a simp.

[AmeerX]

Sometimes it's best to let bygones be bygones. You don't have to discuss it. Keep it to yourself and don't debate this topic with your relationship otherwise you will have problems and he might pin it on you

[DreamLife7]

You need therapy and an std check. The fact that you're so weak and insecure that you'd spread you legs to the entire universe demonstrates your lack of self worth and please get checked.

[kareenakapur]

im a virgin lol

[DreamLife7]

Still a garden tool hun

[kareenakapur]

what?

[exitseven]

You wake up every morning and remind yourself how lucky you are to have a great relationship and there is no way you want to screw it up.

[Z1pTD]

Yeah just sit him down and be like "hey so I'm gonna tell you about my past"

Tell him the whole situation and idt it'll be an issue

[NeverGiveUp69]

If you think you will do it again then don't tell them. If you are done with fooling around then just explain what happened. It was long distance, shit like that is bound to happen

[LunarEclipse433]

If it is the right guy, you probably won’t want any any others. Your perfect guy may want an open relationship. That will be between the two of you and how y’all feel comfortable.

[Nifrayu]

I think it's a good idea to be upfront about your past cheating. I believe honesty is necessary for healthy relationships.

[genericname85]

It's very easy. I just don't stick my penis into another girls Vagina.

[tfan1]

Find the one you want, stick with him, ignore the temptation of others.