Girls, can you accept this fact?

[Twalli]

Stop asking whether or not a guy wants sex or a relationship. He wants sex, no question. Even if he wants it in a relationship, he wants sex. If you deny sex for too long he will leave you. Have sex when you feel ready. He's probably felt ready longer (probably longer than you've been dating). No halfway decent guy will dump you if you have sex (even if it is the first date). So don't have sex if you aren't ready, but don't hold back to make sure he actually wants a relationship. Final point, if you don't feel ready, tell him. Any decent guy will wait until you feel ready.

[DizzyDesii]

I’ve never asked a guy if he wants to have sex. Thats pretty obvious. But i will ask if he's a virgin and/or waiting til marriage. I will also STATE (not ask) that I do not have sex in a relationship until I am ready. I specify that I likely won't feel ready unless in a longterm relationship and in love with them. I will tell them I prefer sex closer to the 6+ month mark. I will tell him that if he can't handle waiting up to that amount then he should just give up on us already. I will also state that if i feel ready sooner than later, so be it BUT that it is unlikely. Im pretty straightforward 🤷‍♀️

[provokeesmokee]

Damn, poor asexual men. Ace erasure is not okay, but you have the maturity of a teenage boy from the 70s so it isn't unexpected of you.

[Monalisa77]

Highly doubt thats what theyd want of me😂and they won't get it that easy

[Anonymous]

I already know these.

[Anonymous]

Pretty common knowledge.

[LazerBean]

Yikes.