Why can't I accept that I'm ugly?

[Anonymous]

I know I'm below average in terms of looks, but why can't I just accept this, eve EU day I obsess over my look. I cope too much. Why can't I accept the fact?

Even before I got on rate me forums, I always viewed myself as average looking.

I look bad on my phone camera, cameras with small lenses.

I think I look regular in regular looking cameras with big lenses.

And I think I look decently good looking in the mirror.

Some people think I'm ugly some people think I look good, some say I look regular.

Live chatted a random girl, she said I was ugly and closed her phone.

I don't know I just can't accept I'm ugly these days

[chickenneck75]

Because there really isn't such a thing we all see different when it comes to attraction , plus everyone's perception of beauty is horribly misguided by mainstream media. Ever wonder why over half of the Marriages end up in devorse? It's because we don't know what we like in a person much less knowing what real beauty is or who is the perfect man or wamon for us when we really when we don't even know who we are . Over half of Americans have two or more things that they hate about themselves so that shows you that people are disappointed on them selfves and that terribly impacts confidence and self-esteem so with that being said that's here's where depression comes in to play , we as humans when we aren't happy in our own shoes we disapprove with our own thoughts our well being and we end up not loving ourselves , when a person isn't happy or there unsatisfied with who they are they can never truly love someone else you just won't know how , if we can't fix us we can't be 100% for them , we can't give 100% of us to them , from there let's say at least half of us Americans are disappointed in themselves have problems with self-esteem and confidence problems in them selves now how can they truly take on someone's heart and take care of it when we can't fix our heart , we think someone's love will fix us but it never does it actually puts a slow poison in the love most certainly ruin the person good heart you loved , your heart isn't gonna accept this I'm ugly because it's not true , we as in human beings need to get outta this funk the gov and elites put us in everyone is chasing something that isn't there and wasting there lives for nice things that there made to believe that's what they need and gotta have , we as a whole need to wake up our perceptions of what love beauty and what's important and what's not is killing everyone , we would never feel the way we do if there was no TV no glamor magazines we made to think this is this and that is that and it's not from the time were born were told how to be , what's bad and what's not. here's a example when we were baby's our moms grandma s would yell or hollar or we get a pop if we got near water so we learn to fear big body's of water but in all actuality we know how to swim , we can swim as soon as out ass slid outta the birth canal but our mothers learned from there mother's so and so on get what I'm saying we don't know who we are were told who we are , native Americans got there true named after a certain age because they were named after animal s or the four forces wind , fire, water might be three but you understand. Are named what sounds good to our parents or after uncle Joe , we are constantly being told what's the best for use what we need , find you lean who you are let go of material things that you think you need and if it's something you can't do with out that's the first thing you should put down. Our things we have control us and this generation just don't get it

[CanadianGirlx23]

You are not ugly. You're going through hormonal changes and have yet to fully mature. Give it time. Eventually, you'll grow into your looks. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder

[Anonymous]

It's tough

[Asker]

I would always view myself as average and a bit attractive too. I don't know, now I'm just viewing myself as ugly these days

[Opinion Owner]

Because no girl shows any interest?

[Asker]

No, because I use to get rated 4s to 4.5 on reddit and like some people say I look decent on reddit and here. My ratings are scattered. It's so complicated to explain.

But I knew I was ugly when I started matching everything together


People in school dont pay attention to me even when im socializing and girls dont give me indicators even when I'm very close to them or they like my personality

[Asker]

I had some girls call me ugly too on a app

[Opinion Owner]

Leave the app

[Asker]

Will that honestly help anything. If people perceive me like this online, it's going to reflect like in real life. A good looking person will usually get called good looking online and in real life

[Opinion Owner]

Yes.. it will help you in self confidence