Canceled our date because of the party last night. Does he deserve a second chance? (Page 2)

lovasucka · 2023-10-10T06:46:09Z

DOES THIS GUY DESERVE A SECOND CHANCE & SHALL I REPLY? Spent 5+ hours on a first date with this guy. We were supposed to meet on Sunday again but he went on a birthday party a night before. On that night I said out of joke "hope you'll still meet me the next day". Instead of saying yes, he said "we will see". A man is 30 years old, so I'd hope he would be responsible. Instead of that, he invited ME to drive all the way to that city to party with them. Of course I didn't do that. Anyways I got turned off so I cancelled the date cause I already could see it wasn't going to happen anyways. Now let me mention we live an hour away from each other so we can only meet on the weekends. He's sent quite some messages since then: sorry for a delay. I'm so tired from yesterday (sun 3 pm) sorry for not meeting you, it wasn't intentional... if you're upset (sun 6 pm) i'm going to sleep. hope to speak to you tomorrow. gn (sun 9 pm) good morning (mon 5 am) are u not interested anymore annie? (mon 12 pm)

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Guardian45 Follow
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7 mo

He had his chance. He missed out. NEXT!

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- lovasucka
  
  7 mo
  Yeah, tbh if you're interested, you are excited to meet again... you don't drink on a party like there's no tomorrow. Then he can also cheat if you get in a relationship with him, and he will say "ops it wasn't intentional"
  
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- Guardian45
  
  7 mo
  Exactly!
  
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Danny_dan92 Follow
Master Age: 32

7 mo
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Don’t you have a boyfriend?

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Twalli Follow
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7 mo
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You canceled the date.

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- lovasucka
  
  7 mo
  Hm don't you see this as a cancelling "oh we will see if we can meet" "can't you come to the party instead" " I don't wanna cancel u" "I don't wanna cancel u... forever" "I hope if we don't meet, you won't think I don't wanna see you" "hey sorry for the late response... I AM TIRED" ... see this all indicates that he was cancelling.
  
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- Twalli
  
  7 mo
  It's quite possible that he would have, but he didn't
  
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