Ladies, can a guy chat too much and drive you away?

[LunarEclipse433]

Would you tell them to slow down or just block them?

Just block them

Tell them to slow down

Ignore them then block them if they don’t slow down or stop

Realize they may like chatting with you so much they may accidentally over do it?

[Finchie40]

Yes it just depends on the girl , and how social she is , some girls love to talk and some don’t , so again it just depends on how she looks at things , So if you like to talk , you are best to find a girl that likes to talk as well or you will just be wasting your time talking to her , because she won’t really listen and think you are nuts lol , I am a talker as well and I prefer girls that like to talk , over a girl that just sits there quietly analyzing everyone and everything around her , Usually none talkers are usually judge mental people that have insecurity issues , they are the type to gossip and talk shit behind your back because they are self centered and think the world revolves around them. Unless she is just shy , The shy ones can be fun , if you can break them free of their quietness, if you manage to do so , she more than likely will want to rip your clothes off of you , because she is turned on by the fact that you noticed her and broke the ice with her , most girls’ in general love a guy that is confident and outgoing , a guy that can pretty much get everyone else talking , basically the start of a party.

[Peter_Penetrator]

When you say chat do you mean by blowing up her phone with text and too many phone calls?


Or like out on a date?


I think that conversations are a two way street. If he is constantly talking and isn’t interested in listening to her then l could see her running for the hills.


Or maybe he leads the conversation, keeps her attention by keeping her entertained. Then l could see her being turned on by that.

[laurlaur101]

I’d say yes it can be a turnoff when they’re giving an overwhelming about of messages when first meeting I don’t like everything being done so fast I like to get to know them and start out slower the guys go all in and over do it that’s what turns me off makes me feel like I have to constantly text when I want to have a life

[LunarEclipse433]

Great answer. I am probably guilty of too much too fast.

[laurlaur101]

Yeah I’m glad your acknowledging the mistake and that happened to me with someone he was being too much too quick kept talking to me and he even said that I didn’t like him enough because I was texting back as quick I guess as he wanted I don't know but I’m not real big in texting I can still like someone and not text a lot I rather hear their voice on the phone idc about texting there’s no expression either so hard to pick out what’s truly going on

[pass_the_celery98]

People when they are young and busy always say this or usually do but I’ve noticed elderly people approaching death always want to talk to others and spend time with family and loved ones, end of the day time is not an endless supply. I get it, if it’s a weirdo trying to be a creep by over messaging is annoying. But for those who genuinely care and try to make her laugh and she’s like can you bug off dude, a guy shouldn’t waste his time messaging others then who react that way.

[Monalisa77]

Ye it would be off putting, i like chatting but sometimes i can't type or want to speak on the phone all the time, they need to understand i need some time to myself too

[Guardian45]

And how to tell him that?

[Monalisa77]

I think at the start i would just tell him my routine and what i like doing and i dont really want that destrupted too much, if he wants to be with me he would have to accept that and work around it

[LunarEclipse433]

That sounds like a very reasonable expectation. Some times when the chat gets sexy I lose track of time.

[Monalisa77]

😂Im in bed early these nights too, any nights out would need to be early like 6pm when im not too tired

[Ms_Facesitter]

Not if we're very close. But a stranger, yes.

[Nikki1989]

Yes, that can happen. I keep messaging disabled on my phone to encourage quality conversations.

[love_conquers_lust]

I first read that as texting you’re disabled.

You’re doing us a solid.

[silyt_ghoest]

no i like it when they talk :) i also like em dorky n scrawny so… that’s prob why.

[Jennz6]

We like to get involved with our posts too

[LunarEclipse433]

You know I get very chatty when turned on.

[dragoblack]

From experience... women lose interest super quickly and look for any opportunities to get away. Especially if a guy is passionate about an interest.

[convo_king89]

i know I've been blocked on here for the things I said lol

[Apple1996]

Nope i love chatty men

[riverrat3]

What do you like to chat about

[Apple1996]

@riverrat3 anything is good. I'm a quiet person so I like someone else talking. I'll listen

[Jazzy54]

Yup. It can definitely be obnoxious.

[jaskin777]

It could ya for some girls

[shades777]

id think its the other way around lol

[DreamLife7]

Yes..

[LunarEclipse433]

Shouldn’t the girl give him a hint?

[DreamLife7]

At 67 years old you should grasp social cues

[Anonymous]

With everyone... take it inch by inch

[Anonymous]

Yes that can happen